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By *oul Brotha OP   Man
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Not sure if it's my poor profile, awful pics or general ugliness holding me back.

Welcome any and all feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rate out of 10?

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By *oul Brotha OP   Man
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Just general feedback, but happy to take scores, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty good write up and your pics are good too.

The only thing that struck me was having a cock pic as the first you see in your gallery.

I'm not a fan of them and you have one further down anyhow. Personally I'd consider ditching the latest one or pop it into your friends only folder so we see some of your other pics first.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Pretty good write up and your pics are good too.

The only thing that struck me was having a cock pic as the first you see in your gallery.

I'm not a fan of them and you have one further down anyhow. Personally I'd consider ditching the latest one or pop it into your friends only folder so we see some of your other pics first. "

I agree

Apart from that, it's actually quite a nice profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good looking guy ! Nice profile and great veri's ........ but ..... a wet slippery cock close up as first pic ( or any pic lol ) noooo. Lets see your handsome smiley face first .....for me the cock pic would stop me in my tracks and I would delete xx

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Cocks only come into the equation when we like someone enough to care. Anyone who thinks his cock is the most important thing about him isn't going to get far with us.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Good looking guy ! Nice profile and great veri's ........ but ..... a wet slippery cock close up as first pic ( or any pic lol ) noooo. Lets see your handsome smiley face first .....for me the cock pic would stop me in my tracks and I would delete xx "

Why after all that praise for his profile would you let a picture stop you from meeting him or even talking to him.. Is the picture that bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good looking guy ! Nice profile and great veri's ........ but ..... a wet slippery cock close up as first pic ( or any pic lol ) noooo. Lets see your handsome smiley face first .....for me the cock pic would stop me in my tracks and I would delete xx

Why after all that praise for his profile would you let a picture stop you from meeting him or even talking to him.. Is the picture that bad?"

Good point. I understand that if a profile is just full of cock pics or there sent with messages is a put off but surly if a profile is wrote up properly and there's a good mix of face, body and cock pics surly that's just a way to appeal to multiple people why would one pic out of a hole good profile then put you off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good looking guy ! Nice profile and great veri's ........ but ..... a wet slippery cock close up as first pic ( or any pic lol ) noooo. Lets see your handsome smiley face first .....for me the cock pic would stop me in my tracks and I would delete xx

Why after all that praise for his profile would you let a picture stop you from meeting him or even talking to him.. Is the picture that bad?

Good point. I understand that if a profile is just full of cock pics or there sent with messages is a put off but surly if a profile is wrote up properly and there's a good mix of face, body and cock pics surly that's just a way to appeal to multiple people why would one pic out of a hole good profile then put you off. "

I read all the profile carefuly as Im giving a critique in the forum. However If his was one of a hundred odd messages pouring in per day, Id start with the pics as I usually do and on seeing the cock pic would just flick off the page, move on and delete. Maybe just maybe I might read more but time is short when editing messages so who knows.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Very good profile but lose the cock pics please which is what may be causing the problem. Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good looking guy ! Nice profile and great veri's ........ but ..... a wet slippery cock close up as first pic ( or any pic lol ) noooo. Lets see your handsome smiley face first .....for me the cock pic would stop me in my tracks and I would delete xx

Why after all that praise for his profile would you let a picture stop you from meeting him or even talking to him.. Is the picture that bad?

Good point. I understand that if a profile is just full of cock pics or there sent with messages is a put off but surly if a profile is wrote up properly and there's a good mix of face, body and cock pics surly that's just a way to appeal to multiple people why would one pic out of a hole good profile then put you off.

I read all the profile carefuly as Im giving a critique in the forum. However If his was one of a hundred odd messages pouring in per day, Id start with the pics as I usually do and on seeing the cock pic would just flick off the page, move on and delete. Maybe just maybe I might read more but time is short when editing messages so who knows. "

This really.

I'd open the gallery. See a cock pic and just bang out of it.

I only looked further this time to see what I could constructively offer.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Smooth move OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if it's my poor profile, awful pics or general ugliness holding me back.

Welcome any and all feedback. "

I see nothing wrong with your profile OP

For me personally, the thing that would put me off is personal to me and no reflection on you so not worth a comment on here ..

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By *oul Brotha OP   Man
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Thanks for the feedback, everyone.

Despite the objection to cock pics, I never send when messaging, and ironically, they're my most fabbed pics.

I'll move them into private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the feedback, everyone.

Despite the objection to cock pics, I never send when messaging, and ironically, they're my most fabbed pics.

I'll move them into private.

"

Most fabbed by women?

In my eyes your profile just moved from an 'instant delete' to 'I'll take a look'.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Thanks for the feedback, everyone.

Despite the objection to cock pics, I never send when messaging, and ironically, they're my most fabbed pics.

I'll move them into private.

"

There is still a cock pic showing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the feedback, everyone.

Despite the objection to cock pics, I never send when messaging, and ironically, they're my most fabbed pics.

I'll move them into private.

There is still a cock pic showing "

maybe its back by popular demand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the feedback, everyone.

Despite the objection to cock pics, I never send when messaging, and ironically, they're my most fabbed pics.

I'll move them into private.

There is still a cock pic showing "

It's not the first thing you see though.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Thanks for the feedback, everyone.

Despite the objection to cock pics, I never send when messaging, and ironically, they're my most fabbed pics.

I'll move them into private.

There is still a cock pic showing

It's not the first thing you see though. "

It's the second pic you see....

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By *oul Brotha OP   Man
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Eerrr the torso shot? Should I move it to private?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Good looking guy ! Nice profile and great veri's ........ but ..... a wet slippery cock close up as first pic ( or any pic lol ) noooo. Lets see your handsome smiley face first .....for me the cock pic would stop me in my tracks and I would delete xx

Why after all that praise for his profile would you let a picture stop you from meeting him or even talking to him.. Is the picture that bad?

Good point. I understand that if a profile is just full of cock pics or there sent with messages is a put off but surly if a profile is wrote up properly and there's a good mix of face, body and cock pics surly that's just a way to appeal to multiple people why would one pic out of a hole good profile then put you off.

I read all the profile carefuly as Im giving a critique in the forum. However If his was one of a hundred odd messages pouring in per day, Id start with the pics as I usually do and on seeing the cock pic would just flick off the page, move on and delete. Maybe just maybe I might read more but time is short when editing messages so who knows.

This really.

I'd open the gallery. See a cock pic and just bang out of it.

I only looked further this time to see what I could constructively offer. "

I get that totally.. just seems to be cutting off your nose to spite your face so to speak?. I mean you can't please everyone all of the time and if you are trying to do so then that's a sure way of ending up pleasing nobody. I've seen loads of profiles with pictures i don't like but I'd still like to find out if the person in question was compatible. Just my opinion

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Good looking guy ! Nice profile and great veri's ........ but ..... a wet slippery cock close up as first pic ( or any pic lol ) noooo. Lets see your handsome smiley face first .....for me the cock pic would stop me in my tracks and I would delete xx

Why after all that praise for his profile would you let a picture stop you from meeting him or even talking to him.. Is the picture that bad?

Good point. I understand that if a profile is just full of cock pics or there sent with messages is a put off but surly if a profile is wrote up properly and there's a good mix of face, body and cock pics surly that's just a way to appeal to multiple people why would one pic out of a hole good profile then put you off. "

Well you would of thought so wouldn't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good looking guy ! Nice profile and great veri's ........ but ..... a wet slippery cock close up as first pic ( or any pic lol ) noooo. Lets see your handsome smiley face first .....for me the cock pic would stop me in my tracks and I would delete xx

Why after all that praise for his profile would you let a picture stop you from meeting him or even talking to him.. Is the picture that bad?

Good point. I understand that if a profile is just full of cock pics or there sent with messages is a put off but surly if a profile is wrote up properly and there's a good mix of face, body and cock pics surly that's just a way to appeal to multiple people why would one pic out of a hole good profile then put you off.

Well you would of thought so wouldn't you? "

Thing is I really dont think you men understand the sheer volume of messages woman get every moment of the day. Hundreds !!

There really is no time to analyse, weigh up,debate or consider profiles in such detail. Me personally ( as I can only speak for myself) will just delete and block if there is something that puts me off a person as there is soooooo much choice. Its much easier, whittles messages down and means Im not going back over same old profiles x

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"

Thing is I really dont think you men understand the sheer volume of messages woman get every moment of the day. Hundreds !!

"

That is so true. It's really tiresome when 90% either haven't bothered to check our basic requirements and preferences or have just ignored them.

We try to reply to everyone who makes a reasonable effort when contacting us but we won't do so when it's perfectly obvious they didn't bother to to read a word of our profile. If we're looking to meet a tall, fit, non-smoking, straight guy in his 40's and living in N. Kent, we're hardly likely to be interested in a short, fat, 60 year old, bisexual, smoker living in Scotland. That reality seems to escape a hell of a lot of people here as they're wondering why we didn't get back to them and what's wrong with their profile...

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