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By *cott89 OP   Man
over a year ago

prestatyn

want to meet new people (not just for sex) but just got out of a 4 year relationship and dont know how to go about it. any advice? serious advice is prefered but if want to take the piss and have a laugh then feel free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat chat and more chat. Send messages, post on thevforums, go to socials, just jump in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on the pull.

Social clubs.

Swinging clubs.

Do what you did when you met your ex.

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By *cott89 OP   Man
over a year ago

prestatyn

4 years is a long time im very much out of practice, dont even really want a sexual thing just yet but finding it hard to dip my toe in x

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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the (obvious to me) advice is to observe what works for other men, and practice socialising.

most people don't like to feel like they're making all the effort although i'm guessing some do enjoy chasing people.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"4 years is a long time im very much out of practice, dont even really want a sexual thing just yet but finding it hard to dip my toe in x"

You think 4 years is a long time? I came on here after a 25 year marriage. Wishing you good luck. I have had a great time on here and I hope you do too.

Sally

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By *unLuvazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Would suggest going yo swinging clubs. They are great for just socials too... We are holding a social/play event @ a club in June. If you would like more info just send us a message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"want to meet new people (not just for sex) but just got out of a 4 year relationship and dont know how to go about it. any advice? serious advice is prefered but if want to take the piss and have a laugh then feel free "

Go into 5 different pubs and make it your4 mission to talk to at least one lady in each, thats what I did

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By *cott89 OP   Man
over a year ago

prestatyn


"want to meet new people (not just for sex) but just got out of a 4 year relationship and dont know how to go about it. any advice? serious advice is prefered but if want to take the piss and have a laugh then feel free

Go into 5 different pubs and make it your4 mission to talk to at least one lady in each, thats what I did"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi fellow fabs. need some advice plz. im new to this and just cant seem to get ppl to meet up / chat am i doingbsomething wrong or.ppl just really not intrested :/ all comments welcome?

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ok, weird proposition time. Im working close to you for the next two weeks and im thinking of a club visit. Im by no means confident, but three clubs visits ago I was where you are now. Im not gay, but I do know how hard that first step is.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"hi fellow fabs. need some advice plz. im new to this and just cant seem to get ppl to meet up / chat am i doingbsomething wrong or.ppl just really not intrested :/ all comments welcome?

"

Having a profile might help?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"hi fellow fabs. need some advice plz. im new to this and just cant seem to get ppl to meet up / chat am i doingbsomething wrong or.ppl just really not intrested :/ all comments welcome?

"

My advice to you is:

A) start your own thread and not hijack this guys one

B) get some public photos

C) lose any negativity in your profile

D) go to a social

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP perhaps you are overthinking it? Have you got expectations you think you might not meet?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"want to meet new people (not just for sex) but just got out of a 4 year relationship and dont know how to go about it. any advice? serious advice is prefered but if want to take the piss and have a laugh then feel free "

I used to be really shy and it's a social killer. I decided to change and did. Now I'm quite confident to walk into a room of people I don't know and start talking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever ridden a bike then forgot how to ride?

in theory you should be comfortable with the opposite sex by now. How did you get your gf of 4 years? Apply same technique?

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By *cott89 OP   Man
over a year ago

prestatyn


"Have you ever ridden a bike then forgot how to ride?

in theory you should be comfortable with the opposite sex by now. How did you get your gf of 4 years? Apply same technique? "

never really been any good at it, then night i met my ex i was hammerd off stella and tequilla so god knows how i did it

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