FabSwingers.com forum: Stigma of younger men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on fab for over a year now. Had couple of meets, verified once as I had a regular thing for a while.

But my main question to the older more mature women that use fab would be. "when younger men like myself message, are you hesitant to meet as you think why would young lad want to meet an older women"

This isn't ment in a derogatory way, I'm relatively young but my thing is mature women, love the thought of It.

But when I message and attach photos there isn't much interest.

Baffles me

Not to sound too cocky, I'm tall, athletic, got 6 pack and what not.

I have a feeling that it could be my profile, but I've done everything I could possibly do to show I'm not messing about on here without showing face picture. I can't show my face due to work.

Feedback would be ideal.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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think we're just that much in demand that we dismiss guys easily. plus have our own fantasies and a guy being young might not be a part of that.

i used to meet younger guys, had some alright meets but just ruled them out coz the longer you're on here the more men you don't wanna meet (already got fuck buds or looking for something more descript).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tall, athletic with a six pack, is not everyone's sexual preference. To my knowledge, there is no stigma attached to young men. This is a sex site, and if women don't find young men sexually attractive, that's all there is to it. Many older ladies will have children your age, which will not sit right with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair one. Thanks for reply

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Not mention that some are looking for Bi guys

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

Yes it's mainly because our kids are older than you!

I don't feel I want to be like Mrs Robinson and you probably are too young to get that!

But Good Luck and have fun, sure there is some ladies out there for you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tall, athletic with a six pack, is not everyone's sexual preference. To my knowledge, there is no stigma attached to young men. This is a sex site, and if women don't find young men sexually attractive, that's all there is to it. Many older ladies will have children your age, which will not sit right with them."

This.

Youngest I'd go for would be 28yrs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers guys

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I never think why would a young man want to meet me. The fact is there are hundreds of young guys all looking for older ladies.

For me personally, i have met with a couple of guys in their twenties and both times it was crap. All of my meets with guys around my own age or older have been really good. I'm just sticking with what i find most satisfying.

My preference is for over 35's, although not absolutely set in stone. I am a little flexible for the right person but i definitely wouldn't consider under 30.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

No stigma...I just have a preference for older men....and as others have said, you are younger than our children so simply doesn't appeal.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Because alot of young guys treat older women like a fetish and seem to think they are doing the lady a favour and doing it better than their partner...

From experience the ones we have met fucked like rabbits, with very little regard to if wiggles was enjoying it and were rather disappointing. As such we ignore the mails and rarely she will find one if she wants when we are at a club.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

I just prefer men nearer my own age that's all

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Been on fab for over a year now. Had couple of meets, verified once as I had a regular thing for a while.

This isn't ment in a derogatory way, I'm relatively young but my thing is mature women, love the thought of It.

But when I message and attach photos there isn't much interest.

Baffles me

Not to sound too cocky, I'm tall, athletic, got 6 pack and what not.

I have a feeling that it could be my profile, but I've done everything I could possibly do to show I'm not messing about on here without showing face picture. I can't show my face due to work.

Feedback would be ideal.

Not read the rest of the thread but as I look for age 25+ your age isn't an issue!

What IS an issue is that all your pics are in friends (can't you at least have some public body and torso pics? And that your profile pic only shows your willy and a woman's behind! A pic of your torso would interest me far more!

That's just me though - others may feel differently!

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Pretty much all of my meets have been younger than me, it's just how it worked out as most are looking for an older women but I only go with guys I like.

As for you your profile pic puts me off i want to see you not some woman I hate action shots and no I'm not saying you have to have your face up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you mailed my wife she wouldn't reply as you have no public pics.

We met a young guy once. His profile was full of what a stud and long stayer he was. He was a fucking joke. I said to him stopping this as you are useless and I took him home. He mailed asking if he could try again as he was nervous. Blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweeping generalisation here but for the main part, women don't want to spend their time having to teach someone younger what they like and I'd expect the whole encounter to me far less flowing and comfortable because you're less likely to have common ground. If I think this then I suspect others will too.

Then there's body image.. there's a thread on here ATM where the OP turns down attractive men through insecurity, imagine how bad that could be with someone significantly older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocked all men from contacting me and rarely search for men under 34

I'm not a huge fan of muscular men, like a bit of meat on man! Not saying I would rule anyone out who is muscular but it's not my preference

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