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By *nglishRose123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Swindon

I've just receiced a message offering me money to perform a bj. I have reported the profile but is this common.

I'm a bit shocked and highly offended tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It' happens on here just delete and block

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By *nglishRose123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Swindon

Thanks yes I've done both.x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes it happens a lot on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens often - as others have said; block and report (private notes are handy reminders too).

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

We had one earlier too. Payment was for humiliation of the guy. Politely declined.

I do wonder if the guys offering cash to ladies have ever considered escorts . Or maybe they don't want to pay the going rate

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Report, block & delete. Fab are pretty good at following up - just remember the vast majority of people on here aren't complete dicks!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

It happens, you will just have to get used to it.

Report, block and move on.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

happens all the time, no need to tell us all about it, just delete the message and move on.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I've just receiced a message offering me money to perform a bj. I have reported the profile but is this common.

I'm a bit shocked and highly offended tbh. "

Ahh desperation the new fragrance from Fab ! Lol

Some people will say,do or offer what every they think will get them a meet . It's certainly not uncommon and something I use as an immediate filter as a definite no interest. You did right to report them Op .

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By *nglishRose123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Swindon


"I've just receiced a message offering me money to perform a bj. I have reported the profile but is this common.

I'm a bit shocked and highly offended tbh.

Ahh desperation the new fragrance from Fab ! Lol

Some people will say,do or offer what every they think will get them a meet . It's certainly not uncommon and something I use as an immediate filter as a definite no interest. You did right to report them Op ."

Thanks Temptress I won't be so surprised next time. x

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I've just receiced a message offering me money to perform a bj. I have reported the profile but is this common.

I'm a bit shocked and highly offended tbh. "

Why are you offended? I suspect it was not personal and it was simply your turn.

No slight on you whatsoever.

Be less offended and be happier.

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By *nglishRose123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Swindon


"I've just receiced a message offering me money to perform a bj. I have reported the profile but is this common.

I'm a bit shocked and highly offended tbh.

Why are you offended? I suspect it was not personal and it was simply your turn.

No slight on you whatsoever.

Be less offended and be happier."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any of you ladies would like to pay me for the privelage of sucking my cock then I shall consider each offer on its own merits, now then, please for an orderly queue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it happens; there are plenty of idiots on this site. Report and block

- Mrs. J -

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

Report, block, delete.

Rinse and repeat for everyone that does it.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If any of you ladies would like to pay me for the privelage of sucking my cock then I shall consider each offer on its own merits, now then, please for an orderly queue "

Lol is this allowed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If any of you ladies would like to pay me for the privelage of sucking my cock then I shall consider each offer on its own merits, now then, please for an orderly queue

Lol is this allowed? "

It was a joke love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you get offers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take it as a compliment. Plenty on here giving blow jobs for free, but he wants you so much more he's prepared to pay.

Mind you the I love role play and playing a cheap prostitute is one of my favourites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it offensive? And isn't this airing dirty laundry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time. Just another shite message to delete. Doesn't bother of offend me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it offensive? And isn't this airing dirty laundry? "

- Mrs. J -

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden


"We had one earlier too. Payment was for humiliation of the guy. Politely declined.

I do wonder if the guys offering cash to ladies have ever considered escorts . Or maybe they don't want to pay the going rate "

If you have declined isn't that humiliating him ?

Suggest you ask for your payment

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

You'll get used to it after a couple of months on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just receiced a message offering me money to perform a bj. I have reported the profile but is this common.

I'm a bit shocked and highly offended tbh. "
its not very common but it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the thing that baffles me with this is that is the guy under the potential expectation that you (or anyone) would have said yes?

Are there people out there who receive messages like that and respond with 'Ok, lets do it?'

Don't get me wrong, he is out of line IMHO, but i wonder if there are people who respond positively to those requests.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Happens way to often, or someone you say no to starts offering money to meet...its proper sad and offensive

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Happens way to often, or someone you say no to starts offering money to meet...its proper sad and offensive

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