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"A pet hate of ours are these bi guys that don't advertise it on there profile incase they pUt cpls off!" I agree, in fact, from our experience, most cpls will be more likely to accept a bi guy for being honest | |||
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"We get it all the time BUT the other way around..loads of straight guys contacting us telling us they dont want to but Bi on their profile. Why is it that bi-fem is ok but bi-male isnt?" single guys cant make there mind up, the put bi to attract certain cpl's , but then put straight cuz some single fems ( me included) wont play with bi men. so they decide on the day, i'd say confused.com | |||
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"Here's a thought, why is it that being a bi woman as part of a couple is both a asset and a turn on but being around a bi guy makes most straight guys bollocks retract behind their ears? We're always respectful of other peoples sexuality but sometimes the homophobia drives us nuts. Believe us when we say that your cock is not as irresistable as you like to think it is. " I've said this lots of times,homophobia and thinking I'm gonna be jumped doesn't come into it. For me, just the idea of being in a sexual situation with a guy who practices m/m sex is a complete turnoff, end of. I've got nothing against honest gay or bi guys,I have friends who are,no probs. The idea of m/m sex does nothing for Trace either,so its not just a male thing. XXXX | |||
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"just admit it guys lol. we all have the potential to be a bit of a harry..." We think thats just bi wishful thinking! XXXX | |||
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"We only meet with bi guys as our male is orally bi but prolly 85% of the messages we get are from guys who's profile says they are str8. And from personal experience we would have to say that a 100% str8 guy is a very rare thing indeed. " Mind you,the amount of single straight guys (and straight guys in couples) who have camp looking arse pic's on their profiles,its little wonder they get contacted from bi/gay guys. From a "very rare" 100% straight guy. | |||
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"A pet hate of ours are these bi guys that don't advertise it on there profile incase they pUt cpls off! I agree, in fact, from our experience, most cpls will be more likely to accept a bi guy for being honest" I'm honest. And really reaally bi. Do I get a gold star and a meet ? | |||
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"I understand the many reasons why folks don't put Bi.. but your profile is the very 1st impression given about you.. and I dont want the 1st impression of me being a 'bit dodgy', a 'bit of a fibber', 'do owt to get a meet'.. to me 1st impressions count and any meet must be based on respect for all. only my 2p... and repeat... I understand the reasons ' why '.. but I trade off the meets I lose with my integrity... and my integrity always wins." Agreed very much! I would not be able to enjoy playing with a couple or fem under the guise of being straight. Naturally I can 'play' straight as long as they know I am Bi and also know I wont just dive for the nearest cock (sigh!). | |||
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"A bloke whose profile says he's straight just mailed me to see if I'll go round his to wank over porn together " OMG how old was he ??? I thought men outgrew that when it was legal for them to buy porn?? Shona x x x | |||
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"A bloke whose profile says he's straight just mailed me to see if I'll go round his to wank over porn together " Yeah - right - poor baby!!!!! What will you do? | |||
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"A bloke whose profile says he's straight just mailed me to see if I'll go round his to wank over porn together Yeah - right - poor baby!!!!! What will you do?" Politely decline lol. I'm not one to judge. Do unto others and all that... ... ... I am right though, aren't I? That is weird? | |||
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"We only meet with bi guys as our male is orally bi but prolly 85% of the messages we get are from guys who's profile says they are str8. And from personal experience we would have to say that a 100% str8 guy is a very rare thing indeed. Mind you,the amount of single straight guys (and straight guys in couples) who have camp looking arse pic's on their profiles,its little wonder they get contacted from bi/gay guys. From a "very rare" 100% straight guy." One 100% straight guy to another - what makes a camp pic? I think the reason some guys feel the need to lie is cause people think bi guys will jump on a cock (any-cock-a-doo ?) Without scrutiny. I don't know how true this is but I hold me hand up I do share that opinion, the catch-22 is I'm not prepared to prove this otherwise as its my arse on the line (so to speak). I guess the real question - why do so many bi guys contact/proposition straight guys? Surely there are other bi guys they could have fun with? Its as bad as the guys (in general) who continue to pester couples that don't meet guys - people, its not fun and makes the rest of us look bad. | |||
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" From a "very rare" 100% straight guy. One 100% straight guy to another - what makes a camp pic? I think the reason some guys feel the need to lie is cause people think bi guys will jump on a cock (any-cock-a-doo ?) Without scrutiny. I don't know how true this is but I hold me hand up I do share that opinion, the catch-22 is I'm not prepared to prove this otherwise as its my arse on the line (so to speak). I guess the real question - why do so many bi guys contact/proposition straight guys? Surely there are other bi guys they could have fun with? Its as bad as the guys (in general) who continue to pester couples that don't meet guys - people, its not fun and makes the rest of us look bad." well from one 100% orally bi guy.. suggest that the 100% str8 guys who share the above view should... 1 .. get over themselves, what fecking arrogance. Obviously they are so fab that every couple and fem also wants to bounce on their wonderful self obsessed cock.... 2... understand that being Bi or Gay both male and female needs the same attraction as the holier than tho Str8's..of course some str8's , bi's and gay's will shag anything with a pulse. 3.. in swinging ...where boundaries/sexuality's are respected, what a far better place this would be.. and obviously the same rationale applies to Bi fems who cant control themselves and gag for every pussy on here...... what utter shite...... but the bi guys who do write to str8 guys.... piss me off big timee and I am forced to defend the twats..... they should feck off to the gay sites and seek cock there...... no confusion then... | |||
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" From a "very rare" 100% straight guy. One 100% straight guy to another - what makes a camp pic? I think the reason some guys feel the need to lie is cause people think bi guys will jump on a cock (any-cock-a-doo ?) Without scrutiny. I don't know how true this is but I hold me hand up I do share that opinion, the catch-22 is I'm not prepared to prove this otherwise as its my arse on the line (so to speak). I guess the real question - why do so many bi guys contact/proposition straight guys? Surely there are other bi guys they could have fun with? Its as bad as the guys (in general) who continue to pester couples that don't meet guys - people, its not fun and makes the rest of us look bad. well from one 100% orally bi guy.. suggest that the 100% str8 guys who share the above view should... 1 .. get over themselves, what fecking arrogance. Obviously they are so fab that every couple and fem also wants to bounce on their wonderful self obsessed cock.... 2... understand that being Bi or Gay both male and female needs the same attraction as the holier than tho Str8's..of course some str8's , bi's and gay's will shag anything with a pulse. 3.. in swinging ...where boundaries/sexuality's are respected, what a far better place this would be.. and obviously the same rationale applies to Bi fems who cant control themselves and gag for every pussy on here...... what utter shite...... but the bi guys who do write to str8 guys.... piss me off big timee and I am forced to defend the twats..... they should feck off to the gay sites and seek cock there...... no confusion then... " Arrogance? Self obsessed cock? Lol. If I may respectfully disagree, and speaking for myself I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea, so being arrogant and assuming every female wants to jump on my cock doesn't come into it (I can only wish, but wouldn't have time for the forums, lol). I however will agree with you on the point that SOME people (male, female, straight, bi, gay, single, couple) will jump on any (cock/pussy) available, however in line with the topic I'm merely stating that each to their own but I for one am not into experimenting nor gambling to find out which guys might or might not. Does that make me arrogant? Hardly! | |||
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" From a "very rare" 100% straight guy. One 100% straight guy to another - what makes a camp pic? I think the reason some guys feel the need to lie is cause people think bi guys will jump on a cock (any-cock-a-doo ?) Without scrutiny. I don't know how true this is but I hold me hand up I do share that opinion, the catch-22 is I'm not prepared to prove this otherwise as its my arse on the line (so to speak). I guess the real question - why do so many bi guys contact/proposition straight guys? Surely there are other bi guys they could have fun with? Its as bad as the guys (in general) who continue to pester couples that don't meet guys - people, its not fun and makes the rest of us look bad. well from one 100% orally bi guy.. suggest that the 100% str8 guys who share the above view should... 1 .. get over themselves, what fecking arrogance. Obviously they are so fab that every couple and fem also wants to bounce on their wonderful self obsessed cock.... 2... understand that being Bi or Gay both male and female needs the same attraction as the holier than tho Str8's..of course some str8's , bi's and gay's will shag anything with a pulse. 3.. in swinging ...where boundaries/sexuality's are respected, what a far better place this would be.. and obviously the same rationale applies to Bi fems who cant control themselves and gag for every pussy on here...... what utter shite...... but the bi guys who do write to str8 guys.... piss me off big timee and I am forced to defend the twats..... they should feck off to the gay sites and seek cock there...... no confusion then... " Arrogance? Self obsessed cock? Lol. If I may respectfully disagree, and speaking for myself I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea, so being arrogant and assuming every female wants to jump on my cock doesn't come into it (I can only wish, but wouldn't have time for the forums, lol). I however will agree with you on the point that SOME people (male, female, straight, bi, gay, single, couple) will jump on any (cock/pussy) available, however in line with the topic I'm merely stating that each to their own but I for one am not into experimenting nor gambling to find out which guys might or might not. Does that make me arrogant? Hardly! | |||
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" is cause people think bi guys will jump on a cock (any-cock-a-doo ?) Without scrutiny. I don't know how true this is but I hold me hand up I do share that opinion, " you share the above opinion that bi guys will jump on any cock .. let me help you ... maybe 99.9999%. I don't want any str8 guys cock , in the past, in the present, or in the future.... it's called respect for differnce. | |||
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" is cause people think bi guys will jump on a cock (any-cock-a-doo ?) Without scrutiny. I don't know how true this is but I hold me hand up I do share that opinion, you share the above opinion that bi guys will jump on any cock .. let me help you ... maybe 99.9999%. I don't want any str8 guys cock , in the past, in the present, or in the future.... it's called respect for differnce. " Exactly! Whilst I cannot quote percentages the point however IS respect for preferences, limitations and differences, but some people do not respect this and decide they'll habe their way even if they have to lie (on their profile), so at the risk of having answered the next question - why do some guys do this?? | |||
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" is cause people think bi guys will jump on a cock (any-cock-a-doo ?) Without scrutiny. I don't know how true this is but I hold me hand up I do share that opinion, you share the above opinion that bi guys will jump on any cock .. let me help you ... maybe 99.9999%. I don't want any str8 guys cock , in the past, in the present, or in the future.... it's called respect for differnce. Exactly! Whilst I cannot quote percentages the point however IS respect for preferences, limitations and differences, but some people do not respect this and decide they'll habe their way even if they have to lie (on their profile), so at the risk of having answered the next question - why do some guys do this??" because of the assumption that they are gonna jump on the str8 guys cock.. and some will, many wont dude.. thats all my point is. many spoil it for the decent bi guys, same as twat single guys spoil it for all of us lol wish you well and lots of fun. | |||
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"theres an assumption that men in general will fuck anything that moves, so why should being bi make a difference to people opinions? it's one thing hiding your sexuality, but its another when they cannot respect others sexuality at the same time." I object! I don't fuck anything that moves - I prefer it stationary so I don't expend energy like a salmon swimming up river while chasing, ending up too knackered to do anything by the time I catch up | |||
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" Mind you,the amount of single straight guys (and straight guys in couples) who have camp looking arse pic's on their profiles,its little wonder they get contacted from bi/gay guys. From a "very rare" 100% straight guy. One 100% straight guy to another - what makes a camp pic? " Its just that its hard enough for pic's of naked or semi naked guys not to look camp at the best of times. Which may be one reason why many don't post pic's. However,in our opinion,theres little,if any way a pic of a guy (straight or not) baring his arse can look anything other than camp. Its the sort of pic you'd see on gay mags,profiles and ads,which, in our view, makes it camp. Please note Ahabs,in all sincerity,we're in no way casting doubt on your sexuality but you did ask "what makes a camp pic?" XXXX | |||
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" Mind you,the amount of single straight guys (and straight guys in couples) who have camp looking arse pic's on their profiles,its little wonder they get contacted from bi/gay guys. From a "very rare" 100% straight guy. One 100% straight guy to another - what makes a camp pic? Its just that its hard enough for pic's of naked or semi naked guys not to look camp at the best of times. Which may be one reason why many don't post pic's. However,in our opinion,theres little,if any way a pic of a guy (straight or not) baring his arse can look anything other than camp. Its the sort of pic you'd see on gay mags,profiles and ads,which, in our view, makes it camp. Please note Ahabs,in all sincerity,we're in no way casting doubt on your sexuality but you did ask "what makes a camp pic?" XXXX " and? | |||
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" Mind you,the amount of single straight guys (and straight guys in couples) who have camp looking arse pic's on their profiles,its little wonder they get contacted from bi/gay guys. From a "very rare" 100% straight guy. One 100% straight guy to another - what makes a camp pic? Its just that its hard enough for pic's of naked or semi naked guys not to look camp at the best of times. Which may be one reason why many don't post pic's. However,in our opinion,theres little,if any way a pic of a guy (straight or not) baring his arse can look anything other than camp. Its the sort of pic you'd see on gay mags,profiles and ads,which, in our view, makes it camp. Please note Ahabs,in all sincerity,we're in no way casting doubt on your sexuality but you did ask "what makes a camp pic?" XXXX and?" ??????? and nothing! It was a reply to the question asked. | |||
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"a man showing his ass is camp ? is a pic of a great ass not highly desirable by many fems, more so, than cock cock cock pics ? the world of swinging gets more bizarre by the day the bi male phobia just gets weirder and weirder .. bi fems don't show yur ????... or you will look like a lesbian. " Bloody hell had best take mine off lol | |||
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"a man showing his ass is camp ? is a pic of a great ass not highly desirable by many fems, more so, than cock cock cock pics ? the world of swinging gets more bizarre by the day the bi male phobia just gets weirder and weirder .. bi fems don't show yur ????... or you will look like a lesbian. " Never understood that thing some women have about guys arses. Afterall,its not like they can do anything with them,strap-ons aside of course, if the guy is up for it. Our last post was made after asking three women their opinions. While they agreed that some guys had great looking arses,they also agreed that those kind of pic's can't help but look camp. As for bi women being mistaken for lesbians......well....the sexual side is just the same,its just the partner they choose for a permanent relationship that makes the difference. I don't think bi fems would be bothered by comparison either way. As for bi-male phobia,no way,it all comes down to preference. As I said originaly,if a straight guy posts a pic of himself,lying on a bed with his arse in the air,he should hardly be surprised when he's hit on by gay/bi guys. | |||
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" I don't think bi fems would be bothered by comparison either way. " cool, I have learnt something.. thanks as I have always said... if a guy's profile says str8.. whether or not have ass pics in the air or hanging out the bus winda.. str8 should mean str8 and bi guys should respect that. I noted my opinion of those pests earlier in this thread. but guys lie due to 1) bi phobia and 2) some are so shallow that they dont mind who they shag male or female as they are gagging .. | |||
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"Its the sort of pic you'd see on gay mags,profiles and ads,which, in our view, makes it camp. XXXX " Says a man dressed like Freddie Mercury! Just a joke btw. | |||
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"Its the sort of pic you'd see on gay mags,profiles and ads,which, in our view, makes it camp. XXXX Says a man dressed like Freddie Mercury! Just a joke btw." love it lol | |||
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"Its the sort of pic you'd see on gay mags,profiles and ads,which, in our view, makes it camp. XXXX Says a man dressed like Freddie Mercury! Just a joke btw. love it lol " Nice one! That was at a fetish ball in Leeds,mind you......my arse was covered XXXX | |||
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"Its the sort of pic you'd see on gay mags,profiles and ads,which, in our view, makes it camp. XXXX Says a man dressed like Freddie Mercury! Just a joke btw. love it lol Nice one! That was at a fetish ball in Leeds,mind you......my arse was covered XXXX" lol I was gonna say the cover of Hustler magazine.. but then thought.. I canna comment on camp pics .. so gonna say nowt..... | |||
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" I don't think bi fems would be bothered by comparison either way. cool, I have learnt something.. thanks as I have always said... if a guy's profile says str8.. whether or not have ass pics in the air or hanging out the bus winda.. str8 should mean str8 and bi guys should respect that. I noted my opinion of those pests earlier in this thread. but guys lie due to 1) bi phobia and 2) some are so shallow that they dont mind who they shag male or female as they are gagging .. " Nice post View,honest,to the point and gets it said. If a guy is bi, just be true to yourself and everyone else. Big deal,so you may miss out on the odd shag but you'll gain a lot of respect and keep your own. | |||
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" So as you see the third sex is a confusing one Jodie" Or as I say, often confusing, never confused | |||
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"After much deliberation and discussion with the other half we've decided that even though we both enjoy all aspects of sex, including anal etc, that we cannot realistically class me (Andy) as bi. I don't fancy men, nor would I play with a guy on my own. However I like my prostrate massage'd, be it a finger, strap on or you guessed it... a cock. Because if gives a mind blowing orgasm. I'm relaxed about my sexuality and can be comfortable experimenting. I am not however bi or bi curious. I just love all aspects of sex. Sarah however fancies women as much as men and would play alone with a women, so she does class her self as bi. There is to much labeling going on in this god damm world. So maybe it's the fact that having to put a label on something is why men who are straight will do somethings that people would label as being bi would do." This is something I've found very strange about people talking about this on this forum, Men saying they're 100% bi then saying they don't fancy men! To me, someone is classed as 100% bi if they would consider having a relationship with someone regardless of their gender, otherwise it's just what you said, enjoying all aspects of sex. Not that there's anything wrong with that, it's just a different thing! Makes me understand why lots of gay people won't date bi folk, there's no distinction between the different types! | |||
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" Men saying they're 100% bi then saying they don't fancy men!" What utter nonsense some people preach. Of course Bi men fancy other men, what would be the point in having sex with them? There has to be some physical attraction otherwise it's a non eventful experience. I can say I'm 100% Bi, I fancy both men & women, having been with my male partner now for 21 years it took a longtime coming to terms with, the mixed feelings of commitment to one sexual partner was never easy, I can say hand on heart, my partner accepts my bisexuality in fact, he encourages me to find a female for sexual pleasure, he knows that's all it will ever be, pure sexual pleasure. We we're contacted by a couple on here not long ago requesting a meet, on their profile, she was listed as Bi, he was listed as straight, within the email he admitted he was bisexual, when I queried this with him he said his partner would not and could not accept his bisexuality, seemed a bit unfair and one sided. | |||
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