FabSwingers.com forum: Swinger tips

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Since this is swingers advice section,please advice me guys how can i make my girlfriend be into swinging as well? Since i really like doing it ,and i like her as much as i like swinging.

By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

Obviously you can't make her be into it but you could try sounding her out on the idea of it during sex.

Roleplay you being a stranger, saying how exciting you'd find it if she were with another man, that sort of thing.

If she expresses an interest then there may be hope. If she shuts you down then I guess you'll have a difficult decision to make.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Since this is swingers advice section,please advice me guys how can i make my girlfriend be into swinging as well? Since i really like doing it ,and i like her as much as i like swinging. "

You can't make anyone be in to swinging.

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You can't. You could ask - and how and why and where and when you ask might make all the difference.

By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

To be fair, when dax and i met i was very much an innocent person and was VERY vanilla.

He showed me lots of things, got me to open up about my fantasies and that is where things started. It took me a while to get my head around certain things but we talked it all through, put rules down and i tried my first MMF.. It was very "sterile" and quick but afterwards dax pampered me a lot, talked through the cons then the pros of it.

Communication is key and so is openess and honesty in it all. If she does go ahead with it you need to do things at her pace

And in the same way, respect her wishes either way op

By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"Since this is swingers advice section,please advice me guys how can i make my girlfriend be into swinging as well? Since i really like doing it ,and i like her as much as i like swinging. "

What does she think of you being on here.

Are you saying she doesn't mind you swinging but she isn't interested?