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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all is there any help for Disabled people here please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sort of help ?

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By *icheekyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've never seen any but then again I haven't really looked. I'm an MS sufferer so if I get chatting to anyone I always bring it up in conversation. I guess it's the same on here as in real life, you just have to communicate any help you need and hope they don't run.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never seen any but then again I haven't really looked. I'm an MS sufferer so if I get chatting to anyone I always bring it up in conversation. I guess it's the same on here as in real life, you just have to communicate any help you need and hope they don't run."

I've got a rare muscle disorder now so will communicate that on my profile! Its slown me down but not stopped me having sex, hope there's some understanding women out there!!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

There is hardly anything on your profile !

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP one's physical circumstances are someone one may communicate with someone they want/intend to meet.

The site does not need to do anything to help as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all is there any help for Disabled people here please?"

Not sure what 'help' you are requiring, or from who?

Can you be a bit more specific?

I did see yesterday on Cupids website that they offer help inside the club for less mobile customers.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"OP one's physical circumstances are someone one may communicate with someone they want/intend to meet.

The site does not need to do anything to help as such."

*something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will be a selection of reasons why men don't get meets, and given the huge numbers of men on Fab it is unrealistic to expect all men to get meets - sadly there aren't enough couples and ladies to go round! If you aren't getting meets, it is not necessarily because of your disability. I would also question whether you actually need to mention it at all on your profile. People are far more likely to be understanding if they get to know you first.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never seen any but then again I haven't really looked. I'm an MS sufferer so if I get chatting to anyone I always bring it up in conversation. I guess it's the same on here as in real life, you just have to communicate any help you need and hope they don't run.

I've got a rare muscle disorder now so will communicate that on my profile! Its slown me down but not stopped me having sex, hope there's some understanding women out there!! "

Personally your disability wouldn't bother me, but the way you have worded your profile makes it sound like you are only looking to meet others with disabilities, which narrows an already small pool of compatible folk down even further?

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Best way is to be upfront about your disability I've always had mine written in my profile and I've been on here for over 7 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many clubs have ramps, etc for disabled people. What kind of help do you need?

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too have MS I don't hide it well I can't as I walk with a gangsta limp lol but no one is normal embrace everyone and enjoy life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In terms of private meets, my disabilities have never yet been an issue.

However, while I appreciate that many venues do make an effort to ensure accessibility for disabled guests, and offer assistance when needed, the attitude of certain individuals on these forums has put me off.

As those individuals never seem to tire of telling me, swingers clubs are 'private members venues.'

They are, therefore, exempt from anti-discrimination statutes and the owners are under no legal obligation to provide access or make any special arrangements for disabled guests.

Apparently, my requesting that a club makes basic arrangements to facilitate my patronage of their facilities qualifies as 'entitlement,' or a request for a 'sympathy fuck'...

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Quest in Leeds is fully accessible to anyone using a wheelchair.

Sally

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By *ild PhoenixMan
over a year ago

London

I am disabled on wheelchair, and things are going fine, you just have to be your self, and dont expect to sleep with all the ladies who are here. Just take your time and communicate with ladies politly and if chemistry exist than you will go from there.

Maz

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By *ojo1964Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I have Cerebral Palsy from birth and although I'm confined to a wheelchair. On my profile I've always been upfront with my disability from Day One, seven years ago.

Also if you check my profile there is a lot humour and when I write to someone there is humour in the main body of the message.

Trouble is 95% messages get deleted. But one day it'll be my turn cuz I know there is someone out there I shall meet.

OP. What kind of help are you looking for? Maybe a chatroom? Or maybe you are looking for advice?

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