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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Why wouldn't you if you like her and want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

What are your concerns?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

What are your concerns?

My Friendship With My Best Mate, We Have Been Mates For Over 20 years

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

What are your concerns?

My Friendship With My Best Mate, We Have Been Mates For Over 20 years "

Meeting his sister for a drink is between you and her. It shouldn't affect your friendship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

What are your concerns?

My Friendship With My Best Mate, We Have Been Mates For Over 20 years

Meeting his sister for a drink is between you and her. It shouldn't affect your friendship."

True Just thinking if we started something and it goes tits up!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

If it goes tits up well that's between you and her,nobody else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're grown ups and it's a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

What are your concerns?

My Friendship With My Best Mate, We Have Been Mates For Over 20 years "

Can you give him the heads up so he doesn't think you're hiding things?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

What are your concerns?

My Friendship With My Best Mate, We Have Been Mates For Over 20 years

Meeting his sister for a drink is between you and her. It shouldn't affect your friendship.

True Just thinking if we started something and it goes tits up!! "

I can see how you might feel awkward if things went wrong but surely he won't be expecting you to marry her just because you're going for a drink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

What are your concerns?

My Friendship With My Best Mate, We Have Been Mates For Over 20 years

Meeting his sister for a drink is between you and her. It shouldn't affect your friendship.

True Just thinking if we started something and it goes tits up!!

I can see how you might feel awkward if things went wrong but surely he won't be expecting you to marry her just because you're going for a drink. "

No lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

What are your concerns?

My Friendship With My Best Mate, We Have Been Mates For Over 20 years

Can you give him the heads up so he doesn't think you're hiding things?"

Yes def a good idea, we've been friends for a long time so should give him a heads up

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

It is often easier to go for a drink with a man's wife than with his sister.

Does go for a drink mean go for a drink then go to bed, if so there is less chance of a problem doing so with many men's wife than sister.

You know the dynamics between yourself and your mate, what do you think?

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By *lice400Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

Is she mature enough if it goes wrong ??

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Leave telling her you're a swinger until the second date, it'll ease her in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done that, he wasn't happy when he found out but he got over it and were still mates now thirty years later.

And by the way she was amazing in and out of bed

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I do find it slightly amusing (and annoying) that men still think they need the blessing of a woman's male relatives to date her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just speak to him first, none of his business really.. but it's the courteous thing to do.

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

Does he know you are a swinger?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Does he know you are a swinger?"

If he forms a relationship with the lady that's between the two of them. It has nothing to do with her brother.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

What are your concerns?

My Friendship With My Best Mate, We Have Been Mates For Over 20 years

Meeting his sister for a drink is between you and her. It shouldn't affect your friendship.

True Just thinking if we started something and it goes tits up!! "

Are you 16?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have a word with you're mate, if he is a good mate then he will be ok with it unless you're a bit of a dog? As in after every bit of tail around

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By *emptd2Man
over a year ago

Burgess Hill & Birmingham

Just be honest and talk to him about it. At the end of the day she can fuck whoever she wants.

If that's you then have some courtesy and talk to him. Don't keep secrets they'll fester and ruin your friendship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just be honest and talk to him about it. At the end of the day she can fuck whoever she wants.

If that's you then have some courtesy and talk to him. Don't keep secrets they'll fester and ruin your friendship. "

We are meeting up on Monday so will chat to him about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does he know you are a swinger?"

He does

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

What are your concerns?

My Friendship With My Best Mate, We Have Been Mates For Over 20 years

Meeting his sister for a drink is between you and her. It shouldn't affect your friendship.

True Just thinking if we started something and it goes tits up!!

Are you 16?"

Shame there isn't a middle finger emoji

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

What are your concerns?

My Friendship With My Best Mate, We Have Been Mates For Over 20 years

Meeting his sister for a drink is between you and her. It shouldn't affect your friendship.

True Just thinking if we started something and it goes tits up!!

Are you 16?

Shame there isn't a middle finger emoji "

It was a genuine question...then I looked at your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Best Mates Sister was flirting with me at there Mum's Birthday Party a few weekends back.

She's asked me(yes asked me) to go out for a drink

Do I go?

What are your concerns?

My Friendship With My Best Mate, We Have Been Mates For Over 20 years

Meeting his sister for a drink is between you and her. It shouldn't affect your friendship.

True Just thinking if we started something and it goes tits up!! "
dont over think it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a teenager I went out with my best friend's sister for a number of years. We even moved in together. He was always so cool about it. Even after we split up we remained friends.

I think the key was being open about it. He wanted his sister to be happy.

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