FabSwingers.com forum: How do find women willing to meet Asian men?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just give up lol. Go to a club, but you guys have a bad rep with women so you're gonna have to be pretty fucking exceptional and charming.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't understand why lol, every individual is different. Shouldn't generalise tbh.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've only met one Asian guy who wasn't pushy and thought I'd do as he says.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thing is I'm finding it hard to even get a reply yet alone set up a meet. Given the chance I reckon it would be good.

But it goes back to women writing us off before giving us a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only a few women who have no Asian men on their profiles, it's conduct not race that's important. Keep trying OP XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is I'm finding it hard to even get a reply yet alone set up a meet. Given the chance I reckon it would be good.

But it goes back to women writing us off before giving us a chance."

Bro

Profile is a little odd putting... It's a sex site not Match.com and age is irrelevant so why say it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It's only a few women who have no Asian men on their profiles, it's conduct not race that's important. Keep trying OP XXX"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one's I've met messaged me with a face pic, we chatted and decided to meet.

I was seeing one of them regularly, for a couple of years.

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

OP its not a sprint, its a marathon...

The forum see's posts similar to this daily....all saying the same thing...why cant i get a meet??

Chill, relax, the more you stop thinking this is "instashag" or the world should be on its knees begging for you the easier you will find things.

Race, religion, ect, ect its not what's ruining your chances its that you are 1 single male surrounded by 100,000.

If your that keen to meet, get to a club or a social and the most important thing is RELAX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is I'm finding it hard to even get a reply yet alone set up a meet. Given the chance I reckon it would be good.

But it goes back to women writing us off before giving us a chance.

Bro

Profile is a little odd putting... It's a sex site not Match.com and age is irrelevant so why say it"

No it's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone is put off by Asians OP. Everyone has their own personal preferences . You'll find a lot of men struggle to get replies on here, regardless of their ethnicity. You just have to keep plugging. There's someone for everyone on here, you'll find that someone with patience and time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not everyone is put off by Asians OP. Everyone has their own personal preferences . You'll find a lot of men struggle to get replies on here, regardless of their ethnicity. You just have to keep plugging. There's someone for everyone on here, you'll find that someone with patience and time

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that is really nice

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'd meet you. If you were closer, and I was meeting.

You look just my type.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the reassurance. Much appreciated I'll carry on fabbing till I meet my match

Also, last poster, maybe I can travel when you are meeting;)

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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What she said

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had any problems so far...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Thanks everyone for the reassurance. Much appreciated I'll carry on fabbing till I meet my match

Also, last poster, maybe I can travel when you are meeting;)"

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd meet you. If you were closer, and I was meeting.

You look just my type."

Nice ass

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'd meet you. If you were closer, and I was meeting.

You look just my type.

Nice ass

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd meet you. If you were closer, and I was meeting.

You look just my type.

Nice ass

Thank you"

May I submit my application to see it in person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know women who meet Asian men. They're generally Asian men who don't constantly whinge about women not meeting Asian men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Asian friend said women would chat to him, then blank him when he told them he was Asian.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons. "

I enjoy the irony of someone refusing to meet a particular group on account of double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our experience with Asian men has not been good, first one when told to stop didnt, only a shove stopped him! he said "i havent finished yet!" he was very very lucky i didnt lose it. only 2 weeks ago anotjer one got told to go from a club we were at for continually touching up the women, so we certainly wouldnt entertain any others. Sad really because there surely must be others who aren't like this.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Met some nice and respectful Asian guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our experience with Asian men has not been good, first one when told to stop didnt, only a shove stopped him! he said "i havent finished yet!" he was very very lucky i didnt lose it. only 2 weeks ago anotjer one got told to go from a club we were at for continually touching up the women, so we certainly wouldnt entertain any others. Sad really because there surely must be others who aren't like this."

i'm sure British do not do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm sure British do not do that. "

plenty of asian men on here are british,and plenty of asian men are perfectly polite and respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm sure British do not do that. "

Well im sure they do, but our experience unfortunately is not good, as i said surely there must be others who are not like that, maybe weve just been unlucky.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Ive had some bad experiences when ive dated a few Gemini women in the past. Gemini women are known for having two or more personalities, can be quite scary.

Tho this still hasn't put me off dating or meeting other Gemini women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive had some bad experiences when ive dated a few Gemini women in the past. Gemini women are known for having two or more personalities, can be quite scary.

Tho this still hasn't put me off dating or meeting other Gemini women

My sister is a Gemini, I feel your pain

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Ive had some bad experiences when ive dated a few Gemini women in the past. Gemini women are known for having two or more personalities, can be quite scary.

Tho this still hasn't put me off dating or meeting other Gemini women

My sister is a Gemini, I feel your pain

At first I thought it was me but clearly this not the case.

(tars brush of all geminis)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive had some bad experiences when ive dated a few Gemini women in the past. Gemini women are known for having two or more personalities, can be quite scary.

Tho this still hasn't put me off dating or meeting other Gemini women

My sister is a Gemini, I feel your pain

At first I thought it was me but clearly this not the case.

(tars brush of all geminis)

Haha I think it depends on your starsign too... Maybe you clash (not that I'm some astrology buff)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And no other race has ever done that?

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Well I dont think Scorpios are a match for Geminis anyway, but hey I dont discriminate.

We are the most erotic star sign after all bit like those spicy brown folk who wrote the karma sutra

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"We know women who meet Asian men. They're generally Asian men who don't constantly whinge about women not meeting Asian men. "

Where is the "like" button?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is I'm finding it hard to even get a reply yet alone set up a meet. Given the chance I reckon it would be good.

But it goes back to women writing us off before giving us a chance."

Your recent conduct in these forums has scuppered your chances I'm afraid. It's your attitude towards women, not your race, which is the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is I'm finding it hard to even get a reply yet alone set up a meet. Given the chance I reckon it would be good.

But it goes back to women writing us off before giving us a chance.

Your recent conduct in these forums has scuppered your chances I'm afraid. It's your attitude towards women, not your race, which is the issue."

Green tick, BBW thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is I'm finding it hard to even get a reply yet alone set up a meet. Given the chance I reckon it would be good.

But it goes back to women writing us off before giving us a chance."

The fact that you are Asian is not the reason you aren't getting replies or meets. True it may not help due to the bad reputation that Asian men rightfully or wrongly have. But most white or black guys of your age also don't get meets or replies on Fab. You have come to a swingers site looking to meet women. The majority of women on swingers sites come as part of a couple, and you are not looking for that. You have also come to a site where most people are considerably older than yourself and men in their early 20s are usually considered immature and inexperienced. As it is just women you are interested in, I suspect you would finding a casual dating site more fruitful, where at least there are a fairer proportion of women. There is actually a thread going now discussing how it is easier for single men to get sex on POF/Tinder than on Fab.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is I'm finding it hard to even get a reply yet alone set up a meet. Given the chance I reckon it would be good.

But it goes back to women writing us off before giving us a chance.

Your recent conduct in these forums has scuppered your chances I'm afraid. It's your attitude towards women, not your race, which is the issue."

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By *exysingh72Man
over a year ago

Isleworth

I'm a Asian guy and I have no problem meeting ladies or cpls,try going to social events it a great way to to meet other fabber and showing you a genuine respectful guy and not a prick like some off the Asian guys I've met in club and social events who think they can touch any lady because they are into swinging, sorry for the rant they really piss me off

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

I enjoy the irony of someone refusing to meet a particular group on account of double standards.

You have no idea about my experiences with Asian men. Double standards were rife when I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is I'm finding it hard to even get a reply yet alone set up a meet. Given the chance I reckon it would be good.

But it goes back to women writing us off before giving us a chance.

Your recent conduct in these forums has scuppered your chances I'm afraid. It's your attitude towards women, not your race, which is the issue."

I've just Green arrowed him. That other thread he started was absolutely horrific.

Mrs

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

What people are forgetting in general the word SWINGING!!! this is a swinging site not a SEX site......what most are forgetting is the social side ..... the same goes for a club if you go with the attitude "I've paid my money I want a shag" go to a brothel then because then your guaranteed a shag......I've seen it happen they follow couples like lemmings and don't even bother to socalise and expect action PLEASE PEOPLE UNDERSTAND WHAT SWINGING MEANS!!!! rant over!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is I'm finding it hard to even get a reply yet alone set up a meet. Given the chance I reckon it would be good.

But it goes back to women writing us off before giving us a chance.

Your recent conduct in these forums has scuppered your chances I'm afraid. It's your attitude towards women, not your race, which is the issue.

I've just Green arrowed him. That other thread he started was absolutely horrific.

Mrs"

Yeah he came across as a self-entitled prick and I can't imagine his messages to women are any better. Was only a few weeks ago and I recall telling him to leave the site. Pissed off a lot of people, he did!

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Thing is I'm finding it hard to even get a reply yet alone set up a meet. Given the chance I reckon it would be good.

But it goes back to women writing us off before giving us a chance.

Your recent conduct in these forums has scuppered your chances I'm afraid. It's your attitude towards women, not your race, which is the issue.

I've just Green arrowed him. That other thread he started was absolutely horrific.

Mrs

For a university student he comes over a pit of a prick! !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just give up lol. Go to a club, but you guys have a bad rep with women so you're gonna have to be pretty fucking exceptional and charming."

Haha

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?"

What are you implying by the word 'free',OP?

Did you have expectations of paying for women here? If so, then you are on the wrong website. Such things are not allowed here.

Besides, it would appear that comment along with previous comments gives the impression that you don't have a very positive view of women.

As one fabber suggested, other websites/meet up platforms maybe more suitable for you. I think you've blown your chances on this one.

Spectacularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met some really nice asian guys that have been very attentive and good at bedding Mrs N. No better or worse experiences than the other men we've met over the last 15 years or so. We like to think we've done our bit for good race relations

. Treat us well and we reciprocate in kind for some memorable experiences.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

I enjoy the irony of someone refusing to meet a particular group on account of double standards.

You have no idea about my experiences with Asian men. Double standards were rife when I did."

Irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try meeting Asian women who can "engage in some level of intellectual conversation"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?

What are you implying by the word 'free',OP?

Did you have expectations of paying for women here? If so, then you are on the wrong website. Such things are not allowed here.

Besides, it would appear that comment along with previous comments gives the impression that you don't have a very positive view of women.

As one fabber suggested, other websites/meet up platforms maybe more suitable for you. I think you've blown your chances on this one.

Spectacularly."

Oh I completely missed the 'free' part, as did many of us. Well spotted. What a douchebag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm sure British do not do that. "

They recounted *their* experiences with Asian men. They did not check their passports to see if they were now naturalised British citizens

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The "free" part was a typo don't get your knickers in a twist x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?

What are you implying by the word 'free',OP?

Did you have expectations of paying for women here? If so, then you are on the wrong website. Such things are not allowed here.

Besides, it would appear that comment along with previous comments gives the impression that you don't have a very positive view of women.

As one fabber suggested, other websites/meet up platforms maybe more suitable for you. I think you've blown your chances on this one.

Spectacularly.

Oh I completely missed the 'free' part, as did many of us. Well spotted. What a douchebag!"

I just wanted to say I like Mrs Robinson's photos....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The "free" part was a typo don't get your knickers in a twist x"

A typo, what was the word meant to be ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not free** I meant to type ????

I don't think your lack of meets/responses on here has anything to do with race, personality plays a big part in whether or not I'd meet someone!

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"The "free" part was a typo don't get your knickers in a twist x"

Really?

I don't quite believe you. If it was a typo, then it would've been corrected at least 14 hours ago.

And if you think an x will placate myself or any other fabber, I'm afraid it won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP its not a sprint, its a marathon...

The forum see's posts similar to this daily....all saying the same thing...why cant i get a meet??

Chill, relax, the more you stop thinking this is "instashag" or the world should be on its knees begging for you the easier you will find things.

Good points raised here, I meet an Asian guy at a club, wasn't keen at first but he grew on me and now I'm hooked, can't wait to see him at bmfc at xtasia on the 12th May, planning meets is best.

It's more about personality for me.

He's drop dead gorgeous as well and non pushy I love my time with him as he shares me and I feel safe in his company x

Race, religion, ect, ect its not what's ruining your chances its that you are 1 single male surrounded by 100,000.

If your that keen to meet, get to a club or a social and the most important thing is RELAX "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The "free" part was a typo don't get your knickers in a twist x"

Is the 'x' a 'typo' too?

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By *exysingh72Man
over a year ago

Isleworth

"I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?

What are you implying by the word 'free',OP?

Did you have expectations of

paying for women here? If so, then you are on the wrong website. Such things are not allowed here.

Besides, it would appear that comment along with previous comments gives the impression that you don't have a very positive view of women.

As one fabber suggested, other websites/meet up platforms maybe more suitable for you. I think you've blown your chances on this one.

Spectacularly."

Well said how are you cotton

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?

What are you implying by the word 'free',OP?

Did you have expectations of

paying for women here? If so, then you are on the wrong website. Such things are not allowed here.

Besides, it would appear that comment along with previous comments gives the impression that you don't have a very positive view of women.

As one fabber suggested, other websites/meet up platforms maybe more suitable for you. I think you've blown your chances on this one.

Spectacularly.

Well said how are you cotton"

Lol!

Hullo! I'm good!

I just can't stay silent on some issues...as usual!

Hope you're coming to the next social. It would good to see you there!

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"It's only a few women who have no Asian men on their profiles, it's conduct not race that's important. Keep trying OP XXX"

Not all Women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?

What are you implying by the word 'free',OP?

Did you have expectations of paying for women here? If so, then you are on the wrong website. Such things are not allowed here.

Besides, it would appear that comment along with previous comments gives the impression that you don't have a very positive view of women.

As one fabber suggested, other websites/meet up platforms maybe more suitable for you. I think you've blown your chances on this one.

Spectacularly.

Oh I completely missed the 'free' part, as did many of us. Well spotted. What a douchebag!

I just wanted to say I like Mrs Robinson's photos....

Thank you very much, I'm just going to upload another! X

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By *ocoaXXXMan
over a year ago

London

Nooo not another oerson who is hindering my chances ahaha

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By *ocoaXXXMan
over a year ago

London

"Nooo not another oerson who is hindering my chances ahaha

Now that was a genuine typo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only a few women who have no Asian men on their profiles, it's conduct not race that's important. Keep trying OP XXX"

THIS!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read the BBW/Cougar thread and currently rolling on floor laughing my head off. Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive had some bad experiences when ive dated a few Gemini women in the past. Gemini women are known for having two or more personalities, can be quite scary.

Tho this still hasn't put me off dating or meeting other Gemini women

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Just read the BBW/Cougar thread and currently rolling on floor laughing my head off. Good luck OP

Always good to belittle and undermine folks.

Ad hominem ad nauseam.

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By *rzambiqueMan
over a year ago

Edmonton

"I'd meet you. If you were closer, and I was meeting.

You look just my type."

Hey hey such a yummy ass xx

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

Hang on.

He made a typo.

Didn't he?

That's how I saw it.

He's not alluding women are prostitutes.

Is he?

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?"

It's not ALWAYS.

It's sometimes.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Hang on.

He made a typo.

Didn't he?

That's how I saw it.

He's not alluding women are prostitutes.

Is he?

No.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

I enjoy the irony of someone refusing to meet a particular group on account of double standards.

You have no idea about my experiences with Asian men. Double standards were rife when I did.

Irrelevant "

Not to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No asians..no black guys..no bald guys its a preference that ppl have and trying to change that is fruitless, that said if you state on your profile that you are not interested in "fat ppl and ugly folk" you tend to get stick for it... double standards.

Welcome to fab

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"Hang on.

He made a typo.

Didn't he?

That's how I saw it.

He's not alluding women are prostitutes.

Is he?

No.

But he never explained what the typo was meant to be. Nor was the typo corrected in a timely manner, especially seeing how explosive it could be.

So until he explains what the typo was, I will assume that he did mean what he wrote.

And, to attempt to wave away such a statement with a kiss was pretty insulting as well. I'm not going to have such a statement waved away with a kiss.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's not ALWAYS.

It's sometimes. "

Must ALWAYS be looking at the wrong profiles.

Seriously there is no point winging or moaning etc not gonna do yourself any favours end of the day you can't sway anyone's preference.

Everyone has a type that they're looking for and entitled to have a choice and with are perfectly entitled too.

Plus the ratio of men to women on here the opposite sex can afford to be picky with whom they reply too.

Some people prefer Cheese and Onion crisps others prefer Prawn cocktail.

Tho sometimes its good to have a break from the norm try something different. Like already mentioned its how you conduct yourself and hopefully you can tempt someone to try some sweet chilli crisps

As they say variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a four or maybe five/six some kinda lost count after 3!

2 young asian lads joined in, they were very respectful and thoughtful.

However if you're a arrogant pushy person, it doesn't matter if you're black, white or Asain you won't get anywhere.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

She likes spicy

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Hang on.

He made a typo.

Didn't he?

That's how I saw it.

He's not alluding women are prostitutes.

Is he?

No.

But he never explained what the typo was meant to be. Nor was the typo corrected in a timely manner, especially seeing how explosive it could be.

So until he explains what the typo was, I will assume that he did mean what he wrote.

And, to attempt to wave away such a statement with a kiss was pretty insulting as well. I'm not going to have such a statement waved away with a kiss.

Insulting?

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By *he Dark Knight09Man
over a year ago

London

"I just wanted to say I like Mrs Robinson's photos....

I believe everyone would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?

What are you implying by the word 'free',OP?

Did you have expectations of paying for women here? If so, then you are on the wrong website. Such things are not allowed here.

Besides, it would appear that comment along with previous comments gives the impression that you don't have a very positive view of women.

As one fabber suggested, other websites/meet up platforms maybe more suitable for you. I think you've blown your chances on this one.

Spectacularly.

Oh I completely missed the 'free' part, as did many of us. Well spotted. What a douchebag!

I just wanted to say I like Mrs Robinson's photos....

Thank you very much, I'm just going to upload another! X"

Ooh! I shall take a peek!

I wish I could message you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No asians..no black guys..no bald guys its a preference that ppl have and trying to change that is fruitless, that said if you state on your profile that you are not interested in "fat ppl and ugly folk" you tend to get stick for it... double standards.

I particularly like your comment in this thread.

Welcome to fab"

Great pics btw...wish I could play with you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

I enjoy the irony of someone refusing to meet a particular group on account of double standards.

You have no idea about my experiences with Asian men. Double standards were rife when I did.

Irrelevant

Not to me "

Not all Asian men are arseholes. What did this man do to you? Did he give you a Lamb Tikka when you wanted a Korma?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?"

You could try and bring some Asian ladies onto the scene...

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"Hang on.

He made a typo.

Didn't he?

That's how I saw it.

He's not alluding women are prostitutes.

Is he?

No.

But he never explained what the typo was meant to be. Nor was the typo corrected in a timely manner, especially seeing how explosive it could be.

So until he explains what the typo was, I will assume that he did mean what he wrote.

And, to attempt to wave away such a statement with a kiss was pretty insulting as well. I'm not going to have such a statement waved away with a kiss.

Insulting?"

Yes. Insulting.

I was advised on this thread to click on the green arrow. Maybe you should too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, I have found that British born Asians have been perfect gents and very much enjoyed their company.

I have been in clubs when one or two non British Asians have been pushy or touching without asking and needed firm reminding more than once, but I've had this with some Caucasian guys. Doesn't put me off meeting other Asians.

Variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I normally don't like commenting on these type of threads, as I don't want to be seen as whining.

I am British Asian and treat everyone I know with respect. I have no issue with anyone not wanting to see Asians.

It does hurt though when you mention you are Asian to someone after you've been chatting for a while and then silence/block.

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

This is a funny thread because I can imagine the reverse happening, white men in Asia finding it hard to meet asian women.

But they would still have it a bit easier than asian men in here.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Hang on.

He made a typo.

Didn't he?

That's how I saw it.

He's not alluding women are prostitutes.

Is he?

No.

But he never explained what the typo was meant to be. Nor was the typo corrected in a timely manner, especially seeing how explosive it could be.

So until he explains what the typo was, I will assume that he did mean what he wrote.

And, to attempt to wave away such a statement with a kiss was pretty insulting as well. I'm not going to have such a statement waved away with a kiss.

Insulting?

Yes. Insulting.

I was advised on this thread to click on the green arrow. Maybe you should too."

I am happy to form my own opinions and I agree that the OP could do with some lessons in tact however simply put, the level of over sensitivity and over reaction shown here is, sadly expected for an internet forum but still far beyond that which is reasonable.

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"Hang on.

He made a typo.

Didn't he?

That's how I saw it.

He's not alluding women are prostitutes.

Is he?

No.

But he never explained what the typo was meant to be. Nor was the typo corrected in a timely manner, especially seeing how explosive it could be.

So until he explains what the typo was, I will assume that he did mean what he wrote.

And, to attempt to wave away such a statement with a kiss was pretty insulting as well. I'm not going to have such a statement waved away with a kiss.

Insulting?

Yes. Insulting.

I was advised on this thread to click on the green arrow. Maybe you should too.

I don't think I'm oversensitive in this case, and I think we should agree to disagree in this case.

Best

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons. "

Every weekend we visit various North West Clubs and 100% of the time the disrespectful men are Asian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I normally don't like commenting on these type of threads, as I don't want to be seen as whining.

I am British Asian and treat everyone I know with respect. I have no issue with anyone not wanting to see Asians.

It does hurt though when you mention you are Asian to someone after you've been chatting for a while and then silence/block. "

It's no different then messaging a couple/single and them blocking you for no reason. Would you prefer them to just waste your time further? If you're not for them then there's little point carrying on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

Every weekend we visit various North West Clubs and 100% of the time the disrespectful men are Asian. "

They behave similarly here. However that still does not mean that the next one isn't a decent guy. But I understand that after a while, some folk will rather not risk the experience again especially when there are so many other men to choose from

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I normally don't like commenting on these type of threads, as I don't want to be seen as whining.

I am British Asian and treat everyone I know with respect. I have no issue with anyone not wanting to see Asians.

It does hurt though when you mention you are Asian to someone after you've been chatting for a while and then silence/block.

This has been after me introducing myself and after having sent pics of myself - they have said yes they like me and would like to meet up... They have asked what's my ethnicity and then block. This is different to what you have mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try the quran wife swap journal

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By *ouble_CreamCouple
over a year ago

cheltenham

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons. "

THIS!

The Asian culture is disrespectful to women.

It's ingrained in them.

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"My Asian friend said women would chat to him, then blank him when he told them he was Asian. "

Yes that seems to happen a lot with me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?"

This is a swingers site not a a free sex site u do realise tat don't u

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

THIS!

The Asian culture is disrespectful to women.

It's ingrained in them.

Bulshit Asian culture is disrespectful to women. Who exactly are you talking about and what do u know about the Asian culture? Do you know what Asian means?

I am indian not Asian so don't generalise people

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"My Asian friend said women would chat to him, then blank him when he told them he was Asian.

Yes that seems to happen a lot with me too"

Maybe get some clearer profile pictures so people don't waste your time?

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

There are some sweeping generalisations being posted on this thread. Asia covers many countries and religion's. We've been to India and have worked with Indian people, the woman are treated with respect within the family unit. There are disrespectful people in all walks of life, regardless of colour or creed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is I'm finding it hard to even get a reply yet alone set up a meet. Given the chance I reckon it would be good.

But it goes back to women writing us off before giving us a chance."

I only read this far on the thread so far.

I'd say your age and that you're a student are two things that stand more in your way than your ethnicity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I normally don't like commenting on these type of threads, as I don't want to be seen as whining.

I am British Asian and treat everyone I know with respect. I have no issue with anyone not wanting to see Asians.

It does hurt though when you mention you are Asian to someone after you've been chatting for a while and then silence/block.

Is it? Or are you only looking at the race aspect? Would you prefer to get to an agreed location for them to suddenly say er no thank you? Probably not

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"There are some sweeping generalisations being posted on this thread. Asia covers many countries and religion's. We've been to India and have worked with Indian people, the woman are treated with respect within the family unit. There are disrespectful people in all walks of life, regardless of colour or creed. "

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

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By *inkyPixelMan
over a year ago

Cranford

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

THIS!

The Asian culture is disrespectful to women.

It's ingrained in them.

Once your finished painting everyone with the same brush would you like it back

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over a year ago

Cranford

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

THIS!

The Asian culture is disrespectful to women.

It's ingrained in them.

Well I've met a few that are disrepectful. And I've met a few that are respectful. But not all of them respectful or disrespectful. You get that in any culture and society. Asia is a continent of many countries and cultures.

However, I will make my views clear if ANY man is disrespectful. Regardless of what continent,culture or society he is from.

And, with that I'm outta this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category "

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -"

Get it right woman Asia is a contingent with many cultures so to say in UK u refer to Asian from Indian subcontinent is bulshit. It's like a person from out site calling u Welsh or scottish if it actually English.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

You really do not need to resort to profanities to state your position

There are several countries in the Indian sub-continent and several provinces as well but all are inhabited by Indians irrespective of the geo-political borders

This is similar to Europe. In Europe, Europeans inhabit most of the continent and then there are geo-political borders. Germans, French, etc. But we are Europeans. Then there are further bounderies, such as Welsh, Scottish, Irish, English, but they are all still Europeans

The term 'Asian', when used in the United Kingdom, generally refers to people of Indian ethnicity and heritage

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

You really do not need to resort to profanities to state your position

There are several countries in the Indian sub-continent and several provinces as well but all are inhabited by Indians irrespective of the geo-political borders

The term 'Asian', when used in the United Kingdom, generally refers to people of Indian ethnicity and heritage"
and Pakistani

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

You really do not need to resort to profanities to state your position

There are several countries in the Indian sub-continent and several provinces as well but all are inhabited by Indians irrespective of the geo-political borders

The term 'Asian', when used in the United Kingdom, generally refers to people of Indian ethnicity and heritage and Pakistani "

Yes. Pakistan is simply a country created, I believe, in 1947, from within the Indian sub-continent. The ethnicity of the people inhabiting that country is still Indian. Their ethnicity did not suddenly change in 1947; just their citizenship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

You really do not need to resort to profanities to state your position

There are several countries in the Indian sub-continent and several provinces as well but all are inhabited by Indians irrespective of the geo-political borders

The term 'Asian', when used in the United Kingdom, generally refers to people of Indian ethnicity and heritage"

What about the rest of the Asian subcontinent i.e. Sri Lanka? Doesn't that make me 'Asian' then? Seems it only the Indians and Pakistanis that have that nomenclature then...

So...that must mean I'm White!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

You really do not need to resort to profanities to state your position

There are several countries in the Indian sub-continent and several provinces as well but all are inhabited by Indians irrespective of the geo-political borders

The term 'Asian', when used in the United Kingdom, generally refers to people of Indian ethnicity and heritage

What about the rest of the Asian subcontinent i.e. Sri Lanka? Doesn't that make me 'Asian' then? Seems it only the Indians and Pakistanis that have that nomenclature then...

So...that must mean I'm White!

It is your choice. You are whoever you want to be

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can all debate the various countries and cultures that cover the Asian continent, but there's not much that can help the OP get a meet, unless his attitude changes. An areshole is an areshole wherever he's from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them you're Portuguese

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By *inkyPixelMan
over a year ago

Cranford

I normally say I'm from wherever you want me to be from

Line tends to work better over text than in reality. Standard response is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We can all debate the various countries and cultures that cover the Asian continent, but there's not much that can help the OP get a meet, unless his attitude changes. An areshole is an areshole wherever he's from. "

Arsehole even! Damn typo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"try the quran wife swap journal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

THIS!

The Asian culture is disrespectful to women.

It's ingrained in them.

Absolute bullocks. Not all Asian cultures are disrespectful.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Arsehole even! Damn typo"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social like I did. Be brave, have the balls to go alone and show women who u are and not what they think you are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf reading your profile you sound like a intellectual snob

Be smart otherwise don't bother

Your here for sex not finding a team to go on university challenge with

Also why put face pics up if your only going to blur it out

Seems pretty pointless to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also why put face pics up if your only going to blur it out

Seems pretty pointless to me "

Privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he wants privacy then set them as private

What's the point in having a puic picture

That shows no body whatso ever

Only to blur the face out

All that shows people is he has a head

Which I'm sure we can all assume everyone on here has at least one of them!

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

You really do not need to resort to profanities to state your position

There are several countries in the Indian sub-continent and several provinces as well but all are inhabited by Indians irrespective of the geo-political borders

The term 'Asian', when used in the United Kingdom, generally refers to people of Indian ethnicity and heritage"

No it fucking doesn't. It refers to people from Asia.

If you generalise and stereotype please don't pretend the rest of us brits agree with you.

Profanity is required in the face of wilful ignorance of this calibre.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

THIS!

The Asian culture is disrespectful to women.

It's ingrained in them.

Wow that's pretty fucked up talk about generalising

Well I better stop meeting ALL Gemini women if thats the case !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's only a few women who have no Asian men on their profiles, it's conduct not race that's important. Keep trying OP XXX"

Totally agree

Any race guy can be a dick.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

THIS!

The Asian culture is disrespectful to women.

It's ingrained in them.

Wow that's pretty fucked up talk about generalising

Well I better stop meeting ALL Gemini women if thats the case !"

Asia is a tiny place with only one culture so it is clearly easy to lump over one billion people into the same basket.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Totally agree

Any race person can be a dick.

Let's try a little correction and we can stop generalising and picking on men/Asian people.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

THIS!

The Asian culture is disrespectful to women.

It's ingrained in them.

Wow that's pretty fucked up talk about generalising

Well I better stop meeting ALL Gemini women if thats the case !

Asia is a tiny place with only one culture so it is clearly easy to lump over one billion people into the same basket.

So many different sub cultures within Asia. Indian, Chinese, Japanese, Persian, Iranian etc...

Not here for a history or geography lesson, but you can't generalise a WHOLE continent.

Its like saying that ALL north American people have the same ideology as the KKK, or that all of Europe is anti Jewish, due to what the Nazis did.

My point being there are bad apples within all cultures, races, countries etc...

You can't simply tar every single person with that same brush.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I never meet Asians either in real life or on here nowdays; double standards, disrespectful conduct and bad attitudes towards women are the reasons.

THIS!

The Asian culture is disrespectful to women.

It's ingrained in them.

Wow that's pretty fucked up talk about generalising

Well I better stop meeting ALL Gemini women if thats the case !

Asia is a tiny place with only one culture so it is clearly easy to lump over one billion people into the same basket.

So many different sub cultures within Asia. Indian, Chinese, Japanese, Persian, Iranian etc...

Not here for a history or geography lesson, but you can't generalise a WHOLE continent.

Its like saying that ALL north American people have the same ideology as the KKK, or that all of Europe is anti Jewish, due to what the Nazis did.

My point being there are bad apples within all cultures, races, countries etc...

You can't simply tar every single person with that same brush. "

It's a lot easier to ignore all that subtlety and nuance and just assume all people who are a bit different looking behave the same. That saves having to use my brain for actually intelligent things and I can go on watching box sets of crime dramas and getting scared about foreigners breaking the NHS and making sure that all my money is given to rich people to make sure that left wing people don't increase my human rights.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

What's a brain ?? Guess I'll fill my intellect with everything I read in the tabloids and quote it as gospel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

You really do not need to resort to profanities to state your position

There are several countries in the Indian sub-continent and several provinces as well but all are inhabited by Indians irrespective of the geo-political borders

The term 'Asian', when used in the United Kingdom, generally refers to people of Indian ethnicity and heritage

No it fucking doesn't. It refers to people from Asia.

If you generalise and stereotype please don't pretend the rest of us brits agree with you.

Profanity is required in the face of wilful ignorance of this calibre."

No, it isn't required for it simply makes you appear childish and your statement, weak

- Mrs. J -

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

I'm from Australia and we also refer to people from China, Japan and Indonesia, etc. as Asian. People from India, Bangladesh, etc. are referred as from those countries.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

You really do not need to resort to profanities to state your position

There are several countries in the Indian sub-continent and several provinces as well but all are inhabited by Indians irrespective of the geo-political borders

The term 'Asian', when used in the United Kingdom, generally refers to people of Indian ethnicity and heritage

No it fucking doesn't. It refers to people from Asia.

If you generalise and stereotype please don't pretend the rest of us brits agree with you.

Profanity is required in the face of wilful ignorance of this calibre.

No, it isn't required for it simply makes you appear childish and your statement, weak

- Mrs. J -"

No. That is wholly inaccurate.

Self righteous patronising nonsense has that effect without doubt.

But generally holding and professing racist and lazy stereotypical views of vast tracts of humanity is childish and weak irrespective how you think it appears.

It is also downright ignorant and wholly unbecoming of a community based on tolerance and mutual interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

I'm from Australia and we also refer to people from China, Japan and Indonesia, etc. as Asian. People from India, Bangladesh, etc. are referred as from those countries.

Exactly. We all know that Asia is a continent comprising of various countries and of people of various ethnicities

However, the term Asian is in general use to describe people of certain ethnicities. When in North America, people there used Asian exactly the way Australians do (I presume that is what you stated in your post)

The OP is Indian (or atleast he appears to be from the Indian sub-continent). Yet he describes himself as Asian as is that term used in the title of this thread

I accept that not every person in the UK may use Asian to describe Indians or people of Indian extraction. But the general population does and that was the only point I was making

Hopefully, I won't get another childish bully in the playground having a go at me

- Mrs. J -

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?"

I see loads saying only Asian men..look harder you lazy sod!

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

I'm from Australia and we also refer to people from China, Japan and Indonesia, etc. as Asian. People from India, Bangladesh, etc. are referred as from those countries.

Exactly. We all know that Asia is a continent comprising of various countries and of people of various ethnicities

The OP is Indian (or atleast he appears to be from the Indian sub-continent). Yet he describes himself as Asian as is that term used in the title of this thread

I accept that not every person in the UK may use Asian to describe Indians or people of Indian extraction. But the general population does and that was the only point I was making

Hopefully, I won't get another childish bully in the playground having a go at me

- Mrs. J -"

I think it's perfectly reasonable to have a go at trite stereotypes and for you to sit making snide carping remarks whilst calling me a childish bully is at best humourous.

Your point was a dreadful one and serves only to perpetuate division and dismissing of entire continents as exactly the same. Not only entire continents but the most populous continent on earth with an incredibly wide and varied set of totally distinct cultures which have as much relation to each other as a melon to a bathmat and trying to lump them all together as one great miasma is absurd, lazy and frankly silly.

If pointing out crass racism and stupidity is bullying then the definition of the word has .

You have demonstrated an ability to attack others when you don't like what they say so to go crying bully when someone criticises you is rather sad and deleterious to debate.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"...the definition of the word has changed."

(The end to my penultimate paragraph. The autocarrot on my new phone hates me. Apologies.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

I'm from Australia and we also refer to people from China, Japan and Indonesia, etc. as Asian. People from India, Bangladesh, etc. are referred as from those countries.

Exactly. We all know that Asia is a continent comprising of various countries and of people of various ethnicities

The OP is Indian (or atleast he appears to be from the Indian sub-continent). Yet he describes himself as Asian as is that term used in the title of this thread

I accept that not every person in the UK may use Asian to describe Indians or people of Indian extraction. But the general population does and that was the only point I was making

Hopefully, I won't get another childish bully in the playground having a go at me

- Mrs. J -

I think it's perfectly reasonable to have a go at trite stereotypes and for you to sit making snide carping remarks whilst calling me a childish bully is at best humourous.

If pointing out crass racism and stupidity is bullying then the definition of the word has .

You have demonstrated an ability to attack others when you don't like what they say so to go crying bully when someone criticises you is rather sad and deleterious to debate."

One needs to be sober when commenting on forums

Stating the general use of a term in *not* racism. Only a complete idiot would think so. It is no more racist than calling a group of people in Australia, Aborigines

I give up on you as you are an extremly angry man who sees racism everywhere. Hope you calm down, sometime

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Is using the bully card no different than the race card ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always see women having BBC or BWC on their profiles or "NO ASIAN MEN"

What to do to beat this and meet some of you wonderful ladies free?"

Free ??

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Thank you .... there are a lot of ignorant people who think brown means Asian. I am not Asian I am indian there is a difference and i do not like being generalised is to that category

I believe that Asian, in this country, refers to people from the Indian sub-continent. In North America, Asian refers to people from the Orient and the Far East

- Mrs. J -

I'm from Australia and we also refer to people from China, Japan and Indonesia, etc. as Asian. People from India, Bangladesh, etc. are referred as from those countries.

Exactly. We all know that Asia is a continent comprising of various countries and of people of various ethnicities

The OP is Indian (or atleast he appears to be from the Indian sub-continent). Yet he describes himself as Asian as is that term used in the title of this thread

I accept that not every person in the UK may use Asian to describe Indians or people of Indian extraction. But the general population does and that was the only point I was making

Hopefully, I won't get another childish bully in the playground having a go at me

- Mrs. J -

I think it's perfectly reasonable to have a go at trite stereotypes and for you to sit making snide carping remarks whilst calling me a childish bully is at best humourous.

If pointing out crass racism and stupidity is bullying then the definition of the word has .

You have demonstrated an ability to attack others when you don't like what they say so to go crying bully when someone criticises you is rather sad and deleterious to debate.

One needs to be sober when commenting on forums

Stating the general use of a term in *not* racism. Only a complete idiot would think so. It is no more racist than calling a group of people in Australia, Aborigines

I give up on you as you are an extremly angry man who sees racism everywhere. Hope you calm down, sometime"

I'm not a man or angry.

Keep casting your stereotypes.

Racism is easy to spot.

Stop being racist and you won't be accused of being a racist ****

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"One needs to be sober when commenting on forums"

I don't drink for severe health reasons and that is very offensive.

Give some thought before making even more crass comments please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One needs to be sober when commenting on forums

I don't drink for severe health reasons and that is very offensive.

Give some thought before making even more crass comments please."

Crass comments? I think you need to read your comments before suggesting something as stupid as that

Copy and paste my comment where I have been 'racist'. Forget that; copy and paste my comment where you *think* that I have been 'racist'. I don't think you even know what racist means. And don't suggest meaning which I have not stated in any of my comments; that is just simply paranoia

Ofcourse, if you think that a racist is someone stating an obviously generally used term such as Asian, European, etc, then, there is nothing more to say to you

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"One needs to be sober when commenting on forums

I don't drink for severe health reasons and that is very offensive.

Give some thought before making even more crass comments please.

Crass comments? I think you need to read your comments before suggesting something as stupid as that

Ofcourse, if you think that a racist is someone stating an obviously generally used term such as Asian, European, etc, then, there is nothing more to say to you"

No.

Racist is assuming that vast tracts of humanity can be summed up in one word.

Racist is suggesting that you can divide people and areas with generalisation and stereotype.

Racist is thinking that the continent someone comes from defines their behaviour.

Sexist is assuming I am a man because, well no one knows why really apart from you.

Keep it up.

My argument is made easier the more you write.

Nothing I can say proves my point as well as you do and have done.

I owe you a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One needs to be sober when commenting on forums

I don't drink for severe health reasons and that is very offensive.

Give some thought before making even more crass comments please.

Crass comments? I think you need to read your comments before suggesting something as stupid as that

Ofcourse, if you think that a racist is someone stating an obviously generally used term such as Asian, European, etc, then, there is nothing more to say to you

No.

Racist is assuming that vast tracts of humanity can be summed up in one word.

**Which word?**

Racist is suggesting that you can divide people and areas with generalisation and stereotype.

**Where did I say that? Copy and paste it and stop listening to the voices in your head**

Racist is thinking that the continent someone comes from defines their behaviour.

**Where did I say that? Copy and paste it**

Sexist is assuming I am a man because, well no one knows why really apart from you.

Keep it up.

My argument is made easier the more you write.

Nothing I can say proves my point as well as you do and have done.

I owe you a drink."

You are talking so much nonsence. Now copy and past what you acccused me of.or shut it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for all the stuff being spilled out into public here. Merely makes me feel stronger that my time swinging has been permanently ruined by my time in the UK for the past three years. One more reason to retire for good now.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"One needs to be sober when commenting on forums

I don't drink for severe health reasons and that is very offensive.

Give some thought before making even more crass comments please.

Crass comments? I think you need to read your comments before suggesting something as stupid as that

Ofcourse, if you think that a racist is someone stating an obviously generally used term such as Asian, European, etc, then, there is nothing more to say to you

No.

Racist is assuming that vast tracts of humanity can be summed up in one word.

**Which word?**

Racist is suggesting that you can divide people and areas with generalisation and stereotype.

**Where did I say that? Copy and paste it and stop listening to the voices in your head**

Racist is thinking that the continent someone comes from defines their behaviour.

**Where did I say that? Copy and paste it**

Sexist is assuming I am a man because, well no one knows why really apart from you.

Keep it up.

My argument is made easier the more you write.

Nothing I can say proves my point as well as you do and have done.

I owe you a drink.

You are talking so much nonsence. Now copy and past what you acccused me of.or shut it

Lol you are accusing me of nonsense and/or being d*unk, you are adopting an angry tone and telling me to shut it but you are not disproving me or providing evidence against what I am saying.

That's all you need to do.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Another insecure anti-asian thread.

OP Blocked. Good riddance.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Another insecure anti-asian thread.

OP Blocked. Good riddance."

Good job. Well done.

What a great person.

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

"What people are forgetting in general the word SWINGING!!! this is a swinging site not a SEX site......what most are forgetting is the social side ..... the same goes for a club if you go with the attitude "I've paid my money I want a shag" go to a brothel then because then your guaranteed a shag......I've seen it happen they follow couples like lemmings and don't even bother to socalise and expect action PLEASE PEOPLE UNDERSTAND WHAT SWINGING MEANS!!!! rant over!!!"

Well put xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crass comments? I think you need to read your comments before suggesting something as stupid as that

Ofcourse, if you think that a racist is someone stating an obviously generally used term such as Asian, European, etc, then, there is nothing more to say to you

No.

Racist is assuming that vast tracts of humanity can be summed up in one word.

**Which word?**

Racist is suggesting that you can divide people and areas with generalisation and stereotype.

**Where did I say that? Copy and paste it and stop listening to the voices in your head**

Racist is thinking that the continent someone comes from defines their behaviour.

**Where did I say that? Copy and paste it**

Sexist is assuming I am a man because, well no one knows why really apart from you.

Keep it up.

My argument is made easier the more you write.

Nothing I can say proves my point as well as you do and have done.

I owe you a drink.

You are talking so much nonsence. Now copy and past what you acccused me of.or shut it

Lol you are accusing me of nonsense and/or being d*unk, you are adopting an angry tone and telling me to shut it but you are not disproving me or providing evidence against what I am saying.

That's all you need to do."

I am afraid you are now coming across as a petulant child. Twice I have asked you to cut and paste any of my comments where I have written *anything* which you accused me of on an open forum. And twice you have side-stepped that request

We all know the reason why you cannot provide any evidence; it is because there isn't any evidence; just voices in your head and your paranoia

Now *you* are asking me to provide evidence of something which I have not written but you have accused me of. Do you realise how silly you are sounding?

Once again, either copy and paste my comments where you accused me of something as serious as racism and what-not or stop bad-mouthing me on an open forum for no reason whatsoever

I know which one it is going to be; another inane comment from you but no copy and paste of anything racist which you have been ranting on about against me

You are a joke

- Mrs. J -

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Crass comments? I think you need to read your comments before suggesting something as stupid as that

Ofcourse, if you think that a racist is someone stating an obviously generally used term such as Asian, European, etc, then, there is nothing more to say to you

No.

Racist is assuming that vast tracts of humanity can be summed up in one word.

**Which word?**

Racist is suggesting that you can divide people and areas with generalisation and stereotype.

**Where did I say that? Copy and paste it and stop listening to the voices in your head**

Racist is thinking that the continent someone comes from defines their behaviour.

**Where did I say that? Copy and paste it**

Sexist is assuming I am a man because, well no one knows why really apart from you.

Keep it up.

My argument is made easier the more you write.

Nothing I can say proves my point as well as you do and have done.

I owe you a drink.

You are talking so much nonsence. Now copy and past what you acccused me of.or shut it

Lol you are accusing me of nonsense and/or being d*unk, you are adopting an angry tone and telling me to shut it but you are not disproving me or providing evidence against what I am saying.

That's all you need to do.

We all know the reason why you cannot provide any evidence; it is because there isn't any evidence; just voices in your head and your paranoia

Now *you* are asking me to provide evidence of something which I have not written but you have accused me of. Do you realise how silly you are sounding?

Once again, either copy and paste my comments where you accused me of something as serious as racism and what-not or stop bad-mouthing me on an open forum for no reason whatsoever

I know which one it is going to be; another inane comment from you but no copy and paste of anything racist which you have been ranting on about against me

You are a joke

- Mrs. J -"

Lol.

I am a joke but yet it's me who is laughing.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Another insecure anti-asian thread.

OP Blocked. Good riddance.

Good job. Well done.

What a great person."

I am. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crass comments? I think you need to read your comments before suggesting something as stupid as that

Ofcourse, if you think that a racist is someone stating an obviously generally used term such as Asian, European, etc, then, there is nothing more to say to you

No.

Racist is assuming that vast tracts of humanity can be summed up in one word.

**Which word?**

Racist is suggesting that you can divide people and areas with generalisation and stereotype.

**Where did I say that? Copy and paste it and stop listening to the voices in your head**

Racist is thinking that the continent someone comes from defines their behaviour.

**Where did I say that? Copy and paste it**

Sexist is assuming I am a man because, well no one knows why really apart from you.

Keep it up.

My argument is made easier the more you write.

Nothing I can say proves my point as well as you do and have done.

I owe you a drink.

You are talking so much nonsence. Now copy and past what you acccused me of.or shut it

Lol you are accusing me of nonsense and/or being d*unk, you are adopting an angry tone and telling me to shut it but you are not disproving me or providing evidence against what I am saying.

That's all you need to do.

We all know the reason why you cannot provide any evidence; it is because there isn't any evidence; just voices in your head and your paranoia

Now *you* are asking me to provide evidence of something which I have not written but you have accused me of. Do you realise how silly you are sounding?

Once again, either copy and paste my comments where you accused me of something as serious as racism and what-not or stop bad-mouthing me on an open forum for no reason whatsoever

I know which one it is going to be; another inane comment from you but no copy and paste of anything racist which you have been ranting on about against me

You are a joke

- Mrs. J -

Lol.

I am a joke but yet it's me who is laughing. "

Oh please laugh away but whilst you are laughing, do cut and paste my comments where you accused me of being a racist

No, you are not going to do that. You know why? Because I did not write anything what you accused me of. It was just the voices in your head and they are now gone in the morning

You have jumped at people's throats all throughout this thread. Get help

- Mrs. J -

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By *eeBexxWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Wee side note to the op. You may want to rethink your blurred face images as they dont hide anything at all, I had your name and info in 5 seconds lol

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By *eshzMan
over a year ago

0151

OP, this topic has been posted many times before. Perhaps if I explain to you using this points you'll understand:

Re-write your profile, it sounds like a resume and comes across as desperate, what's with your education background. I've met both man and ladies here who have double PhD. They don't announce it on fab. It is off putting.

This site might be free, not the woman, so be careful how you write your posting. You're not entitled to anything.

Race and religion is not an issue. By the way, why would you want to play with someone who doesn't like you, or generalises you in a negative category before getting to know you? Again its off putting, it comes across as desperation. Know your value.

Everyone has preference, I'm sure there are ladies that you won't play with as well right? Or are you the type that shags everything that has a skirt?

Your photo's, either put clear pictures of your face in private and then have a blurred face with a body shot. While your pictures look good, they say nothing.

You are 23, but your conduct here is coming across as immature...maybe you are a nice guy I don't know, suggestion to you chill, go to social events and get to know people. The rest will follow.

Thats all I have to say,other's have given you valuable advice as well.

By the way, I'm an Asian guy as well, and swinging is just a tiny part of my lifestyle, it doesn't define me...and I get meets without much problem. I don't play with anyone who will generalise me in a negative category....because I know my value, who I am and I'm not desperate.

Hope you read this as a helpful advice.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Errrm, speaking of big pussy, ... Did I hear anyone say we .... Oh fuck it. Never mind.

Is anyone free to go out tonight?

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Crass comments? I think you need to read your comments before suggesting something as stupid as that

Ofcourse, if you think that a racist is someone stating an obviously generally used term such as Asian, European, etc, then, there is nothing more to say to you

No.

Racist is assuming that vast tracts of humanity can be summed up in one word.

**Which word?**

Racist is suggesting that you can divide people and areas with generalisation and stereotype.

**Where did I say that? Copy and paste it and stop listening to the voices in your head**

Racist is thinking that the continent someone comes from defines their behaviour.

**Where did I say that? Copy and paste it**

Sexist is assuming I am a man because, well no one knows why really apart from you.

Keep it up.

My argument is made easier the more you write.

Nothing I can say proves my point as well as you do and have done.

I owe you a drink.

You are talking so much nonsence. Now copy and past what you acccused me of.or shut it

Lol you are accusing me of nonsense and/or being d*unk, you are adopting an angry tone and telling me to shut it but you are not disproving me or providing evidence against what I am saying.

That's all you need to do.

We all know the reason why you cannot provide any evidence; it is because there isn't any evidence; just voices in your head and your paranoia

Now *you* are asking me to provide evidence of something which I have not written but you have accused me of. Do you realise how silly you are sounding?

Once again, either copy and paste my comments where you accused me of something as serious as racism and what-not or stop bad-mouthing me on an open forum for no reason whatsoever

I know which one it is going to be; another inane comment from you but no copy and paste of anything racist which you have been ranting on about against me

You are a joke

- Mrs. J -

Lol.

I am a joke but yet it's me who is laughing.

Oh please laugh away but whilst you are laughing, do cut and paste my comments where you accused me of being a racist

No, you are not going to do that. You know why? Because I did not write anything what you accused me of. It was just the voices in your head and they are now gone in the morning

You have jumped at people's throats all throughout this thread. Get help

- Mrs. J -"

This is a forum. It is impossible to jump at anyone as they are not here.

Overly emotive language and hyperbole isn't making your case any better.

I am happy to get help if when I bring it along, you actually attend the class. I suspect your increasing anger is in need of some sating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax man there is no point worrying about it its how it is there will be some one some where who will find you attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, this topic has been posted many times before. Perhaps if I explain to you using this points you'll understand:

This site might be free, not the woman, so be careful how you write your posting. You're not entitled to anything.

Everyone has preference, I'm sure there are ladies that you won't play with as well right? Or are you the type that shags everything that has a skirt?

Your photo's, either put clear pictures of your face in private and then have a blurred face with a body shot. While your pictures look good, they say nothing.

You are 23, but your conduct here is coming across as immature...maybe you are a nice guy I don't know, suggestion to you chill, go to social events and get to know people. The rest will follow.

Thats all I have to say,other's have given you valuable advice as well.

Hope you read this as a helpful advice.

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, this topic has been posted many times before. Perhaps if I explain to you using this points you'll understand:

This site might be free, not the woman, so be careful how you write your posting. You're not entitled to anything.

Everyone has preference, I'm sure there are ladies that you won't play with as well right? Or are you the type that shags everything that has a skirt?

Your photo's, either put clear pictures of your face in private and then have a blurred face with a body shot. While your pictures look good, they say nothing.

You are 23, but your conduct here is coming across as immature...maybe you are a nice guy I don't know, suggestion to you chill, go to social events and get to know people. The rest will follow.

Thats all I have to say,other's have given you valuable advice as well.

Hope you read this as a helpful advice.

This is all well and good (great advice, by the way) but it is too much effort for the person who came to Fab thinking he could get a quick fuck.

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By *arry_UkMan
over a year ago

birmingham

If people generalised less and treated others as individuals... fab would be a better place and the world in general would

To the one post to say its ingrained in them to be disrespectful to women... that in itself is disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The rules of attraction aren't democratic! They're primal , involuntary , beyond reason or negotiation.

If certain people find you unattractive, they find you unattractive. Best to accept you're not their cup of tea, move on and find someone who is.

As others have said, there are many factors involved in your lack of success , invoking the race card so flippantly comes across as cynical avoidance and a way to explain peoples negative reactions to you without assuming any personal responsibility.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

"If people generalised less and treated others as individuals... fab would be a better place and the world in general would

To the one post to say its ingrained in them to be disrespectful to women... that in itself is disrespectful.

Ok, I agree totally in principle, BUT, if you keep having bad experiences with a certain type of person, whether it be race, tall people, short people, fat people, thin people - whatever, then rightly or wrongly you're just going to start avoiding that demographic.

That's not you saying you believe they are all the same, just that in your experience they have - so why risk it?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"If people generalised less and treated others as individuals... fab would be a better place and the world in general would

To the one post to say its ingrained in them to be disrespectful to women... that in itself is disrespectful.

My generation Asian guys were disrespectful towards white women. Some women like me did sort of date them, you were used behind closed doors, discarded when they then married a "nice Asian virgin". Unlike other cultures they were less likely to integrate. It may be different now however, I would not fuck one, preference not racist as I still fancy them.

(closed, thread got too big)

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