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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am just after advice as I am yet to have my first meet after months of trying

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By *eeper01Man
over a year ago

weston super mare

You can accom so try to organize a few social or otherwise parties or find a local swingers club to meet people sometimes people want someone they can meet more than once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says very little about you, a couple of lines of text will not make you stand out from the 100's of other generic single male profiles, and one profile pic gives women very little to go on.

Try searching the forums for other similar threads and you will find masses of advice. Use your profile to sell yourself, it's your shop window.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, I shall think of something today

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As has been said already OP a decent profile blurb that helps you stand out from the crowd is a must OP. Other than that a decent set of pics that show off your body and not your cock is always good. Add a good deal of patience (two months is no time at all) and set your expectations low.

Also give consideration to getting along to clubs or socials and try getting more involved in the forums, they're all great ways of getting to know people.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As has been said already OP a decent profile blurb that helps you stand out from the crowd is a must OP. Other than that a decent set of pics that show off your body and not your cock is always good. Add a good deal of patience (two months is no time at all) and set your expectations low.

Also give consideration to getting along to clubs or socials and try getting more involved in the forums, they're all great ways of getting to know people.

Good luck "

I've met some nice people in the forums too, it's definitely the place to socialise online before arranging meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also your username will put a lot off, I'm assuming you mean raw as in bareback rather than how you like your steak.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ooops

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You can accommodate which is an advantage - you need more quality photos - remember they are photos of you not some crap in the back ground. What can you offer a lady? Answer this: why should a lady have sex with you and not me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers Steve

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Why would anyone be inspired to meet Indifferent?

Sally

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You can accom so try to organize a few social or otherwise parties or find a local swingers club to meet people sometimes people want someone they can meet more than once "

Posted a thread on organising a social as I'd like to help people like OP out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More photos & more information. Your profile name is 'indifferent' and the effort you've put into the profile suggests the same.

That would make me think you would put the same effort into sex - and nobody wants indifferent sex!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am just after advice as I am yet to have my first meet after months of trying"

You call yourself indifferent, what did you expect. You do not stand out at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have amended my profile now can any one tell me if it's any better as I really do want to explore this scene

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I have amended my profile now can any one tell me if it's any better as I really do want to explore this scene "

The advice was more pics and more info. Well you have now got 2 pics, but the text basically says you wany to try swinging...

Does it inspire people to want to reply to your messages???

Maybe try clubs if online is difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shave everything.

Don frock.

Take erotic pics.

Choose from offers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I know but I would like to get my confidence up first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I know but I would like to get my confidence up first "

I know. It takes a little while to settle into it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you Rach, I'll just have to wait and see

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I am just after advice as I am yet to have my first meet after months of trying"

I like your pinny pic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you Rach, I'll just have to wait and see "

No worries. Here to help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am just after advice as I am yet to have my first meet after months of trying

I like your pinny pic... "

Thank you I like your pics also

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I am just after advice as I am yet to have my first meet after months of trying

I like your pinny pic...

Thank you I like your pics also"

Thank you

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You can accommodate which is an advantage - you need more quality photos - remember they are photos of you not some crap in the back ground. What can you offer a lady? Answer this: why should a lady have sex with you and not me? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am just after advice as I am yet to have my first meet after months of trying"

Absolute honesty here, OP (which some don't like). Your chances of getting a meet on here are probably less than if you went out in most city centres. The site is plagued with fakes and people who just want to chat. It's very difficult getting a meet as a couple - Lord help single fellas.

You'll get the usual advice "go to a club" etc. - we tend to think the site must be owned by a club or clubs - because that's always the standard advice.

Site was great a few years ago (we met on here) - sadly it's gone way downhill in our humble opinion

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I struggle to meet too but only because I'm picky. All the above is good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am just after advice as I am yet to have my first meet after months of trying

Absolute honesty here, OP (which some don't like). Your chances of getting a meet on here are probably less than if you went out in most city centres. The site is plagued with fakes and people who just want to chat. It's very difficult getting a meet as a couple - Lord help single fellas.

You'll get the usual advice "go to a club" etc. - we tend to think the site must be owned by a club or clubs - because that's always the standard advice.

Site was great a few years ago (we met on here) - sadly it's gone way downhill in our humble opinion"

I'll come and play ??

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