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By *eeper01 OP   Man
over a year ago

weston super mare

Ok so this has been bugging me I message a lot of people and none rude all very polite to see if there may be any interest with my profile and 90% read and do not reply at all it takes 1 minute yo reply back with a no if that is the case and everyone that does reply I will send them a that's ok thank you for actually replying isn't it common courtesy or at least should t it be?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"isn't it common courtesy or at least should t it be?"

No reply = no interest, see the FAQs

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"everyone that does reply I will send them a that's ok thank you for actually replying"

So we get 2 messages from someone we're not interested in?

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By *eeper01 OP   Man
over a year ago

weston super mare

More so it's nice to not be completely ignored and act like adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that's pretty normal. Have a browse through the forum history and you'll find this is a pretty regular thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I suggest reading the many many other threads on this topic.

No reply, not interested.

Your fab experience will improve massively if you grasp this very simple concept.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Do you reply to every piece of mail through your door?

"Buy our pizza!"

Sorry, not interested.

"Buy our windows and doors!"

Sorry, not interested.

"Sell your property through us!"

Sorry, not interested.

"Vote for us!"

Sorry, not interested.

Women get so many messages that they would need a PA to be able to reply to them all! Plus if they did reply with a "No thank you" they are risking backlash from some guys or continued pestering. So no reply = an easier, quicker and less risky way of saying "Sorry, not interested".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The advice generally given by other users is ; stick with it, don't be discouraged, join in the forums, try and stand out from the crowd in your messages etc etc.

My advice would be try and socialise as you would when meeting new people in any environment. Enjoy the conversations and try not to focus on the swinging part of it too much, if it leads to that then it's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Matey to be fair it gets said alot on these forums, the site is probably 70% males, 15% couples and 10% single women and 5% TV etc, women probably get 100-200 messages a day, men maybe 1, stand out, go to clubs and meets and grow some thicker skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These kinda posts are getting annoying now! How many more times do people need to be told??

People are under no obligation to reply back, yes it is polite but some people (especially most of the women) receive too many messages to be able to read and reply to all of them.

How anout instead of moaning, try making your message stand out from the rest and catch the other persons attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If women replied to every message they got that they weren't interested in then they'd have no time to speak to the ones they were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More so it's nice to not be completely ignored and act like adults "

They are acting like adults by deleting your message rather than entering into a discussion about what they find unappealing about you

As mentioned earlier; read the site FAQs. No reply means not interested

- Mrs. J -

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"If women replied to every message they got that they weren't interested in then they'd have no time to speak to the ones they were. "

hooray

Not to mention replying to people affects any filters you might later apply

And getting a thank you for replying is annoying when you are trying to clear out your inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If women replied to every message they got that they weren't interested in then they'd have no time to speak to the ones they were.

hooray

Not to mention replying to people affects any filters you might later apply

And getting a thank you for replying is annoying when you are trying to clear out your inbox."

I just don't like the thought of the few that do enjoy chatting with me not having the time due to a full inbox

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