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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why are married women not to be juged but us men who are honest enough to say we are playing away are......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prob coz our husbands know what were up too .. Only today did I have a "wife" call me up demanding to know why my number was on her husbands phone

I don't care if ur married I care if she dusnt know n throws a hissy fit when she catches someone n then calls me

I mean what can u do apart from hang up N ignore the witheld numbers for a few days lol

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"why are married women not to be juged but us men who are honest enough to say we are playing away are...... "

You can only be judged if you let people's opinions matter to you.

Some people feel the need to pass comment, take it for what it usually is...ill informedd gossip!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Crystal sometimes we do things to be selfish but we still have to protect people from our own indiscresions....I am sorry someone was not honest with you and caused you pain but we are not all like them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember the golden rule

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Whoever has the gold, makes the rules

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In Swingland, Fanny is the gold

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and who has the Fanny?

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and here endeth the lesson

xx Jack Moses xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prob coz our husbands know what were up too .. Only today did I have a "wife" call me up demanding to know why my number was on her husbands phone

I don't care if ur married I care if she dusnt know n throws a hissy fit when she catches someone n then calls me

I mean what can u do apart from hang up N ignore the witheld numbers for a few days lol "

Not all husbands know, I've had the phonecall from a husband being cheated on. Both sexes do this.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Why because more want to get into their pants than in yours... End of, so best get over it.

Some men and I will go as far as a lot of men on here will kiss the ass of 100% of the woman on here to get their end away. That includes telling them all they are stunning, gorgeous, sexy, a babe, looking divine enuf to eat, will lick pussy for hours and hours and the usual banal shite...

Every woman gets proactive mail from the second she joins... The very second. She could have a silhouette and on her profile 'just looking' and no other words... She will get ' looking good,love your profile honey, wanna chat'...

If you look back a lot of threads about married people, a lot will have the same _iew on both sexes....

It is just harder for married men than it is for married women.... And the men bleat more about it.

Now if I may suggest, if you are going to play in this adult world..... You grow a pair, cause life is not fair... Both are not equal in terms of opportunity...

A lot of men will sell their soul to get a shag, most woman won't.

No offence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no offence taken ,we all know its a double standard it was a comment made to see if people in here do actually care on opinions and like your self people have mixed _iews on this subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why because more want to get into their pants than in yours... End of, so best get over it.

Some men and I will go as far as a lot of men on here will kiss the ass of 100% of the woman on here to get their end away. That includes telling them all they are stunning, gorgeous, sexy, a babe, looking divine enuf to eat, will lick pussy for hours and hours and the usual banal shite...

Every woman gets proactive mail from the second she joins... The very second. She could have a silhouette and on her profile 'just looking' and no other words... She will get ' looking good,love your profile honey, wanna chat'...

If you look back a lot of threads about married people, a lot will have the same _iew on both sexes....

It is just harder for married men than it is for married women.... And the men bleat more about it.

Now if I may suggest, if you are going to play in this adult world..... You grow a pair, cause life is not fair... Both are not equal in terms of opportunity...

A lot of men will sell their soul to get a shag, most woman won't.

No offence.

"

that was a gd read

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By *ree mindedMan
over a year ago

bathgate

depressed now

ho hum just have to get over it, may get lucky sometime

Just red a blog that 20% of both sexes may play away

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

its not necessarily the fact that men are attached thats the problem for me. Its the crap/baggage they seem to bring with them thats the issue. I don't want someones other half ringing me and screaming at me or crying down the phone about me stealing her man... I'm not looking for an affair or realationship... I don't intend to answer twenty questions about my life to establish that i don't know his wife... I'm not going to change my mind about condoms just cos he hasn't had to use them for twenty years and can't cum in one... I'm not prepared to list all my other friends on the site cos hes panicing about safety or hes jealous... I state on my profile i can't host so asking me if i'm sure cos he can't get caught booking a hotel on his card is not likely to make me change my mind... I insist on a social meet first for safety reasons - not because i'm his wifes friend trying to catch him out... I have face pics in my private gallery and any male who has the balls to be on here looking to meet me should have them available on here too... I'm not an agony aunt, i'm looking for fun swinging meets not to counsel someone, or worse have them cry during sex!!!

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"its not necessarily the fact that men are attached thats the problem for me. Its the crap/baggage they seem to bring with them thats the issue. I don't want someones other half ringing me and screaming at me or crying down the phone about me stealing her man... I'm not looking for an affair or realationship... I don't intend to answer twenty questions about my life to establish that i don't know his wife... I'm not going to change my mind about condoms just cos he hasn't had to use them for twenty years and can't cum in one... I'm not prepared to list all my other friends on the site cos hes panicing about safety or hes jealous... I state on my profile i can't host so asking me if i'm sure cos he can't get caught booking a hotel on his card is not likely to make me change my mind... I insist on a social meet first for safety reasons - not because i'm his wifes friend trying to catch him out... I have face pics in my private gallery and any male who has the balls to be on here looking to meet me should have them available on here too... I'm not an agony aunt, i'm looking for fun swinging meets not to counsel someone, or worse have them cry during sex!!! "

Good points, I agree with every word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember the golden rule

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.

.

Whoever has the gold, makes the rules

.

.

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In Swingland, Fanny is the gold

.

.

.

and who has the Fanny?

.

.

.

and here endeth the lesson

xx Jack Moses xx"

Love it!

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales


"its not necessarily the fact that men are attached thats the problem for me. Its the crap/baggage they seem to bring with them thats the issue. I don't want someones other half ringing me and screaming at me or crying down the phone about me stealing her man... I'm not looking for an affair or realationship... I don't intend to answer twenty questions about my life to establish that i don't know his wife... I'm not going to change my mind about condoms just cos he hasn't had to use them for twenty years and can't cum in one... I'm not prepared to list all my other friends on the site cos hes panicing about safety or hes jealous... I state on my profile i can't host so asking me if i'm sure cos he can't get caught booking a hotel on his card is not likely to make me change my mind... I insist on a social meet first for safety reasons - not because i'm his wifes friend trying to catch him out... I have face pics in my private gallery and any male who has the balls to be on here looking to meet me should have them available on here too... I'm not an agony aunt, i'm looking for fun swinging meets not to counsel someone, or worse have them cry during sex!!!

Good points, I agree with every word!"

Here here, me too!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"why are married women not to be juged but us men who are honest enough to say we are playing away are...... "

jesus.. every single bloody time....

okay... rather than answering ya question, please show me in ANY thread where that has been said on the site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ehhhhh _abio friend, you have to shake your head at times don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember the golden rule

.

.

.

Whoever has the gold, makes the rules

.

.

.

In Swingland, Fanny is the gold

.

.

.

and who has the Fanny?

.

.

.

and here endeth the lesson

xx Jack Moses xx

Love it! "

Haha, intensely amusing! And partly true. To the OP if you're after being the one with the gold may I suggest a marriage seeking site as the proportions tend to be reversed in terms of men and women.

But in all seriousness most people's opinions of men and women are pretty much the same, its just more men moan about it, cos there's more on here.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

simple with alot of guys any holes a goal ! the mear issue of the woman being married wont even register on their radar let alone with their morals ! let face it if they are horny its not their brain most guys are thinking with . "most" woman are more selective about who they bed and the possible fall out from sleeping with a married guy . so they are looking at the bigger picture where as "alot" of guys just focus on immediate gratification . again this is all in general and not absolutes either way

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Prob coz our husbands know what were up too .. Only today did I have a "wife" call me up demanding to know why my number was on her husbands phone

I don't care if ur married I care if she dusnt know n throws a hissy fit when she catches someone n then calls me

I mean what can u do apart from hang up N ignore the witheld numbers for a few days lol "

really?? all women are so upfront and above board about the extra marital activities??

i find that hard to believe!!!

Who is to say that the women dont get as much flack because they arent being so open about it? i.e. not putting it on their profiles for the men to make informed choices about things? not coming on the forums advertising the fact they are married and playing away or moaning that this is the reason they arent getting meets?

this is just me playing devils advocate of course as i am not married lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Makes no difference to us whether you are male or female....we don't knowingly meet married people playing away from home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes no difference to us whether you are male or female....we don't knowingly meet married people playing away from home.

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Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont agree with anyone who is married playing without the consent and enjoyment of their spouse, however i have yet to see a married woman on the forums moan about not getting meets and canvassing peoples thoughts on married woman.

It seems to be a case of the married men on this site advertising more than the woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have yet to see a married woman on the forums moan about not getting meets and canvassing peoples thoughts on married woman.

It seems to be a case of the married men on this site advertising more than the woman"

I think it may be more the case that men (which i assume in many cases will be the married ladies target audience) probably don't have as much of a moralistic approach on the matter as many ladies do and therefore they don't come up against as many hurdles ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree 100% with View on this one.

We are not just talking about married people on here.....singles are just as bad......

Vast majority of guys on here married or single will stick around for a couple of months...If they get no response they regress to pathetic, whingeing babies and give the rest of mankind a bad name.....

Women are busy enough whingeing about their shoes, bags, bums, make up etc to bother about some toerag moaning his arse off in here.

Grow up, this is an ADULT site.

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