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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all I'm looking to try wax play but concerned about burns any tips ? What's it like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can get candles specifically for this purpose from love honey, Ann summers and the like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can get low heat candles from love honey bondara and amazon however I just use normal tea lights love wax play we have so pics on profile xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the info x does it hurt ? Ever leave marks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the info x does it hurt ? Ever leave marks"
no problem no it doesn't hurt and I've never been left with any marks I love the feel when the wax hits my skin xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mmm is it better using them all over the body then working towards intimate areas ?

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

get whomever is pouring or dripping the wax to start from a good height about a meter will do it to start it does sting for a second then it changes as the wax quickly dries and tightens on the skin. start slowly and you can enjoy it and remember everybody is different so react in different ways and whilst there isnt a right way to do it there is a wrong way .you will find the peeling off of the wax nearly as much fun as the applying

have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmm is it better using them all over the body then working towards intimate areas ?"
yes all over is good oh when it hits my nipples mmmmmmm its so good xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your advice everyone can't wait to give it a go with my sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your advice everyone can't wait to give it a go with my sub"
have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start off with massage candles too. My lovely lady friend loves the jimmyjane mint candle. It feels really good when you're blindfolded and not expecting it poured on you, so exciting haha.

You can get edible wax candles from love honey too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhhh not seen the edible ones xx

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By *lirtingentMan
over a year ago

Stroud

I get enough wax play when I get my bits done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get enough wax play when I get my bits done "
lol smooth xx

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Thanks for the info x does it hurt ? Ever leave marks no problem no it doesn't hurt and I've never been left with any marks I love the feel when the wax hits my skin xx"

me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the info x does it hurt ? Ever leave marks no problem no it doesn't hurt and I've never been left with any marks I love the feel when the wax hits my skin xx

me too"
its amazing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very interested in wax play ...this and ice too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very interested in wax play ...this and ice too "
they go very well together xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm haven't done ice play yet, but I'm very intrigued now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I've done it numerous times to guys

All have enjoyed and no burns. It's fine

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm haven't done ice play yet, but I'm very intrigued now "
have you never had a bj when a woman has had an ice cube in her mouth or teased a clit with one xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh lovely freezing cold feeling !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh lovely freezing cold feeling !"
its nice xx

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton

I went to a workshop regarding wax play and found it really useful. There were lots of tricks and tips demonstrated including some that were obvious but would never have occurred to me.

I went to the BBB recently and found that a really good way to pick the candles up cheaper as well as some pouring jugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went to a workshop regarding wax play and found it really useful. There were lots of tricks and tips demonstrated including some that were obvious but would never have occurred to me.

I went to the BBB recently and found that a really good way to pick the candles up cheaper as well as some pouring jugs "
if you don't mind me asking where was the workshop xx

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton


"if you don't mind me asking where was the workshop xx"

It was a small workshop at a local swingers club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love wax play I tried it few years ago on my own because I was curious and it was love on a first try also prefer tea lights and about burns sometimes it left my skin red but not much more...after years candles still turn me on faster than any man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you don't mind me asking where was the workshop xx

It was a small workshop at a local swingers club. "
sounds interesting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I want to try but never got round to it yet . Good luck op

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By *exmadscotMan
over a year ago

alloa


"Hi all I'm looking to try wax play but concerned about burns any tips ? What's it like"

use the wax out your ears, that won't burn you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget protection! It was with wax play that I got Lou pregnant. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Omg I love wax play amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only contributing because I have wax in my name.

Wax play isn't for me, but I'm glad it floats some people's boats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love wax play. Different colors and stripes and the patterns! I'd recommend putting down a sheet though and use a blunt knife to pick it off, making the mess is fun, clearing it up, not so much fun.

A great feeling though, really gets me to subspace!

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton


"I love wax play. Different colors and stripes and the patterns! I'd recommend putting down a sheet though and use a blunt knife to pick it off, making the mess is fun, clearing it up, not so much fun.

A great feeling though, really gets me to subspace! "

A shower curtain is great for this, they do a cheap one in Wilko for £3

I find it is an interesting sensation but not quite enough intensity for me. However, I haven't had the pouring jugs used on me yet, they are supposed to get the wax hotter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hated it to be truthful just can't enjoy it.i enjoy fire play that's really fun and latex paint is so much fun getting of .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg I love wax play amazing"
I'm guessing you tried it how was it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm that sounds like something I'd like

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By *_and_J99Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

We love wax play. We have pics on our public pics but best ones are in private. Think it's time to light them up again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wax play can be very sexy.

Off topic but seen a clip on pirn website of wax play that i could not believe,a speculum was used on the girl and the other female went in to fill her pussy up with dripping wax.

Guess that's extreme wax play for you,PS it was for Queensnake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's sounds very extreme

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By *otwifeforyou1978Couple
over a year ago

Telford

Impressive. Hope you like mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow gorgeous

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton

I managed a bit of wax play last night and I've just uploaded proof

It was surprisingly intense and perhaps a reminder that it can even feel different on different days because prior to last night I was thinking how we could get it hotter. Last night, it was hot enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I managed a bit of wax play last night and I've just uploaded proof

It was surprisingly intense and perhaps a reminder that it can even feel different on different days because prior to last night I was thinking how we could get it hotter. Last night, it was hot enough!"
lovely pic what candles did you use xx

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton


"lovely pic what candles did you use xx"

Thanks

I bought the candles from TheBondageman when I went to the BBB last month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lovely pic what candles did you use xx

Thanks

I bought the candles from TheBondageman when I went to the BBB last month. "
your welcome not been to the BBB yet we just used tea lights xx

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton


"your welcome not been to the BBB yet we just used tea lights xx"

The BBB is awesome! I went last month and well worth the 200+ mile round trip. Take lots of money though!

We preferred to use the soya wax candles, they're the safer option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your welcome not been to the BBB yet we just used tea lights xx

The BBB is awesome! I went last month and well worth the 200+ mile round trip. Take lots of money though!

We preferred to use the soya wax candles, they're the safer option. "
wow that's a trip we really must try it its not far from us and yes lots of people use those ones xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have had a little go at this - more of a demo/give it a try rather than intimate play - but yes id do more of it - messy to clear up though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have had a little go at this - more of a demo/give it a try rather than intimate play - but yes id do more of it - messy to clear up though"
we put a sheet down xx

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"i have had a little go at this - more of a demo/give it a try rather than intimate play - but yes id do more of it - messy to clear up though"
spare shower curtain to lie on solves a lot of that any spill goes on there and can be washed clean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guess if it goes on Ur sheets it won't come out !n

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton

That's where the shower curtain comes in, it can be scraped off of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love wax play .I do it with normal candles... guess I must be a bit twisted lol..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where is people's fav place to drip the wax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I love wax play .I do it with normal candles... guess I must be a bit twisted lol.."
same here lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where is people's fav place to drip the wax"
I love it on my nipples and arse xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Spread ass so near the hole or Ur cheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spread ass so near the hole or Ur cheeks"
cheeks and crack xx

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

the greater the distance from the body to the candle the more the wax has time to cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different candles burn at different temps. The lowest burning candles are soy so these are best for wax play if you're new to it. Things such as colouring and scents will increase the temp of the wax.

As others have said raising and lowering the candle from the bofy is a good way to control the temp.

Avoid wax on the clit/open pussy for now it's one of those things that should be self evident but alas to some it's not.

Enjoy

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

'Merry Christmas'

Watch the carpets lol.

Cat X

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading

Bondageman does good candles too, put down a drop cloth (disposable sheet/plastic of some kind) as wax will splash and it's a bugger to get out of carped. Don't use beeswax candles, they burn a lot hotter and will burn you....

have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

White candle wax feels warm when dripped on skin, tried red candles n they burnt to hell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Omg avoid red then

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton


"Omg avoid red then"

I had a rainbow done on my chest recently. Every colour felt different and I think red was the coolest of them. Some reds may feel different to other reds, it depends on the pigment used.

There are lots of other factors that can change the temperature; height has been mentioned and how much you pool the wax on the candles will also affect it. Another trick is to flick the wax from the candle, that can be very intense as the time taken to travel from the candle to the skin in much shorter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ooo now that sounds fun ! U sound like an expert lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use soy candles

They have a lower melting temp so don't burn as much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I'm looking to try wax play but concerned about burns any tips ? What's it like"

Look up the bondageman on google. Has better candles then any of the shit you'll find on Ann summers and some great howto books about it too

King

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi all I'm looking to try wax play but concerned about burns any tips ? What's it like

Look up the bondageman on google. Has better candles then any of the shit you'll find on Ann summers and some great howto books about it too

King "
thanks you some very nice wax pics too

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