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Gentlemans Sausage or Lady Garden

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By *hrillbilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think I might be in the minority here, but does anyone else find it easier to use cuter terms to describe parts of the more intimate anatomy when messaging other fabbers/fabbettes?

What would people prefer when they first get a message from someone, to the "point" or more 'fluffy' terms until you get to know each other/have a social meet?

Of course if you some original/alternative descriptions you would like to share with group then post below

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I personally prefer first messages not to be overtly sexual in nature and if any message referred to a gentleman's sausage we wouldn't respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally prefer first messages not to be overtly sexual in nature and if any message referred to a gentleman's sausage we wouldn't respond."

Agreed, no need to mention these things in a first message...or second and third!!

Problem solved!!

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I might be in the minority here, but does anyone else find it easier to use cuter terms to describe parts of the more intimate anatomy when messaging other fabbers/fabbettes?

What would people prefer when they first get a message from someone, to the "point" or more 'fluffy' terms until you get to know each other/have a social meet?

Of course if you some original/alternative descriptions you would like to share with group then post below "

I prefer not to use childlike language when talking about sex, it gives me the creeps.

Penis and vagina is fine if you're talking scientifically. Beyond that, there are plenty of adult words that work well.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to talk too graphically normally on here..

However, no to the weird awkward names lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they mentioned genitalia in a first message i wouldn't want to know anyway..but if they used stupid coy terms in any subsequent i'd be completely put off as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady garden isn't sexy at all, if someone struggles to use more adult words I'd question their maturity towards sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol ??

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

If I were asked to suck a gentleman's sausage, I couldn't take it seriously..

Often first messages are quite graphic and ask me to do things using more graphic descriptions which is fine cos tbats what i am...A Cocksucker.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

If someone is too immature to use grown up words to describe their genitals then I probably don't want to introduce my winkie to their tuppence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone is too immature to use grown up words to describe their genitals then I probably don't want to introduce my winkie to their tuppence. "

exactly...kind of makes my skin crawl a bit..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gentleman's sausage?

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By *hrillbilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Good to provoke a discussion, with some great posts. Haven't heard tuppance in ages

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If someone is too immature to use grown up words to describe their genitals then I probably don't want to introduce my winkie to their tuppence. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do fluffy

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"If someone is too immature to use grown up words to describe their genitals then I probably don't want to introduce my winkie to their tuppence. "

Laughing at this..

Never do I send a message in the first place and especially a sexual one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone is too immature to use grown up words to describe their genitals then I probably don't want to introduce my winkie to their tuppence. "

Ha ha, love this

Kinky

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I use what they use or based on their profile language you can usually gauge the type of words they'd use for private parts of the body

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