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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With such a rich and varied mix of people and preferences on Fab, I was wondering if there are any couples on here who either meet other couples to play just with their own partners, or for just the ladies to play (and the guys to watch).

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By *aradiselost747Couple
over a year ago

dundonald

We have don this a few times in the past, but we are becoming more comfortable and happy to take things further and entertain a little swapping...

I think it's perfectly fine for couples to take things at their own pace... no way would we have jumped straight into swapping...

Each to there own I say

Lou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still meet and play together, but yes my wife has played with couples on her own.

It does raise eyebrows amongst the swinging 'community'

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We still meet and play together, but yes my wife has played with couples on her own.

It does raise eyebrows amongst the swinging 'community' "

Why would it raise eyebrows?!

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

That's us !

We really only meet single guys because with couples we explain our rules that Inked only plays with me but nearly every time the female of the other couple has tried it on and we can't relax

Myself personally would never touch anyone if they requested I didn't

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By *ussetdevilCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

I am the only one who plays with others in our couple, not met any other couplesyet aso unsure as to whether it will be a problem....

I can play with couples or singles all with partners consent, whether he is there or not.... His choice as much as mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your replies so far.

I'm not sure if I phrased my op correctly. My situation is that I am no longer wanting to play with other men, only women. However I am more than happy for my partner to play with other women.

This is meaning our meet potential is now limited.

I cant be the only half of a couple in this situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's us if we meet couples only the ladies play and guys watch and then play with only there own partners

If we meet single females then we all play together we feel this is only fair else what would the other lady get out of the meet for herself?

Hope this helps a little, xxx(mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies so far.

I'm not sure if I phrased my op correctly. My situation is that I am no longer wanting to play with other men, only women. However I am more than happy for my partner to play with other women.

This is meaning our meet potential is now limited.

I cant be the only half of a couple in this situation?"

Everyone is different on here and here for different reason and you won't be the only one,but why do you feel this limits your meet potential? Be honest and upfront and most people are very respectful of others boundaries xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to go with the flow as meets should be fun for everyone involved

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By *andP123Couple
over a year ago

London

We are pretty much this, we love the thought of being watched while we are fucking and find it very horny watching others at the same time, altho we don't want to swap we are warming to swapping and if it happens I'm sure it will be a heat of the moment thing, it's surprising in the clubs how many couples we explain this too still ask us to swap X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's us if we meet couples only the ladies play and guys watch and then play with only there own partners

If we meet single females then we all play together we feel this is only fair else what would the other lady get out of the meet for herself?

Hope this helps a little, xxx(mrs) "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies so far.

I'm not sure if I phrased my op correctly. My situation is that I am no longer wanting to play with other men, only women. However I am more than happy for my partner to play with other women.

This is meaning our meet potential is now limited.

I cant be the only half of a couple in this situation?

Everyone is different on here and here for different reason and you won't be the only one,but why do you feel this limits your meet potential? Be honest and upfront and most people are very respectful of others boundaries xx"

Because since I amended our couples profile to say that I no longer wanted to play with other guys We haven't had a single message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We still meet and play together, but yes my wife has played with couples on her own.

It does raise eyebrows amongst the swinging 'community'

Why would it raise eyebrows?!"

You'd have to ask the people raising the eyebrows, I can only speculate lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are pretty much this, we love the thought of being watched while we are fucking and find it very horny watching others at the same time, altho we don't want to swap we are warming to swapping and if it happens I'm sure it will be a heat of the moment thing, it's surprising in the clubs how many couples we explain this too still ask us to swap X "

In the heat of the moment you may regret it, best to actually think about it before, we've seen the fallout from people going further than before, think before you dunk, before you full swap....

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington


"We tend to go with the flow as meets should be fun for everyone involved "

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By *andP123Couple
over a year ago

London


"We are pretty much this, we love the thought of being watched while we are fucking and find it very horny watching others at the same time, altho we don't want to swap we are warming to swapping and if it happens I'm sure it will be a heat of the moment thing, it's surprising in the clubs how many couples we explain this too still ask us to swap X

In the heat of the moment you may regret it, best to actually think about it before, we've seen the fallout from people going further than before, think before you dunk, before you full swap...."

Thanks guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit confused about the OP's question now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With such a rich and varied mix of people and preferences on Fab, I was wondering if there are any couples on here who either meet other couples to play just with their own partners, or for just the ladies to play (and the guys to watch)."

I think that as long as your partner doesn't expect to play with the female half of the couple while leaving the other man on the sidelines, there may be some couples who might play that way...its all about communicating what your boundaries and desires are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies so far.

I'm not sure if I phrased my op correctly. My situation is that I am no longer wanting to play with other men, only women. However I am more than happy for my partner to play with other women.

This is meaning our meet potential is now limited.

I cant be the only half of a couple in this situation?

Everyone is different on here and here for different reason and you won't be the only one,but why do you feel this limits your meet potential? Be honest and upfront and most people are very respectful of others boundaries xx

Because since I amended our couples profile to say that I no longer wanted to play with other guys We haven't had a single message lol"

Oh right I see what your saying we have that written on our profile and it's never been a problem?

Does your man expect to swap with the lady of another couple though therefore leaving her man on the side lines? X

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Have you explored Cuckhold couples where the male is 'forced' to watch as the female is enjoyed? It's quite a common kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn't mind watch my wife with another couple,with a little kinky humiliation fun along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With such a rich and varied mix of people and preferences on Fab, I was wondering if there are any couples on here who either meet other couples to play just with their own partners, or for just the ladies to play (and the guys to watch)."

We have done this many a times as I am mainly just a voyeur and Shaz the swinger but was when we was on another site.

Stopped looking for that here though as we found a lot of couples here don't want to meet if they know its only the female 1/2 of us that wants to play while I just watch with a cup of coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies so far.

I'm not sure if I phrased my op correctly. My situation is that I am no longer wanting to play with other men, only women. However I am more than happy for my partner to play with other women.

This is meaning our meet potential is now limited.

I cant be the only half of a couple in this situation?"

You have to ask yourself how that would come accross to the other male in the couple you meet.

Some might interpret it as you and your fella are only interested in his partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met couples where I Jez just watch Tracy play with the couple or where she just plays with the other female while the guys watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had an old profile where we looked for couples and fems but the messages off the couples had not read our profile and always expected full swap with Mrs until pointed out, it does limit your chances of a meet of course it does as you a excluding a whole sex but stick to what your happy with and if things change just update it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With such a rich and varied mix of people and preferences on Fab, I was wondering if there are any couples on here who either meet other couples to play just with their own partners, or for just the ladies to play (and the guys to watch).

We have done this many a times as I am mainly just a voyeur and Shaz the swinger but was when we was on another site.

Stopped looking for that here though as we found a lot of couples here don't want to meet if they know its only the female 1/2 of us that wants to play while I just watch with a cup of coffee "

Yes it's something that interests us but it's surprising how frosty people get about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With such a rich and varied mix of people and preferences on Fab, I was wondering if there are any couples on here who either meet other couples to play just with their own partners, or for just the ladies to play (and the guys to watch).

We have done this many a times as I am mainly just a voyeur and Shaz the swinger but was when we was on another site.

Stopped looking for that here though as we found a lot of couples here don't want to meet if they know its only the female 1/2 of us that wants to play while I just watch with a cup of coffee

Yes it's something that interests us but it's surprising how frosty people get about it. "

Yes, it's why we decided not to show we seek couples as soon as they hear it's only Shaz that likes to play we don't hear anything again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With such a rich and varied mix of people and preferences on Fab, I was wondering if there are any couples on here who either meet other couples to play just with their own partners, or for just the ladies to play (and the guys to watch).

We have done this many a times as I am mainly just a voyeur and Shaz the swinger but was when we was on another site.

Stopped looking for that here though as we found a lot of couples here don't want to meet if they know its only the female 1/2 of us that wants to play while I just watch with a cup of coffee

Yes it's something that interests us but it's surprising how frosty people get about it.

Yes, it's why we decided not to show we seek couples as soon as they hear it's only Shaz that likes to play we don't hear anything again "

This has happened to us as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With such a rich and varied mix of people and preferences on Fab, I was wondering if there are any couples on here who either meet other couples to play just with their own partners, or for just the ladies to play (and the guys to watch).

We have done this many a times as I am mainly just a voyeur and Shaz the swinger but was when we was on another site.

Stopped looking for that here though as we found a lot of couples here don't want to meet if they know its only the female 1/2 of us that wants to play while I just watch with a cup of coffee

Yes it's something that interests us but it's surprising how frosty people get about it.

Yes, it's why we decided not to show we seek couples as soon as they hear it's only Shaz that likes to play we don't hear anything again

This has happened to us as well."

We would love to find couples where only the Mrs plays lol

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"With such a rich and varied mix of people and preferences on Fab, I was wondering if there are any couples on here who either meet other couples to play just with their own partners, or for just the ladies to play (and the guys to watch)."

It happens all the time where one part of a couple wants to play while the other watches, there are many reasons and sometimes the next meet everyone plays.

That is part of the fun no one is obliged to do anything if they don't want to

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I used to meet a really looking lady in a sauna I used to make love to her ever time we were. there together ,

We would be having sex on the bed and. her husband used to stand there. Full clothed watching us on the bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies so far.

I'm not sure if I phrased my op correctly. My situation is that I am no longer wanting to play with other men, only women. However I am more than happy for my partner to play with other women.

This is meaning our meet potential is now limited.

I cant be the only half of a couple in this situation?"

ah...so not only the female playing, then? very different then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would love to find couples where only the Mrs plays lol "

Yeah a few say that but actually getting to meet a couple where they are happy with me just sitting in the corner and watching while having a cuppa and maybe taking a few (no face pics) they then run a mile.

Have done it a few times the past but been a while now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would love to find couples where only the Mrs plays lol

Yeah a few say that but actually getting to meet a couple where they are happy with me just sitting in the corner and watching while having a cuppa and maybe taking a few (no face pics) they then run a mile.

Have done it a few times the past but been a while now."

This is something we enjoy as well. But not many interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would love to find couples where only the Mrs plays lol

Yeah a few say that but actually getting to meet a couple where they are happy with me just sitting in the corner and watching while having a cuppa and maybe taking a few (no face pics) they then run a mile.

Have done it a few times the past but been a while now."

We have done this in a club and once on our old profile so doesn't bother us, we have spoken to loads of men in clubs that love to watch there Mrs play with a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need a new chatroom called "Couples where only 1 plays and couples that wish to meet them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need a new chatroom called "Couples where only 1 plays and couples that wish to meet them" "
ha if only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need a thread starting "Couples where only 1 plays and couples that wish to meet them" we would but nobody ever posts when we start one sniffle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need a thread starting "Couples where only 1 plays and couples that wish to meet them" we would but nobody ever posts when we start one sniffle "

Oh, do post the thread, we will comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd potentially be up for a meet where our male half has very little involvement. Finding a couple that understands our needs is hard though

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington


"I used to meet a really looking lady in a sauna I used to make love to her ever time we were. there together ,

We would be having sex on the bed and. her husband used to stand there. Full clothed watching us on the bed. "

Swingers don't make love they have sex. We could never make love to a fellow swinger.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We only meet as a couple and Mr FC enjoys the social side of our meetings but isn't interested in playing with anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty where just the lady plays....with me lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only meet as a couple and Mr FC enjoys the social side of our meetings but isn't interested in playing with anyone else. "

We're not quite the same as you guys but we can certainly relate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies so far.

I'm not sure if I phrased my op correctly. My situation is that I am no longer wanting to play with other men, only women. However I am more than happy for my partner to play with other women.

This is meaning our meet potential is now limited.

I cant be the only half of a couple in this situation?

Everyone is different on here and here for different reason and you won't be the only one,but why do you feel this limits your meet potential? Be honest and upfront and most people are very respectful of others boundaries xx

Because since I amended our couples profile to say that I no longer wanted to play with other guys We haven't had a single message lol

Oh right I see what your saying we have that written on our profile and it's never been a problem?

Does your man expect to swap with the lady of another couple though therefore leaving her man on the side lines? X"

My other half never 'expects' to be invited to play with the other female but usually is. This then leaves the other guy as you say on the side lines.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you explored Cuckhold couples where the male is 'forced' to watch as the female is enjoyed? It's quite a common kink."

That is our next step I think.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

We fall under this category

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies so far.

I'm not sure if I phrased my op correctly. My situation is that I am no longer wanting to play with other men, only women. However I am more than happy for my partner to play with other women.

This is meaning our meet potential is now limited.

I cant be the only half of a couple in this situation?

Everyone is different on here and here for different reason and you won't be the only one,but why do you feel this limits your meet potential? Be honest and upfront and most people are very respectful of others boundaries xx

Because since I amended our couples profile to say that I no longer wanted to play with other guys We haven't had a single message lol

Oh right I see what your saying we have that written on our profile and it's never been a problem?

Does your man expect to swap with the lady of another couple though therefore leaving her man on the side lines? X

My other half never 'expects' to be invited to play with the other female but usually is. This then leaves the other guy as you say on the side lines. "

As long as this is discussed before hand though it should cause no problems for you all try going to clubs you may have more opportunity there xx

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"We tend to go with the flow as meets should be fun for everyone involved "

This is us too. We kind of unknowingly jumped right in the deep end, as we ended up in the middle of an orgy in Chams within 15 minutes of arriving for our first visit, but we enjoyed it.

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill

This is exact,y us OP, I don't want to play fully with other men either but happy for Nick to fully play. We have had awesome meets with likeminded couples so just be upfront--- there are lots of us around!!!!!!

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