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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Some advice here. Feels like I am the opposite of majority of men. Because I get replies back and women wanting to meet up. Which is great we have our social they compliment me. Say I dress well smell good, have a great sense of humour. But never want to follow up for sex but want another social. The last girl I actually asked why because usually I never ask. Just cut My losses. But she said great person just don't see you in that way and even though she said my cock was long it wasn't thick enough. I quite don't understand this. Does anyone have any advice for me as I'm getting more friends than sex lol. Don't get me wrong I love making new friends but my balls are getting blue LMAO.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Really??

Most women here say its the person behind the cock not the cock size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't a look at my cock thread is it?

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Looking at your pics you have more than most! So is it possible its the size being to big as to small?

As for size, its not the boat, its the motion of the ocean that matters.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Seems a weird comment to say to someone if they didn't want to meet you again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What isn't thick enough for the front door is perfect for the back door....silver lining and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is definitely a 'look at my cock' thread...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well after looking at your pics I presume you're not being serious!

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By *uralRobMan
over a year ago

Ludlow

Just another arsehole full off himself... Username. Handsome chef... Most normal guys would not call themselves handsome....

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"This is definitely a 'look at my cock' thread..."

Not at all being dead serious. I wanted advice what am I doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just another arsehole full off himself... Username. Handsome chef... Most normal guys would not call themselves handsome...."

........ certainly not the ugly ones anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't figure out from the photograph whether it is thick enough or not but it is kind of bent

- Mrs. J -

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I can see why she rejected you, it is a bit in the small size.

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Just another arsehole full off himself... Username. Handsome chef... Most normal guys would not call themselves handsome...."

Another insecure male . What would u rather me be called the typical "BBC" like all the other unoriginal guy username is original and different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is definitely a 'look at my cock' thread...

Not at all being dead serious. I wanted advice what am I doing wrong"

No idea

Maybe if you asked for constructive feedback from your meets as they are the only ones who would know for certain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow it is small not supprised the women aren't interested i thought it was a clit at first. My advise is eat 12 raw eggs mixed with margarine and chic peas guaranteed to make it grow. Failing that couple of lolly pop sticks up sides then wrap it in clingfilm might make it look bigger hope this is all been helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What isn't thick enough for the front door is perfect for the back door....silver lining and all that "

Now that quote has made me smile loving it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you see your own cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My take on this.

Assuming you aren't merely trying to attract attention to your profile by starting a thread, it looks like your meets have left very positive feedbacks.

You are on the short side, only 168cm. Your cock looks alright on the photos in comparison to your body, but you being small overall, presumably the cock is small too.

Can you gives us measurements?

If over 6 inches length, gird... don't know... 5?... you should be alright.

I can see the attraction for women - a chef, yummy... And You sound honest...No wonder you get invites.

I have another suggestion. Pm me for it.

Play safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't figure out from the photograph whether it is thick enough or not but it is kind of bent

- Mrs. J -"

Well aren't you a treasure

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Assuming you've not photoshopped that baby, and we are not just here to admire your cock (which I am by the way) then I'm guessing you've just not clicked with someone physically yet ... although unless you git your cock out in Costa how do these women know what's on offer?????

Oh and tidy up your room in those photos. I know I sound like your mum

Get to a club.... you may be successful.

V xxxx

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Assuming you've not photoshopped that baby, and we are not just here to admire your cock (which I am by the way) then I'm guessing you've just not clicked with someone physically yet ... although unless you git your cock out in Costa how do these women know what's on offer?????

Oh and tidy up your room in those photos. I know I sound like your mum

Get to a club.... you may be successful.

V xxxx

"

Reading that back I'm well aware that admiring his cock and then telling him off like his mum is just plain wrong .....

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

How thick does it need to be to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol at the above

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

You can only piss with the dick you got. So don't worry about it and crack on enjoying life.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Don't question it when people give you a reason - you asked for it and they gave it. Whether or not it is valid, it is valid for them. Also realise that some people may give you a 'made up' reason at it is an easier way for them of letting you down gently, rather than having to tell you the real reason why they don't want to take it further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't figure out from the photograph whether it is thick enough or not but it is kind of bent

- Mrs. J -

Well aren't you a treasure "

Who pissed on your chips, little fella?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What isn't thick enough for the front door is perfect for the back door....silver lining and all that "

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What isn't thick enough for the front door is perfect for the back door....silver lining and all that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is interesting if it is true .

Ladies what do u think and if this is true then I'd luv feed back from the ladies on my pics so inbox if u wanna c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously has a bucket fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is interesting if it is true .

Ladies what do u think and if this is true then I'd luv feed back from the ladies on my pics so inbox if u wanna c "

go and start your own thread...

we have told the OP what we think already

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Really, im small compared to that OP i know how to use it though (not big headed just not ashamed and going off ex partners and currents comments)plus yeah alot of women (not all) go for the personality behind it not so much the size of your member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well after looking at your pics I presume you're not being serious!"

My thoughts exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women are girth greedy lol but honestly I don't think you've got anything to worry about!

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By *uziebabyWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Is this just a "look at my cock" thread?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Some advice here. Feels like I am the opposite of majority of men. Because I get replies back and women wanting to meet up. Which is great we have our social they compliment me. Say I dress well smell good, have a great sense of humour. But never want to follow up for sex but want another social. The last girl I actually asked why because usually I never ask. Just cut My losses. But she said great person just don't see you in that way and even though she said my cock was long it wasn't thick enough. I quite don't understand this. Does anyone have any advice for me as I'm getting more friends than sex lol. Don't get me wrong I love making new friends but my balls are getting blue LMAO."

Assuming you are serious.

You're getting friendzoned. When you meet these women, flirt a little more and talk about topics of a sexual nature. This is NOT a job interview.

Good luck!

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Don't bother with the socials and go directly to the swinging clubs and ask the ladies directly if they will like to play if yes fine, if no move on to the next lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm interested in what social of socials you're having that she determined you're long but not thick enough!

Sounds like an excuse to me, as the female half I don't think girth has ever been a particular consideration. If it was very thin I'd hope you made up for it with technique if the chemistry was there.

If it's true it's not like there's a lot you can do about it, and as for being friend zoned while we're all for the social side I can't imagine becoming friends with someone we'd turned down for sex and hanging out with them outside the scene in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or what sort of socials even

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Also don't act as if they are doing you a favour when having a conversation with the ladies , they are not, they are there to enjoy themselves too , just take control of the conversation and know that it is fair exchange ,no robbery, you might want to go for the low hanging nice fruits first to open your book and gain confidence , you will notice them as they are beautiful and will be smiling at you when you walk by.

Just know that if you act like the pussy is all you care about they will say no by reflex, the ladies are very skilled hunters and ruthless predators when you are in the swingers club with them, their main strenght is your interest in their pussy and everything leads there, so you have to act as if you didnt even notice that thing even if you are rock hard when talking to them, remember you are fresh meat to them when you are in the club so go in with a plan of what to say to make them smile and you will do fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww mayb your being to friendly then flirty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What isn't thick enough for the front door is perfect for the back door....silver lining and all that "
love that quote

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

You get your cock out when you have a social with someone?

They can see how big you are from your pics.

This is a badly constructed LAM thread.

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Doesn't sound like a social to me. Never got to see a cock on a social or wanna see one either. I like to be surprised if we decide to play.

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