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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wanted to know from you lovely fabbers how do you deal with attachment on here? Without a doubt, some of us are going to develop something for someone we've met on here or they towards us that goes a little further than that lustful feeling....

So, any tips on avoiding it or dealing with it?

Thanks

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

depends what you are after?

it may not be a bad thing if both feel the same.

I personally don't want a relationship at the moment. so if I want to see someone not for sex but for intimacy I don't meet. I call a friend and get my cuddles there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had that a few times, very flattering initially but then feels like your being stalked with comments made on new veris or when you're log in and constant messages and wanting to meet... stop meeting when you feel it's getting to emotionally charged and stops being just sex, unless of course a relationship is what you both want, in that case enjoy and try not to let the inevitable jealousy of meeting on fab influence your feelings.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I won't fall in love with anyone off here or form a relationship. I'm good at compartmentalising and it's purely sex for me. Although with some social chat and laughs and getting to know people but there will always be a line that I won't cross. If it ever happened, I'd cut all contact and leave fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wanted to know from you lovely fabbers how do you deal with attachment on here? Without a doubt, some of us are going to develop something for someone we've met on here or they towards us that goes a little further than that lustful feeling....

So, any tips on avoiding it or dealing with it?

Thanks"

avoid it by not meeting anyone

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i get attached to some, doesn't mean i want a relationship it more means i like them as a person and will miss them if i don't see them or chat to them.

don't form it with many coz i don't get to know many people as a person and i'd only cut them dead if they don't deserve for me to care about them coz they are messing me about or giving me shit or trying to fuck me up in some way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wanted to know from you lovely fabbers how do you deal with attachment on here? Without a doubt, some of us are going to develop something for someone we've met on here or they towards us that goes a little further than that lustful feeling....

So, any tips on avoiding it or dealing with it?

Thanks

avoid it by not meeting anyone "

Bold move

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"depends what you are after?

it may not be a bad thing if both feel the same.

I personally don't want a relationship at the moment. so if I want to see someone not for sex but for intimacy I don't meet. I call a friend and get my cuddles there "

I don't do cuddles lol. I'm not after a relationship either, had a three year one not to long ago. That started out as FWB.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I wanted to know from you lovely fabbers how do you deal with attachment on here? Without a doubt, some of us are going to develop something for someone we've met on here or they towards us that goes a little further than that lustful feeling....

So, any tips on avoiding it or dealing with it?

Thanks"

When women message me I tell them to fuck off. Simples!

Next question.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"i get attached to some, doesn't mean i want a relationship it more means i like them as a person and will miss them if i don't see them or chat to them.

don't form it with many coz i don't get to know many people as a person and i'd only cut them dead if they don't deserve for me to care about them coz they are messing me about or giving me shit or trying to fuck me up in some way."

I want to give you a hug.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i get attached to some, doesn't mean i want a relationship it more means i like them as a person and will miss them if i don't see them or chat to them.

don't form it with many coz i don't get to know many people as a person and i'd only cut them dead if they don't deserve for me to care about them coz they are messing me about or giving me shit or trying to fuck me up in some way.

I want to give you a hug. "

i need very long and tight hugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I massaged once a lady from here. She was very popular having slep with half the members, but found a fuck budy later and eventually moved in with him.

Still together. Happily ever after!

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"i get attached to some, doesn't mean i want a relationship it more means i like them as a person and will miss them if i don't see them or chat to them.

don't form it with many coz i don't get to know many people as a person and i'd only cut them dead if they don't deserve for me to care about them coz they are messing me about or giving me shit or trying to fuck me up in some way.

I want to give you a hug.

i need very long and tight hugs. "

I'll let you know when I have 5 minutes to spare.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I massaged once a lady from here. She was very popular having slep with half the members, but found a fuck budy later and eventually moved in with him.

Still together. Happily ever after!"

I'm not surprised she needed a massage if she slept with half the members on here!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i get attached to some, doesn't mean i want a relationship it more means i like them as a person and will miss them if i don't see them or chat to them.

don't form it with many coz i don't get to know many people as a person and i'd only cut them dead if they don't deserve for me to care about them coz they are messing me about or giving me shit or trying to fuck me up in some way.

I want to give you a hug.

i need very long and tight hugs.

I'll let you know when I have 5 minutes to spare. "

fine. i'll wait.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"i get attached to some, doesn't mean i want a relationship it more means i like them as a person and will miss them if i don't see them or chat to them.

don't form it with many coz i don't get to know many people as a person and i'd only cut them dead if they don't deserve for me to care about them coz they are messing me about or giving me shit or trying to fuck me up in some way.

I want to give you a hug.

i need very long and tight hugs.

I'll let you know when I have 5 minutes to spare.

fine. i'll wait."

For a 5 minute hug?

I'm so blessed to have friends like you...

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"i get attached to some, doesn't mean i want a relationship it more means i like them as a person and will miss them if i don't see them or chat to them.

don't form it with many coz i don't get to know many people as a person and i'd only cut them dead if they don't deserve for me to care about them coz they are messing me about or giving me shit or trying to fuck me up in some way.

I want to give you a hug.

i need very long and tight hugs.

I'll let you know when I have 5 minutes to spare.

fine. i'll wait.

For a 5 minute hug?

I'm so blessed to have friends like you... "

Hope I'm not derailing but I have actually made friends via Fab and I'm ok with that. Some are very new like my huggable friend here. The oldest is the first woman I ever met off here. We don't meet regularly but we text and have a laugh and try to meet when we can.

Yes, it's only sex BUT we're only human...

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i get attached to some, doesn't mean i want a relationship it more means i like them as a person and will miss them if i don't see them or chat to them.

don't form it with many coz i don't get to know many people as a person and i'd only cut them dead if they don't deserve for me to care about them coz they are messing me about or giving me shit or trying to fuck me up in some way.

I want to give you a hug.

i need very long and tight hugs.

I'll let you know when I have 5 minutes to spare.

fine. i'll wait.

For a 5 minute hug?

I'm so blessed to have friends like you... "

well, i'm going to sleep now so not waiting tonight.

and most people wouldn't wait around for a hug, i'm kinda special though (take that anyway you want to, i don't mind).

goodnight.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"...i'm kinda special though..."

I know this...

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