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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok we wanna go to a club for the first time and we can't decide between isis, la chambre or partners. We're going to be very shy for this first time probably and looking for more the voyeurism side of things more so than having a massive gang bang lol. Which do you guys think would be best to start off with?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I've never been to Isis. La Chambre I found to be full of voyeurs, with little play going on. But a friendly place, and a good start for newbies.

I love Partners. But the times I've been there seems to be an abundance of single men. Fine for me, because I love that, but not so good if you aren't looking for them. There is plenty of rooms, some private, some not. There is also a wet area, but shower well after you get out, because the chlorine is a bugger!!

What about Townhouse, again, I've never been, but I know a lot of people rate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say your best a la chambre as very relaxed and a few people around your age.

isis is not so good for your first visit.

if i can help any more please feel free to mail me and i will help as i can

simon x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say your best a la chambre as very relaxed and a few people around your age.

isis is not so good for your first visit.

if i can help any more please feel free to mail me and i will help as i can

simon x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I vote for La Chambre ... it's a great club, very friendly, and plenty of rooms where you can just watch.

I've heard good things about Partners, though..... but I've never been.

I'm not so sure about Isis.... again I've never been, but some of the reviews on here put me off. I understand that there is no pool or jacuzzi, so fewer opportunities for exhibitionism/voyeurism.

Good luck, whichever club you choose!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Isis is small but I enjoy my times there. Plenty of chances for watching and being watched, but you may find the fact there is no couples only evenings off putting. La Chambre was boring and cliquey when I went but again, could be your thing. Not been to Partners and would love to! Take me with you if you go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be another vote for La Chambre, though have a think about whether you go on Fridays (mixed night with singles/couples) or a Saturday night (couples/single ladies only).

They have viewing windows for most of the rooms and the staff are great and friendly.

Good luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cupids or chams are both good too

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Youtopia is good for couples too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tease 2 in Alconbury, has a hotel in the same location, so you can stay a night, or the whole weekend.

In our eyes this is the best place to go, no matter if you are new, or otherwise.

You'll find the reality of a club very different to your mental image. People are actually very down to earth and not up their own arses...

If you don't like it, try it, you might like it!!!

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

A word in favour of Partners here! Great "wet" area with a lovely big,warm zaccuzzi, colder plunge pool and a nice warm sauna! There`s a half reasonable dungeon, a darkened maze and a room with a glass floor too!

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

Partners is a great club,yes the chlorine is a bit much in the wet areas but clean and modern.See that Jess is a smoker and you have to put a dressing gown on and go outside the fron door into a large van to have a fag! The place is off the main street and not overlooked.There is a couples room with a window so that you can be watched and we havnt had any hassle from single guys.Always remember that no means no and if you say to others that you want to watch and be watched or soft swing only then that should be respected.

Havnt been to Isis or Chams so cant help you there.If it is your fisrt time at a club it can help if you go with another similar couple so you dont feel uneasy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Partners without a doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tease 2 in Alconbury, has a hotel in the same location, so you can stay a night, or the whole weekend.

In our eyes this is the best place to go, no matter if you are new, or otherwise.

You'll find the reality of a club very different to your mental image. People are actually very down to earth and not up their own arses...

If you don't like it, try it, you might like it!!! "

we thinking of going some time in augest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will have a fantastic time, have no doubt, are you going for the weekend?

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

If its between those three then we would strongly suggest LC on a Saturday night.

Partners isn't a bad club, but you can't dress up or dance there, which is always nice for first timers so that the emphasis isn't just sex.

Isis is not representative of whats on the scene at all, lovely people there and well run, but its tiny, its not going to give you an insight as to the kind of clubs that are out, LC will do that.

Tease II is a lovely club, possibly a bit further away, but it does have two of the nicest hosts on your scene your likely to meet. A great club can be really crap if the hosts arent running the place properly and dont make you feel welcome, then your not too likely to have the best time, at the same time you don't want some host over bearing themselves upon you, constantly making reference to the fact that they are free for a shag later (Fortunately those days are mainly long gone now, mainly...)

We would say the best clubs for nervous first timers would be any of the following:

La Chambre

Vanilla Alternative

YouTopia

Tease II

Infusions

Liberty Elite

Vanilla Alternative

Xtasia

Chams

Thats not to say there arent other good clubs out there to, and some of those mentioned above will have people more on your age range than some of the others.

The ones mentioned above have the advantage of clearly defined chill out areas where you will feel your in pretty much a normal club, that said, things can get pretty raunchy anywhere in Chams sometimes!

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

again infusions were the best for first timers , very friendsly andc non-pushy club

great hosts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having done all three clubs in question I would say....

.... for friendliness and social aspect, Isis everytime

.... for facilties, space and wet room, Partners

.... for a nightclub feel night out with playrooms for playing, La Chambre

I do visit Isis every week. The other two I visit occasionally when I have a meet that wants to try a club.

As a young couple for a first time... I would think La Chambre on couples night would be better suited to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys. Gonna go to la chambre me thinks and try get another couple to go with..

P.s to poster about me smoking....officially a non smoker now wooo1 go me :p

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I do visit Isis every week. The other two I visit occasionally when I have a meet that wants to try a club.

As a young couple for a first time... I would think La Chambre on couples night would be better suited to you."

I'm going to try and get to Isis next month, first time for ages. I heard Friday nights are the best. Do you agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

friday nights are the best there yes, but i think wednesday nights are also very good sometimes less people but more play

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