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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why am I able to chat away to anyone and generally (hopefully) come across as intelligent, funny and sexy yet when I chat to somebody who is incredibly handsome and way, way out of my league I turn into a complete moron?! Any chance I have of them actually considering me is well and truly blown by the babbling idiot that always comes out to play at these times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure most people feel this way about themselves - so you're not alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often talk gibberish, gobbelydegook it's all part of my charm.

Op don't worry it makes you , you.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

This is normal but you can train yourself out of it.

To do this you talk to people wherever you go. In the street, at the till, in the queue to pay for petrol etc. etc.

Old, young, male female, children and people with dogs, babies whatever.

Then when you come to talk to a hot, smart man he's just someone else you talk to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is normal but you can train yourself out of it.

To do this you talk to people wherever you go. In the street, at the till, in the queue to pay for petrol etc. etc.

Old, young, male female, children and people with dogs, babies whatever.

Then when you come to talk to a hot, smart man he's just someone else you talk to

That's the thing Kinky, ordinarily I do chat to everyone. Completed strangers tell me the most intimate things and I could strike up conversation with just about anybody. Until they're hot - then I'm a buffoon! The particular guy in question has messaged me again this morning thankfully. Now I just have to be like Del Boy "keep it cool, keep it cool"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gibberish feels like my first language at times

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Small talk... we just can't do it.

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By *amManJamMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Just power through the awkwardness, if they're still around you're doing ok!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why am I able to chat away to anyone and generally (hopefully) come across as intelligent, funny and sexy yet when I chat to somebody who is incredibly handsome and way, way out of my league I turn into a complete moron?! Any chance I have of them actually considering me is well and truly blown by the babbling idiot that always comes out to play at these times!

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just nervous is all coz you want to say the right thing but you are distracted ,deep breaths relax

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm supposed to be meeting him for a coffee tonight but generally anything organised on here gets cancelled last minute etc so i'm not expecting much. Or maybe it's just easier to think that and not confront that I might be face to face with a total god in a matter of hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm supposed to be meeting him for a coffee tonight but generally anything organised on here gets cancelled last minute etc so i'm not expecting much. Or maybe it's just easier to think that and not confront that I might be face to face with a total god in a matter of hours

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youre over thinking it just relax I mean what if he likes you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

youre over thinking it just relax I mean what if he likes you "

That's unthinkable! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we've all suffered this at some point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well he turned up last night looking just as insanely handsome as his photos. I think me and him are looking for slightly different things but we're going to stay in touch anyway. I just need to decide whether to pursue things or not. Don't get me wrong, he's possibly the best looking guy I've ever seen who wasn't in a movie but there wasn't really much charisma there and I really need that connection to want to take things physical. You know that back and forth banter, twinkle in the eye and sense of humour. That special something about a person you can't really put down to one single thing. Still really pleased we met though, I think I held my own and didn't babble so hopefully will feel more confident in a similar situation next time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

UPDATE So we've been chatting non stop since the social and last night I went to his to take things further. I've been feeling sick with nerves the last few days and I never cancel a meet but I was tempted to cancel this one as I wasn't sure I could do it! Anyway, we met last night and it was absolutely great. No awkward moments, no babbling or saying the wrong thing. I actuall felt really comfortable with him. So ladies and gentleman this is a new lesson for me that the really, really hot guys and girls aren't "too good" for you and don't let feeling inadequate hold you back because you're missing out! I battled for a while thinking that he may just sleep with anyone and did I want to just be "any hole's a goal" just because he was so handsome but I genuinely think he is attracted to me and it feels AMAZING!!!

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