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By *lla_mai OP   Woman
over a year ago

staffordshire

I know thus is going to sound strange to most but theres a valid reason behind it.

If i unblock someone that i have blocked and send them a message and reblock will they still recieve the message and know its from me?

Anybody know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know thus is going to sound strange to most but theres a valid reason behind it.

If i unblock someone that i have blocked and send them a message and reblock will they still recieve the message and know its from me?

Anybody know?"

They would still receive the message and see who it's from I believe. However they wouldnt be able to message back if you reblock them

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By *lla_mai OP   Woman
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I know thus is going to sound strange to most but theres a valid reason behind it.

If i unblock someone that i have blocked and send them a message and reblock will they still recieve the message and know its from me?

Anybody know?

They would still receive the message and see who it's from I believe. However they wouldnt be able to message back if you reblock them "

Thankyou. Thats what i was hoping.

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire

Yes they just cant message you back.. although they could have counter blocked you in that case if you unblock them you cant message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know thus is going to sound strange to most but theres a valid reason behind it.

If i unblock someone that i have blocked and send them a message and reblock will they still recieve the message and know its from me?

Anybody know?

They would still receive the message and see who it's from I believe. However they wouldnt be able to message back if you reblock them "

This is the answer indeed.

So you can't just send an anonymous message "You dick head, fuck off !"

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By *lla_mai OP   Woman
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I know thus is going to sound strange to most but theres a valid reason behind it.

If i unblock someone that i have blocked and send them a message and reblock will they still recieve the message and know its from me?

Anybody know?

They would still receive the message and see who it's from I believe. However they wouldnt be able to message back if you reblock them

This is the answer indeed.

So you can't just send an anonymous message "You dick head, fuck off !""

Its nit like that theyll know its from me regardless, ive tried to compketely cut contact, blocked on here and another site, blocked phone numbers deleted kik but now im getting letters in the post. So it basically to tell them "enough is enough i am willing take it further if i hear from them again"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know thus is going to sound strange to most but theres a valid reason behind it.

If i unblock someone that i have blocked and send them a message and reblock will they still recieve the message and know its from me?

Anybody know?

They would still receive the message and see who it's from I believe. However they wouldnt be able to message back if you reblock them

Thankyou. Thats what i was hoping.

"

Is this the same as shouting "so there" and putting the phone down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lla_mai OP   Woman
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I know thus is going to sound strange to most but theres a valid reason behind it.

If i unblock someone that i have blocked and send them a message and reblock will they still recieve the message and know its from me?

Anybody know?

They would still receive the message and see who it's from I believe. However they wouldnt be able to message back if you reblock them

Thankyou. Thats what i was hoping.

Is this the same as shouting "so there" and putting the phone down? "

Not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know thus is going to sound strange to most but theres a valid reason behind it.

If i unblock someone that i have blocked and send them a message and reblock will they still recieve the message and know its from me?

Anybody know?

They would still receive the message and see who it's from I believe. However they wouldnt be able to message back if you reblock them

This is the answer indeed.

So you can't just send an anonymous message "You dick head, fuck off !"

Its nit like that theyll know its from me regardless, ive tried to compketely cut contact, blocked on here and another site, blocked phone numbers deleted kik but now im getting letters in the post. So it basically to tell them "enough is enough i am willing take it further if i hear from them again""

Hope you saved messages in back up before deleting kik and their contacts etc. This can be used in an harassment case which it would seem you're heading too. Keep the letters.

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By *lla_mai OP   Woman
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I know thus is going to sound strange to most but theres a valid reason behind it.

If i unblock someone that i have blocked and send them a message and reblock will they still recieve the message and know its from me?

Anybody know?

They would still receive the message and see who it's from I believe. However they wouldnt be able to message back if you reblock them

This is the answer indeed.

So you can't just send an anonymous message "You dick head, fuck off !"

Its nit like that theyll know its from me regardless, ive tried to compketely cut contact, blocked on here and another site, blocked phone numbers deleted kik but now im getting letters in the post. So it basically to tell them "enough is enough i am willing take it further if i hear from them again"

Hope you saved messages in back up before deleting kik and their contacts etc. This can be used in an harassment case which it would seem you're heading too. Keep the letters."

Messages i havent. I thought it was finally over after 4 months of hearing nothing. The 2 letters over the past couple of weeks. Which have been kept

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By *aptain BangalotMan
over a year ago

SW London

I'm pretty sure if you tell someone to leave you once and they don't, on the second time it becomes a case of harassment - as long as you have documented it. If you tell the police they will send that person a letter saying to stop it or he will be in trouble the very next time he contacts you in any way or form. Call 101 and get over the phone police advice. It was for your kind of situation that the legislation was set up for. Good luck.

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By *lla_mai OP   Woman
over a year ago

staffordshire


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I'm pretty sure if you tell someone to leave you once and they don't, on the second time it becomes a case of harassment - as long as you have documented it. If you tell the police they will send that person a letter saying to stop it or he will be in trouble the very next time he contacts you in any way or form. Call 101 and get over the phone police advice. It was for your kind of situation that the legislation was set up for. Good luck.

"

Thankyou for that advice. They will have this last chance. If not i will be taking it further

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


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I'm pretty sure if you tell someone to leave you once and they don't, on the second time it becomes a case of harassment - as long as you have documented it. If you tell the police they will send that person a letter saying to stop it or he will be in trouble the very next time he contacts you in any way or form. Call 101 and get over the phone police advice. It was for your kind of situation that the legislation was set up for. Good luck.

Thankyou for that advice. They will have this last chance. If not i will be taking it further"

I wouldn't be giving them one more chance. If you have told them to leave you alone, blocked all other means of communication and they still persist by sending you letters then it is time to report the harrassment to the police.

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By *aptain BangalotMan
over a year ago

SW London


"

I'm pretty sure if you tell someone to leave you once and they don't, on the second time it becomes a case of harassment - as long as you have documented it. If you tell the police they will send that person a letter saying to stop it or he will be in trouble the very next time he contacts you in any way or form. Call 101 and get over the phone police advice. It was for your kind of situation that the legislation was set up for. Good luck.

Thankyou for that advice. They will have this last chance. If not i will be taking it further

I wouldn't be giving them one more chance. If you have told them to leave you alone, blocked all other means of communication and they still persist by sending you letters then it is time to report the harrassment to the police.

"

I totally agree. This person has gone way way beyond the norm. It's time the police got involved for sure. You can call them or go online for advice these days if you don't want to walk into a police station.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't issue warnings, take action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if it's harassment then its a police matter so don't stoke the fire anymore sending a message on here will just do that.

Cut of contact 100% and ask the police for advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I block someone I just move on. Don't feel the need to unblock say my piece and block again.

Just seems childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm pretty sure if you tell someone to leave you once and they don't, on the second time it becomes a case of harassment - as long as you have documented it. If you tell the police they will send that person a letter saying to stop it or he will be in trouble the very next time he contacts you in any way or form. Call 101 and get over the phone police advice. It was for your kind of situation that the legislation was set up for. Good luck.

Thankyou for that advice. They will have this last chance. If not i will be taking it further"

Sounds like the chances are WAY gone. Report to the authorities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I block someone I just move on. Don't feel the need to unblock say my piece and block again.

Just seems childish. "

Just been on the receiving end of that situation.

Talked to a girl here for a few weeks then she blocked me...

Then today she txts me....

And then blocks me again.

Ffs what is it with some people?

And where is the totally fking bemused emoji?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know thus is going to sound strange to most but theres a valid reason behind it.

If i unblock someone that i have blocked and send them a message and reblock will they still recieve the message and know its from me?

Anybody know?

They would still receive the message and see who it's from I believe. However they wouldnt be able to message back if you reblock them

This is the answer indeed.

So you can't just send an anonymous message "You dick head, fuck off !"

Its nit like that theyll know its from me regardless, ive tried to compketely cut contact, blocked on here and another site, blocked phone numbers deleted kik but now im getting letters in the post. So it basically to tell them "enough is enough i am willing take it further if i hear from them again""

Letters in the post? So they know your address. Presumably an ex fuck budy?

Warn them once and then police report without delay.

With such weirdos, you never go how far they may go.

If it was US, you'd have kept your guns close by at all times and blast that motherfucker's arse off. But here, you have to rely on the police to take appropriate and hopefully, timely action.

Be safe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I block someone I just move on. Don't feel the need to unblock say my piece and block again.

Just seems childish.

Just been on the receiving end of that situation.

Talked to a girl here for a few weeks then she blocked me...

Then today she txts me....

And then blocks me again.

Ffs what is it with some people?

And where is the totally fking bemused emoji? "

Block her. Dumb ass wench.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I block someone I just move on. Don't feel the need to unblock say my piece and block again.

Just seems childish.

Just been on the receiving end of that situation.

Talked to a girl here for a few weeks then she blocked me...

Then today she txts me....

And then blocks me again.

Ffs what is it with some people?

And where is the totally fking bemused emoji?

Block her. Dumb ass wench. "

But then I'm acting just like a child too

And it's her problem not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where the letters written in blood? Nothing shows your devotion quite like "I love you" smeared in blood on a piece of lined A4.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're validating their unwelcome correspondence with a response or acknowledgement.

If you genuinely believe removing the block and issuing the other party with a final warning and ultimatum (you'll file a complaint of harassment with the police if they don't desist) will clarify matters it might be worthwhile, if not you might just be validating and incentivising the unwelcome correspondence and it might continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I block someone I just move on. Don't feel the need to unblock say my piece and block again.

Just seems childish. "

read the whole convo she is being stalked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I block someone I just move on. Don't feel the need to unblock say my piece and block again.

Just seems childish.

read the whole convo she is being stalked "

Hence why I later said block the dumbass.

If she gets no response she'll get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never worry in the least about blocking..I block for many reasons and expect others to do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know thus is going to sound strange to most but theres a valid reason behind it.

If i unblock someone that i have blocked and send them a message and reblock will they still recieve the message and know its from me?

Anybody know?

They would still receive the message and see who it's from I believe. However they wouldnt be able to message back if you reblock them

This is the answer indeed.

So you can't just send an anonymous message "You dick head, fuck off !"

Its nit like that theyll know its from me regardless, ive tried to compketely cut contact, blocked on here and another site, blocked phone numbers deleted kik but now im getting letters in the post. So it basically to tell them "enough is enough i am willing take it further if i hear from them again"

Hope you saved messages in back up before deleting kik and their contacts etc. This can be used in an harassment case which it would seem you're heading too. Keep the letters.

Messages i havent. I thought it was finally over after 4 months of hearing nothing. The 2 letters over the past couple of weeks. Which have been kept

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That happened to me once started sending postcards of all things with places I had been with work, in other words making out they were following me. Anyway after 2 years of sporadic stuff it ended in me going to the police, btw I think they found the 'fab' world to be hilarious. After they were arrested, had both their phones seized for almost two months for analysis it then stopped. Not heard from them or seen them for four years now. Oh and I dropped the charges as didn't fancy the evidence going to my local magistrates!!

Only way to stop them is to escalate it before it gets out of hand

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Yes if it's harassment then its a police matter so don't stoke the fire anymore sending a message on here will just do that.

Cut of contact 100% and ask the police for advice. "

I agree. My friend is harassing a male friend after he ended relaitionship. He totally ignored her til one day he told her to fk off or he wd call police. She sd to me see he still loves me or he went have bothered. Cant see her logic and if tried to tell her she's making a fool of herself so this person might see a.message as hope ul stay in touch x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm pretty sure if you tell someone to leave you once and they don't, on the second time it becomes a case of harassment - as long as you have documented it. If you tell the police they will send that person a letter saying to stop it or he will be in trouble the very next time he contacts you in any way or form. Call 101 and get over the phone police advice. It was for your kind of situation that the legislation was set up for. Good luck.

Thankyou for that advice. They will have this last chance. If not i will be taking it further

I wouldn't be giving them one more chance. If you have told them to leave you alone, blocked all other means of communication and they still persist by sending you letters then it is time to report the harrassment to the police.

"

I would have gone to the police by now. They are very helpful.

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