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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Currently researching strap-ons and looking to purchase.

The harnesses look super uncomfortable and annoying though.

I like the idea of harness underwear but LoveHoney only have a limited (and quite pricey) selection.

Has anyone used this type of harness underwear before and are they better or worse than just regular harnesses? The reviews on LH all seem quite positive.

And has anyone any recommendations as to where else I can buy them online?

Thanks in advance

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton

I know you said the harnesses look super uncomfortable and annoying but I have found this one to be superb in usage:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16971

Once you have sussed how to put it on properly, making sure there are no kinks in the straps is important, it is a joy to use. Thrusting with it feel natural and everyone I've used it on has been very happy with the results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have recently purchased this trap on from love honey and the fit and feel is perfect for us not to hard either so easily fits both of us and just the right size "for now"

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14015

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know you said the harnesses look super uncomfortable and annoying but I have found this one to be superb in usage:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16971

Once you have sussed how to put it on properly, making sure there are no kinks in the straps is important, it is a joy to use. Thrusting with it feel natural and everyone I've used it on has been very happy with the results "

Funnily enough, that's the only harness one that has caught my attention.

Can I ask if you've used it on a guy? I have a question but none of the reviews answer it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have recently purchased this trap on from love honey and the fit and feel is perfect for us not to hard either so easily fits both of us and just the right size "for now"

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14015"

Thanks

I've had a look but know that's not for me. I'd not be able to concentrate on what I'm doing if I'd a double ended one lol

Plus I'll orgasm anyway

Thanks for the suggestion though x

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton


"Funnily enough, that's the only harness one that has caught my attention.

Can I ask if you've used it on a guy? I have a question but none of the reviews answer it "

I have used the harness on a guy but with a different dildo and it is just as good. I have better anal ones and the _ed one is a better vaginal dildo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a harness one from Lovehoney and it fits well. Adjustable and easy to put on, I've used it on guys with no problems

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Funnily enough, that's the only harness one that has caught my attention.

Can I ask if you've used it on a guy? I have a question but none of the reviews answer it

I have used the harness on a guy but with a different dildo and it is just as good. I have better anal ones and the _ed one is a better vaginal dildo. "

Thanks

I'll have to do some more research

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a harness one from Lovehoney and it fits well. Adjustable and easy to put on, I've used it on guys with no problems "

Thanks. Think I may have to rethink my view of harnesses

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

Hi, I have a harness from Ann summers, it has 3 different ring sizes so you can change toys and sizes of toys, it's really comfortable and I can get a really good thrust going whilst playing with the ladies I use mine with a glass dildo, it's proving very popular Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sooo many open women to giving anal do you enjoy the power over a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the bend over boyfriend nylon strap...aesthetically not as pleasing as some of the leather ones but it has straps around the legs rather than the g string style strap to go between the legs which means that I have far more stability to thrust and it gives me way more control...it's comfy and expandable-and above all, washable also. I've used it on both men and women. The one thing we have done s add more rings to hold the dildo in place, again to give better stability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have both from my single days; infact, I have three types, all gathering dust now:

Harness from Doc Johnson: super uncomfortable but does look good

Panties from Rodeo: Practical but doesn't look that great

Swan: realistic size, insertable at both ends with motor at both ends; requires strong pelvic muscles but great fun

Hope you find the right one for you and whoever she is and have lots of fun

- Mrs. J -

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

Loving you ladies talking dirty

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I know you said the harnesses look super uncomfortable and annoying but I have found this one to be superb in usage:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16971

Once you have sussed how to put it on properly, making sure there are no kinks in the straps is important, it is a joy to use. Thrusting with it feel natural and everyone I've used it on has been very happy with the results "

i can also vouch for this one... get the straps right and it will hold the dildo in place even during 'very physical' use .

If you are worried about straps chaffing wear some gym style booty shorts or the like (you can also put a dildo in for yourself then too and use the shorts to hold it in place).

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By *lenty of tongueMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I would like a woman to pleasure me with a strap-on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all. I've a lot of homework to do

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"Thanks to all. I've a lot of homework to do "

Feel free to ask anything if you want it from the guy view too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to the person male or female that you are going to use it on (atleast the first one- if it's likely to be more than one) so they know it's comfortable.

My old mistress went through the options with me, we picked a suitable one, that I was willing to take and that had other options to go bigger.

May help

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I've got this one https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30701

It's great,although I've had to replace the rubber ring with a metal cock ring as the dildo kept popping out during more vigorous sessions where the lady recipient was in doggy position, causing the original rubber ring to over stretch

It's very adjustable and comfortable to wear mine is strictly for the ladies though

Bun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just marking this one as of great interest s the one I bought locally was a flop

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

Don't buy a floppy one!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Speak to the person male or female that you are going to use it on (atleast the first one- if it's likely to be more than one) so they know it's comfortable.

My old mistress went through the options with me, we picked a suitable one, that I was willing to take and that had other options to go bigger.

May help"

I'm in constant consultation with the other person it's intended for

Thank you x

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Unfortunately good ones do cost £££...

Sh womenstore

And Babes n Horny

You can easily waste money on cheap ones...

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