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By *-and-S2016 OP   Couple
over a year ago

derbyshire

We're trying to get a meet organised for in a couple of weekends time at a hotel in Manchester but can't seem to find the right person/people, didn't think it would be this hard for genuine people...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Just because someone is genuine doesn't mean they will fancy you

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By *-and-S2016 OP   Couple
over a year ago

derbyshire

Not saying that all genuine people should jump at the opportunity, just saying it's hard to get through all the bull shit to actually find someone decent

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yep it is lol.

That is swinging online for you. Have a look at the Vanilla alternatives festival of fun. It will be an awsome weekend and a lot of fun. Happy to hav you guys join our group if you want some reassurance. We have all age groups with us including yours

Good luck in your search.

By all means msg if you fancy a chat.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't think it's hard to find genuine people on a Fab. But we do believe it's hard to find a couple where there is attraction all round. I mean what are the odds that, if for example the other man and myself fancy each other, my husband and the other lady will also fancy each other? We find the best way round this problem is to get a group a like-minded people together and choose our sex partners from within the group.

Mrs

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

It can be so hard to find a couple who you all click with! Especially trying to do so online where personality might not come across easily. We might start a conversation with ten couples and only end up meeting one of them, for one reason or other. The others either won't grab our interest enough or just fade away after a few messages.

Physically going to a club or a social to meet in the flesh is one of the best ways to find people. Most clubs are really friendly and welcoming of newbies so don't be apprehensive about going

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Not saying that all genuine people should jump at the opportunity, just saying it's hard to get through all the bull shit to actually find someone decent"

They may be thinking the same. It's a two way process if you want to find someone compatible.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Not saying that all genuine people should jump at the opportunity, just saying it's hard to get through all the bull shit to actually find someone decent"

You are unverified in 7 months. Calling people out isn't the best way to approach this as you are very much the newbies on the block and have had a lot of time to either play more locally, verify yourselves via cam or go to a club. You should appreciate why people might be a little hesitant that you now want to meet. There are always options of posting a meet to a club and seeing if someone wants to come back after.

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