FabSwingers.com forum: Help with profile!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been on/ff here fr a good while now! I just car nt seem to get profile right!

Can anyone help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try saying a bit about yourself, anything would be a start. And a picture or two. Nothing too racy but at least let people have a look at you.

I cant beleive we've got another one asking such a stupid question,

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would leave it the way it is if you think it sells you to others.

or maybe pad it out a bit with:

what do you offer people sexually

what are you looking for sexually

something about yourself

maybe some pics

you get out what you put into this world..

some sadly get nothing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit brief! A bit more about you and what you're looking for along with some pics would help in my opinion. Good luck.

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

You need to say a little about yourself, why you are here, what you are looking for etc. Also a pic, if you cant put a face pic in public gallery, least you could do is put a body shot on. Hope this helps

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

48 hours and you haven't made the slightest difference to your profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a joke thread. No serious person could honestly expect to have a great deal of success with about 6 words on their profile.

Come on now, sit down, think about yourself and what you have to offer and put fingers to keyboard because quite frankly you are showing zero effort so why the hell should anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this is a joke thread. No serious person could honestly expect to have a great deal of success with about 6 words on their profile.

Come on now, sit down, think about yourself and what you have to offer and put fingers to keyboard because quite frankly you are showing zero effort so why the hell should anyone else "

Could there be a contest there to see who can have the most information in 10 words or less on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile with so few words comes across as lazy. Who wants a lazy man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possibly the worst profile we have ever seen. Our advice is take up crochet, you may be good at it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"48 hours and you haven't made the slightest difference to your profile...

It's a little disheartening when advice is sought, given and then ignored

I know this is my first posting on this thread but you see it over and over again

Why ask for advice when you have no intention of paying attention??? I sometimes wonder if they are looking for.... "here, I'll write out your profile for you..." as the top answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im of the opinion that if a guy doesnt know how to write profile hes not going to be the kind of guy i want to meet .......end of ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have not been on line to check the forum posts! That is why profile not changed!

I have been on here before have written out lengthy profiles pcs the lot and people complain!

Seems to me the conclusion is ... Whatever you put/ don't put a high percentage of the members on this site won't like it!

Just look at the comments on this thread..

Speaks for its self really

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I have not been on line to check the forum posts! That is why profile not changed!

you were on line when I posted that or I wouldn't have.

Put on your profile what you think will sell you to other, you want to attract similar sexually compatible singles/couples. Sell yourself in as many words that is cool with you... it is your profile,

the more you sell yourself, engage with others... the more chance you have.

good luck

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im of the opinion that if a guy doesnt know how to write profile hes not going to be the kind of guy i want to meet .......end of ..."
would 2nd that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I know you say you can't get 'profile right', but I'm guessing that as some time's passed, and you've been on before, that you're either not that committed to swinging, or finding it too easy, as your profile still really says nothing, other than it's under construction.

Whilst you're physical stats are listed, maybe you could just elaborate upon your physical characteristics, until you add/open photos for others to _iew. At least this way you may engender physical attraction - or not- from others, and you may find some time saved, or some opportunities that you'd not otherwise have.

As it stands, there's tons been written in this forum thread about your profile, but next to nothing in your own: so others have made relatively massive effort compared to your own. This may sound critical, but you were asking for feedback.

Now advice, as far as I'm concerned, is always optional for others to take, so I wouldn't offer it either, unless I expected someone to then make up their own mind about what action they would like to take.

Overall: your profile is there to potentially sell you to others that you would find attractive. If you were in advertising, is it the best that could be done for you? How would you rate it out of 10?

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