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By *appygolucky6929 OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Hi all

Recently experienced my first sub dom play and absolutely loved it. Does any of the women on here enjoy taking control of there man and have him serve and obey and if so where would a newly submissive guy with limited experience begin with regards to finding a dominant woman.

Thanks

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop by looking for "a dominant woman". Makes it sound like any woman who identifies as dominant will do.

And yes there are many women interested in submissive men, but they're outnumbered by the submissive men interested in dominant women so can take their pick.

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By *appygolucky6929 OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

That's true the men on here do outnumber the women.

OK thanks for the advice

Xx

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I always wanted to try it out . But only get messers .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very much into it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are very much into it !!"

I'd love to try it out with a dominant couple. The woman being the real Dom and the guys trying to please her

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By *imandlinCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

L loves to domme younger men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish you were in Devon there are no dommes in Devon ....yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll through my collar into the ring and post my application to submit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"L loves to domme younger men. "

Love to be one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop by looking for "a dominant woman". Makes it sound like any woman who identifies as dominant will do.

..."

But he's looking for a dominant woman. What do you suggest he says instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past I've had some very good mistresses, some through here.

But honestly I find most bdsm is very shallow through here. Without it being an actual relationship there's just not enough trust and love for it to be properly fulfilling.

A fun diversion though

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

there are better places to try and find dommes or mistresses, for a start try a local munch (google munches in your area and you'll find one).

This site is predominantly a swingers site, that doesn't mean you can't find people of a BDSM lean, but they tend to be more scarce, and it doesn't help that you can't search by domme/sub (the same as it'd be good to search by top/bottom).

good luck though and hopefully you'll find what you're looking for

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By *rettytawnee2010TV/TS
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

Try a Dom TV x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very much into this.

Mrs SKC is an excellent domme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are very much into this.

Mrs SKC is an excellent domme"

Sure looks that way xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's our lifestyle 24/7. Yes he is a very luck boy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some genuine kinksters on here I find but also a lot of players. I would recommend other places for genuine D/s dynamics but here is a fun place to start.

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By *aturisteve69Man
over a year ago

Frodsham

I long to be dominated and humiliated by a woman who is dominant...

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By *ustanhonestblokeMan
over a year ago

northampton

Most men see it as a sexual thing. Most would run a mile in reality.

They just want a women to boss them in the bedroom. Serving takes a lot of time and total trust. I have an amazing Mistress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like submissive men very much!

So much nicer when you can build into it though.. I find those dynamics work so much better when you've both gotten to know each other. As a NSA, one-of.. it's not always great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like submissive men very much!

So much nicer when you can build into it though.. I find those dynamics work so much better when you've both gotten to know each other. As a NSA, one-of.. it's not always great."

Wish i could be one of them x to for your pleasure x and can worship your sexy feet also

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By *unk_of_loveMan
over a year ago

Hanley


"Try a Dom TV x"

I'd love to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im looking for a dom female or t girl to dominate me

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By *ougar_n_TILFCouple
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

There are a few on here, but it's mainly (relatively)vanilla people. Try fetlife instead. But as someone said earlier in the thread, they can take their pick as so many men want that. Speaking as pro-Dom, You may be better off paying for experience with femdom. But the best ones have waiting lists and a strict decorum on contacting them. R.

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