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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i'm getting the age old "won't meet unless you're verified" crap all the time. how does one get verified if people won't meet you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a local social and ask people there to verify you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a local social and ask people there to verify you?!"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on cam...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on cam... "

Wow..very hot! X

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

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Well with that attitude I'm not surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on cam...

Wow..very hot! X "

Wow right back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to meet some ok OP so stop messing about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on cam... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people who will meet unverified members, especially if you're happy to meet for a coffee first, but for us your profile would have to be good. Get to A social or a club, or even a cam veri would be a start.

And don't think a veri will suddenly open the floodgates, you still need to make the effort to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My verifications come from people I've met socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm getting the age old "won't meet unless you're verified" crap all the time. how does one get verified if people won't meet you??"

You need a decent profile. Pics not so good. Different attitude be good. Socials or club meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well with that attitude I'm not surprised "

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"i'm getting the age old "won't meet unless you're verified" crap all the time. how does one get verified if people won't meet you??"

Looking at another thread from yesterday, you need to head to Devon apparently as there are very few women to choose from in Cornwall, so getting a veri may prove difficult

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"i'm getting the age old "won't meet unless you're verified" crap all the time. how does one get verified if people won't meet you??"

Most people won't meet without messaging, most people won't message if the profile isn't what they are looking for. Start from basics.

Go to a social.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

If you think that looking like a grumpy bugger and saying naff all other than basically just saying you're just like pretty much every other guy on this site - you're looking for sex - is enough to attract people and get them interested in meeting, and that the lack of verifications is your problem... I'd advise you to think again.

To get verifications you need to attract people to meet you. You have so much competition from guys who have made the effort to use their profiles to sell themselves, why don't you try to even the playing fields, or even make yourself stand out, by making a bit of effort yourself? Women have so many men to choose from! Why should they chose someone who can't be arsed over someone who can at least smile and look like they would be fun to meet...?

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By *aneAndTarzanCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"If you think that looking like a grumpy bugger and saying naff all other than basically just saying you're just like pretty much every other guy on this site - you're looking for sex - is enough to attract people and get them interested in meeting, and that the lack of verifications is your problem... I'd advise you to think again.

To get verifications you need to attract people to meet you. You have so much competition from guys who have made the effort to use their profiles to sell themselves, why don't you try to even the playing fields, or even make yourself stand out, by making a bit of effort yourself? Women have so many men to choose from! Why should they chose someone who can't be arsed over someone who can at least smile and look like they would be fun to meet...? "

Wouldn't have worded it quite so harshly myself, but yeah - this!! Haha x

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"If you think that looking like a grumpy bugger and saying naff all other than basically just saying you're just like pretty much every other guy on this site - you're looking for sex - is enough to attract people and get them interested in meeting, and that the lack of verifications is your problem... I'd advise you to think again.

To get verifications you need to attract people to meet you. You have so much competition from guys who have made the effort to use their profiles to sell themselves, why don't you try to even the playing fields, or even make yourself stand out, by making a bit of effort yourself? Women have so many men to choose from! Why should they chose someone who can't be arsed over someone who can at least smile and look like they would be fun to meet...?

Wouldn't have worded it quite so harshly myself, but yeah - this!! Haha x"

Reading back through it, I guess I am. I don't mean to be, I'm just rubbish at sugar coating and hiding the point in all fluffs and rainbows

I just find it strange that some guys think that women are waiting to drop their knickers for any guy who sets up a profile, so why bother making an effort to attract anyone because women are all just desperate to find any guy who advertises that they want to meet?

A profile that is just "I'm a grumpy bunny who wants sex" is not enough to attract someone. But women won't tend to reply saying that for fear of backlash, so they go for the nicer sounding excuse of no verifications. I on the other hand have a rather annoying habit of stating the obvious

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By *aneAndTarzanCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"If you think that looking like a grumpy bugger and saying naff all other than basically just saying you're just like pretty much every other guy on this site - you're looking for sex - is enough to attract people and get them interested in meeting, and that the lack of verifications is your problem... I'd advise you to think again.

To get verifications you need to attract people to meet you. You have so much competition from guys who have made the effort to use their profiles to sell themselves, why don't you try to even the playing fields, or even make yourself stand out, by making a bit of effort yourself? Women have so many men to choose from! Why should they chose someone who can't be arsed over someone who can at least smile and look like they would be fun to meet...?

Wouldn't have worded it quite so harshly myself, but yeah - this!! Haha x

Reading back through it, I guess I am. I don't mean to be, I'm just rubbish at sugar coating and hiding the point in all fluffs and rainbows

I just find it strange that some guys think that women are waiting to drop their knickers for any guy who sets up a profile, so why bother making an effort to attract anyone because women are all just desperate to find any guy who advertises that they want to meet?

A profile that is just "I'm a grumpy bunny who wants sex" is not enough to attract someone. But women won't tend to reply saying that for fear of backlash, so they go for the nicer sounding excuse of no verifications. I on the other hand have a rather annoying habit of stating the obvious "

I completely agree!

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