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My profile - what's wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey folks,

I've been here a short while and had a little interest, but nothing that's ended in many messages or a meet.

My only thoughts is that my profile needs some spark, but hire or what i don't know. So, and this is where you folks come in - I'd really like to see your critical and constructive comments on my profile. Good points, bad points, possible things im missing, stuff I should remove etc etc.

Over to you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile if a bit waffley and doesn't actually say much about who you are or can offer. It doesn't say what you're looking for and your one photo doesn't show you off at all. Hope that helps!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile if a bit waffley and doesn't actually say much about who you are or can offer. It doesn't say what you're looking for and your one photo doesn't show you off at all. Hope that helps!"

Thanks.... I'll take a look at that... any more points folks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey folks,

I've been here a short while and had a little interest, but nothing that's ended in many messages or a meet.

My only thoughts is that my profile needs some spark, but hire or what i don't know. So, and this is where you folks come in - I'd really like to see your critical and constructive comments on my profile. Good points, bad points, possible things im missing, stuff I should remove etc etc.

Over to you...."
I would recommend more pics. Lots of people don't want to chat on kik or anywhere else but fab so get some decent pics up. You hidden behind your phone isn't very appealing.

Your profile waffles on. Make it more consise with exactly what you are looking for. Sell yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better pics taken with a decent camera, that aren't mirror shots

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pics are a bit uninspiring but what I would find off-putting is you saying you have permission to play and mentioning her single and your couples profile but saying your profile isn't the place to mention them. I'd say it very much is. Comes over that you're just saying that. If it's true why not name your couples profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey folks,

I've been here a short while and had a little interest, but nothing that's ended in many messages or a meet.

My only thoughts is that my profile needs some spark, but hire or what i don't know. So, and this is where you folks come in - I'd really like to see your critical and constructive comments on my profile. Good points, bad points, possible things im missing, stuff I should remove etc etc.

Over to you.... I would recommend more pics. Lots of people don't want to chat on kik or anywhere else but fab so get some decent pics up. You hidden behind your phone isn't very appealing.

Your profile waffles on. Make it more consise with exactly what you are looking for. Sell yourself "

What she says.. seems to know what she's on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's been said above is all good.

I'm not criticising your position...I applaud your honesty which you should stick too. Just remember, however, that this shrinks your market. Some ladies/couples don't play with attached people...even with permission.

You are, therefore, fishing in a smaller pool.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I agree you should mention your couple profile name. Potential meets would want to read the verifications.

You say you are very open minded and "may even consider" bum play with the right person. Not a great example of being very open minded!

Sally

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Harsh reality points

1. You are a single male. You make up 75% of the fabs population. Hence the odds are against you.

2. Your first pics are cock pics. That would put off most women

3. As said above the fact that you feel the need to go into a convoluted explanation about permission to play right at the start will lead most people to think that you are protesting too much and that you are, in fact, cheating.

4. You will live in a very sparsely populated area of the country. You won't get many people willing to travel to Elgin. You need to willing to travel far and to say this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the suggestions folks, I've made a few changes, and will continue to do so on your feedback, so please keep them coming.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I see you've still not mentioned your couples profile or indeed your other half's single female profile in your blurb, this really will limit your options as it doesn't show a clear continuity between all three profiles and allow people if they wish to, to check that you actually do have the permission you say you do. Check my profile for how this can be done without making it too complicated.

I'd lose the cock pic and the one of you bareback that most people don't want to see. Maybe take a few more using the timer on your phone to show off your body rather than your cock.

Your profile blurb isn't awful, but terms liked used and abused I always think sound a little off.

The line about if someone has read this far indicates there's a high chance they like you should be changed too - it means nothing of the sort just indicates they've spent 20 seconds reading - so that comes across a little arrogant.

As a thought, perhaps show your wife your profile once you've written it and ask her to critique from a female perspective, is always a good filter

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see you've still not mentioned your couples profile or indeed your other half's single female profile in your blurb, this really will limit your options as it doesn't show a clear continuity between all three profiles and allow people if they wish to, to check that you actually do have the permission you say you do. Check my profile for how this can be done without making it too complicated.

I'd lose the cock pic and the one of you bareback that most people don't want to see. Maybe take a few more using the timer on your phone to show off your body rather than your cock.

Your profile blurb isn't awful, but terms liked used and abused I always think sound a little off.

The line about if someone has read this far indicates there's a high chance they like you should be changed too - it means nothing of the sort just indicates they've spent 20 seconds reading - so that comes across a little arrogant.

As a thought, perhaps show your wife your profile once you've written it and ask her to critique from a female perspective, is always a good filter

Good luck "

Having said all that.. some women actually do get off on the fact your cheating.. not many, but a few.. sad fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have a big cock as your main picture unless you want a t-gurl sucking on it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's taken a step backwards, at least before there was an indication your wife was on the scene too and someone who was bothered could have asked about your couples or her profile to take a look and verify that. Now you just sound like one of many who say they have permission but we'd never bother even attempting to confirm that and just avoid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd say it's taken a step backwards, at least before there was an indication your wife was on the scene too and someone who was bothered could have asked about your couples or her profile to take a look and verify that. Now you just sound like one of many who say they have permission but we'd never bother even attempting to confirm that and just avoid. "

Thanks. Now sorted to show we're both playing on the scene. Can't recall why actually I took that bit out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't have a big cock as your main picture unless you want a t-gurl sucking on it... "

How do you change the order of pictures? As for your offer, thanks, but you're a little too far away.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

One of the critical pieces of advice - putting your couples profile name hasn't been done. Without doing that, most people will assume it's a story.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Don't have a big cock as your main picture unless you want a t-gurl sucking on it...

How do you change the order of pictures? As for your offer, thanks, but you're a little too far away. "

The only way to do it is delete them and re-upload them in the order you want, or move the cock pics to friends only.

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