FabSwingers.com forum: Couples club etiquette?

By *rontier Psychiatrist OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Hi. Inexperienced in the club scene. Been once and had a really fun night and will do it again once time permits. But my question relates to how to handle couples. When I was getting to know people I talked to a few groups of couples. It was good humored and pleasant but I didn't feel I had the freedom to flirt with the female side. I wasn't sure if it was right to really start making the eye contact, and flirting with the females in front of their partners? Not in same way i felt with singles. Probably still a bit programmed by the rules of the vanilla world. Would it have been acceptable once I got to know both of the couple a bit better and its going well to start flirting with the female half?

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

If they are there as a couple address both...

Polite, well mannered and not pushy.

Take an interest and if you can make them laugh its a good sign....both have to be comfortable with you and generally if your lucks in you will get invited to join in

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

End of the day if the mood is happy, give them time to discuss and if they find you its all good.

Or if they are playing in an open room let them know your there discreetly without killing the mood and if they want you they will indicate

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By *rontier Psychiatrist OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

"End of the day if the mood is happy, give them time to discuss and if they find you its all good.

Or if they are playing in an open room let them know your there discreetly without killing the mood and if they want you they will indicate

Thanks for the advise. I am not one for being pushy. And conversation and a laugh with all I think was good. Is it advisable to just carry on this course and await flirtation some the other side? I don't want to be pushy but I was concerned that a may come across a bit of a damp squid if I didn't make any kind of flitatious eye contact or physical positioning/proximaity.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"If they are there as a couple address both...

Polite, well mannered and not pushy.

Take an interest and if you can make them laugh its a good sign....both have to be comfortable with you and generally if your lucks in you will get invited to join in "

This is good advice. Most women at a club want to feel desired so compliment them, but don't focus on the woman to the extent the husband feels like a spare wheel next to his own wife. Most men at swinging clubs will appreciate being told they are fortunate to have such a beautiful wife...

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I for one would take it as a compliment and flirting with Lucy would be fine for us after getting to know us a bit first, she decides not me so if it feels right then go with the flow just don't be arrogant and acknowledge my existence aswell and we would welcome the attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

I have so many question. Some of which would be best by pm after I got to know a few couples or singles better and some to ask of a group of couples like on this post and I though this group seemed like the perfect group.

The first question is a bit daft/ light hearted and, although I would never do it, I am interested in how people would respond if it ever happened or if it has. It is also based on the extra person being a nice guy or even girl but just did something out of the blue. The second question is more serious.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?"

I literally laughed out loud at question 1, I'd love it if this happened, I'd make it a three way high five!

I need to find a man that high fives me and all other parties involved, after sex. I try it quite often but nobody seems to embrace it like I do. It gets abit awkward to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?

I literally laughed out loud at question 1, I'd love it if this happened, I'd make it a three way high five!

I need to find a man that high fives me and all other parties involved, after sex. I try it quite often but nobody seems to embrace it like I do. It gets abit awkward to be honest.

I could imagine it would be quite awkward for people if they've only just met and invited somebody into their relationship but if it's 1 on 1 I'd laugh.

I did recently high five a woman because she swallowed but I knew her lol.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Hi. Inexperienced in the club scene. Been once and had a really fun night and will do it again once time permits. But my question relates to how to handle couples. When I was getting to know people I talked to a few groups of couples. It was good humored and pleasant but I didn't feel I had the freedom to flirt with the female side. I wasn't sure if it was right to really start making the eye contact, and flirting with the females in front of their partners? Not in same way i felt with singles. Probably still a bit programmed by the rules of the vanilla world. Would it have been acceptable once I got to know both of the couple a bit better and its going well to start flirting with the female half? "

We suggest initial contact at a swingers club is the same as initial contact at a vanilla party or pub. Talk to both the man and the woman if they seem receptive to you then you can move on to flirting with the female not forgetting to include her partner in the chat.

A swingers club is like anywhere else it may end up with you playing or it may end up with you simply parting after a chat.

Some couples will quickly invite you to play others may never invite you to play, some will wait for you to suggest play just relax and be yourself.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?"

I hi fived a guy as we spitroasted a lovely lady. This was on my first time in a club though and I was VERY inexperienced/excited/horny (add any other random emotion as you see fit)! Not sure if I would so it again though, probably if it was a bunch of well known friends!

Having said that, I couldn't resist fist bumping another black guy due to the sounds of pleasure coming from one of my fbs as he was fucking her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, the conversation has to include both. And we both agree, or not, whether to take it further with a single man. Flirting from a single man towards her is not something which we look for. With couples, it is different, as there is someone for him to flirt with too

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By *rontier Psychiatrist OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

It was a concern of my that I wasn't paying enough attention to ladies. I was chatting, making conversation with everyone. But it worried me that people may see me as nice to chat with but not see me in a sexualised way due to lack of flirtation. My main goal is just as much about making new friends and having a good time as it is play. Maybe I should have carried on as I was and given things a bit more time? I assume conversation would drop or people would tell me their not interested if they didn't like me? I mean I assume most people make a general assumption that a single male is there to play (on the whole)? So I assume it would be assumed by the couple/groups that by talking to them I would have an interest in maybe playing with them later. I don't want anything awkward just for things to flow naturally.

Oh an high 5s all round sounds perfectly apt to me. After all is a group effort and surely about fun and not taking things too seriously. GOOOO TEAM!

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"It was a concern of my that I wasn't paying enough attention to ladies. I was chatting, making conversation with everyone. But it worried me that people may see me as nice to chat with but not see me in a sexualised way due to lack of flirtation. My main goal is just as much about making new friends and having a good time as it is play. Maybe I should have carried on as I was and given things a bit more time? I assume conversation would drop or people would tell me their not interested if they didn't like me? I mean I assume most people make a general assumption that a single male is there to play (on the whole)? So I assume it would be assumed by the couple/groups that by talking to them I would have an interest in maybe playing with them later. I don't want anything awkward just for things to flow naturally.

Oh an high 5s all round sounds perfectly apt to me. After all is a group effort and surely about fun and not taking things too seriously. GOOOO TEAM!"

Your perception is pretty much spot on. Keep doing what you're doing and you will have friends AND sex. If you're aware of you're surroundings it becomes at little clearer what to do. Address anyone in close proximity while maintaining focus. Also be honest and open. Quick tip: There are many stories about guys waiting till hubby goes to the toilet before making a move. Although it will be the ladies decision to play, you don't want to look like you're going behind his back.

You sound like a top bloke anyway and I look forward to a high five while we share a nice lady!

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We much prefer a bit of flirting in the bar/lounge area of a club before going on to play and I would never discourage any guy from flirting with Mrs. In fact I always try to actively encourage it unless it is someone she doesn't particularly fancy.

However we find that quite a lot of guys seem intimidated if we are there together, so if we are chatting to a guy and Mrs seems happy I will go for a wander around the club to give him a bit of space. We've found that it works quite well.

On other occasions we will see guys hanging around but none seem to want to make a move or even say hello so I will usually either break the ice with one that she likes or do the go for a walk routine and see if one will start chatting to her when I've gone, which often happens.

Bottom line is that we go to swinger clubs for sex and (for us at least) flirting is an important part of the build up.

Not everyone will agree but that is what we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite happy for single guys to flirt with my wife in a club. Kinda hope they do.

As long as they don't treat me as a hanger on to try to get her away from I'm cool with it.

I wouldn't mind if he asked if minded him 'borrowing her' for a while either but she would want me there for her peace of mind and safety even if just sat in the corner quietly watching.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I'm quite happy for single guys to flirt with my wife in a club. Kinda hope they do.

As long as they don't treat me as a hanger on to try to get her away from I'm cool with it.

I wouldn't mind if he asked if minded him 'borrowing her' for a while either but she would want me there for her peace of mind and safety even if just sat in the corner quietly watching. "

I know quite a few guys that would take offence to being asked to borrow their wife. Not saying they are right or wrong, but it can be taken the wrong way.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"I'm quite happy for single guys to flirt with my wife in a club. Kinda hope they do.

As long as they don't treat me as a hanger on to try to get her away from I'm cool with it.

I wouldn't mind if he asked if minded him 'borrowing her' for a while either but she would want me there for her peace of mind and safety even if just sat in the corner quietly watching.

I know quite a few guys that would take offence to being asked to borrow their wife. Not saying they are right or wrong, but it can be taken the wrong way. "

Asking to borrow is not as bad as asking for permission from the OH IMHO. At the end of the day nobody is anybody's "possession" since like, the 1950's or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm quite happy for single guys to flirt with my wife in a club. Kinda hope they do.

As long as they don't treat me as a hanger on to try to get her away from I'm cool with it.

I wouldn't mind if he asked if minded him 'borrowing her' for a while either but she would want me there for her peace of mind and safety even if just sat in the corner quietly watching.

I know quite a few guys that would take offence to being asked to borrow their wife. Not saying they are right or wrong, but it can be taken the wrong way.

Asking to borrow is not as bad as asking for permission from the OH IMHO. At the end of the day nobody is anybody's "possession" since like, the 1950's or something?

My wife and I have a very light hearted view on swinging and often say stuff like this to each other. We're very approachable as we respond well to a smile.

My profile often has status like "may I borrow your husband". I certainly don't see marriage as possessing people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm quite happy for single guys to flirt with my wife in a club. Kinda hope they do.

As long as they don't treat me as a hanger on to try to get her away from I'm cool with it.

I wouldn't mind if he asked if minded him 'borrowing her' for a while either but she would want me there for her peace of mind and safety even if just sat in the corner quietly watching.

I know quite a few guys that would take offence to being asked to borrow their wife. Not saying they are right or wrong, but it can be taken the wrong way.

Asking to borrow is not as bad as asking for permission from the OH IMHO. At the end of the day nobody is anybody's "possession" since like, the 1950's or something?

We agree with this wholeheartedly. Although a couple, neither is the other's possession. We are loyal and faithful to each other and make mutual decisions

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By *rontier Psychiatrist OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

A slight variation in what gels well with different couples (to be expected of course). I suppose its a lot to do with judging the dynamic and going with the flow. No doubt the more you chat to couple/groups the more you comfortable, natural and easy it is?

I am interested, when a single male is talking to a couple does the conversation normally stay non-sexualish? Or does the conversation matter tend to heat up if things are gelling with everyone?

Also once the ice is broken and conversation is going well is it normally acceptable to ask and take an interest in the couples experience of the Swinging scene?

Milk Tre if our paths ever meet it would be a pleasure to share a high five with a nice lady or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm quite happy for single guys to flirt with my wife in a club. Kinda hope they do.

As long as they don't treat me as a hanger on to try to get her away from I'm cool with it.

I wouldn't mind if he asked if minded him 'borrowing her' for a while either but she would want me there for her peace of mind and safety even if just sat in the corner quietly watching.

I know quite a few guys that would take offence to being asked to borrow their wife. Not saying they are right or wrong, but it can be taken the wrong way. "

I know quite a few women who would take offence to the borrowing question especially if it's asked of the make partner...me being one of them...

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?"

No high fives but plenty of handshakes for B after a good session

Actually just come home from a horny afternoon with single gentleman. Handshakes all around

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?

No high fives but plenty of handshakes for B after a good session

Actually just come home from a horny afternoon with single gentleman. Handshakes all around

Should men shake a womans hand though or go for the kiss on thr cheek? Always a dilema

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"A slight variation in what gels well with different couples (to be expected of course). I suppose its a lot to do with judging the dynamic and going with the flow. No doubt the more you chat to couple/groups the more you comfortable, natural and easy it is?

I am interested, when a single male is talking to a couple does the conversation normally stay non-sexualish? Or does the conversation matter tend to heat up if things are gelling with everyone?

Also once the ice is broken and conversation is going well is it normally acceptable to ask and take an interest in the couples experience of the Swinging scene?

Milk Tre if our paths ever meet it would be a pleasure to share a high five with a nice lady or two.

One of the things I ask as an ice breaker is "How long have you been swinging?". Having said that, I don't think it's the most riveting of topics so at an appropriate moment I try to turn to subjects of a more sexual nature. Maybe complimenting clothing, crack a joke, basically try to show my personality as I feel that I'm more than a "cock with legs".

There are no hard and fast rules as it does take experience and a well developed EQ. (Google that, you won't be sorry!

) In fact, I literally got into swinging, clubs in particular, as part of my efforts to get my ass away from the internet and to socialise more. Sex wasn't that high of a priority as I've been ok when it comes to getting girlfriends but I've always wanted to be a friendly cool guy who would be the life and soul of the party. You'll have to ask the people that have verified me how that's working out for me!

Don't worry about saying the wrong thing. You're only human so allow yourself to learn from your mistakes. Sometimes it's even ok tell people it's your first time at X club and you're a bit nervous!

I wouldn't say I'm totally there yet but I'm really enjoying the journey!

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?

No high fives but plenty of handshakes for B after a good session

Actually just come home from a horny afternoon with single gentleman. Handshakes all around

Should men shake a womans hand though or go for the kiss on thr cheek? Always a dilema "

I usually kiss women on the cheek AFTER shaking the male partners hand. It has to be natural and unforced to not come over creepy. It's not for everyone so it's best to do what's comfortable for the individual. I try to be consistent as it would look strange if I'm seen to greet one person with a kiss and not another!

I have a different greeting reserved for my fbs though...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?

No high fives but plenty of handshakes for B after a good session

Actually just come home from a horny afternoon with single gentleman. Handshakes all around

Should men shake a womans hand though or go for the kiss on thr cheek? Always a dilema

I have a different greeting reserved for my fbs though...

You come across as someone who has good social skills, not just in this thread. Probably why you have 20+ verifications. A lot of single guys at clubs are just flat out awkward though, maybe you should offer classes to them, could be a nice second income - like a pick up artist for swingers.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think you flirting with the female half is fine, you have to show some level of attraction to them, so long as it is part of the overall conversation with everyone. It might be awkward if it became too much and could be felt as cutting in on the male partner.

Striking the right level is the key.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?

No high fives but plenty of handshakes for B after a good session

Actually just come home from a horny afternoon with single gentleman. Handshakes all around

Should men shake a womans hand though or go for the kiss on thr cheek? Always a dilema

I have a different greeting reserved for my fbs though...

Funny you should say that...

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By *rontier Psychiatrist OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?

No high fives but plenty of handshakes for B after a good session

Actually just come home from a horny afternoon with single gentleman. Handshakes all around

Should men shake a womans hand though or go for the kiss on thr cheek? Always a dilema

I have a different greeting reserved for my fbs though...

Funny you should say that...

If we sign up today do we get a free Parker pen and £20 of M&S vouchers?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?

No high fives but plenty of handshakes for B after a good session

Actually just come home from a horny afternoon with single gentleman. Handshakes all around

Should men shake a womans hand though or go for the kiss on thr cheek? Always a dilema

I have a different greeting reserved for my fbs though...

Funny you should say that...

If we sign up today do we get a free Parker pen and £20 of M&S vouchers?"

Yes. For "only" £49.99!

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By *rontier Psychiatrist OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?

No high fives but plenty of handshakes for B after a good session

Actually just come home from a horny afternoon with single gentleman. Handshakes all around

Should men shake a womans hand though or go for the kiss on thr cheek? Always a dilema

I have a different greeting reserved for my fbs though...

Funny you should say that...

If we sign up today do we get a free Parker pen and £20 of M&S vouchers?

Yes. For "only" £49.99!

Let me think.......

Sounds an unbelievable price. You are practically giving the program away. Can't wait to see your adverts and the men's testimonials on the QVC channel and late night TV.

And I definitely will get a parker pen?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?

No high fives but plenty of handshakes for B after a good session

Actually just come home from a horny afternoon with single gentleman. Handshakes all around

Should men shake a womans hand though or go for the kiss on thr cheek? Always a dilema

I have a different greeting reserved for my fbs though...

Funny you should say that...

If we sign up today do we get a free Parker pen and £20 of M&S vouchers?

Yes. For "only" £49.99!

Let me think.......

Sounds an unbelievable price. You are practically giving the program away. Can't wait to see your adverts and the men's testimonials on the QVC channel and late night TV.

And I definitely will get a parker pen?"

Yes. To take down the details of all those couples and single ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like to apologise for jumping onto this post but I did think it was a very good original post just as I thought it was very good advice.

I'm completely inexperienced in this world but I am fascinated by it. If I get to make a few friends then great and if I'm lucky enough to experience some of it then even better.

1- How would/ have you reacted if the 3rd party was joining in and suddenly tried to high five the partner?

2- have you, or anybody you know, had to stop a "session" with a 3rd party half way through and what was the reason?

No high fives but plenty of handshakes for B after a good session

Actually just come home from a horny afternoon with single gentleman. Handshakes all around

Should men shake a womans hand though or go for the kiss on thr cheek? Always a dilema

I have a different greeting reserved for my fbs though...

Funny you should say that...

If we sign up today do we get a free Parker pen and £20 of M&S vouchers?

Yes. For "only" £49.99!

Let me think.......

Sounds an unbelievable price. You are practically giving the program away. Can't wait to see your adverts and the men's testimonials on the QVC channel and late night TV.

And I definitely will get a parker pen?

Yes. To take down the details of all those couples and single ladies.

Count me in

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over a year ago

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No high fives but plenty of handshakes for B after a good session

Actually just come home from a horny afternoon with single gentleman. Handshakes all around

Should men shake a womans hand though or go for the kiss on thr cheek? Always a dilema "

Shaking hands isn't that common in England as on the Continent. To shake hands with a lady after sex is a very business like. I'd go for a gentle rub on the shoulder, a hug , a kiss...

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

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No high fives but plenty of handshakes for B after a good session

Actually just come home from a horny afternoon with single gentleman. Handshakes all around

Should men shake a womans hand though or go for the kiss on thr cheek? Always a dilema

Shaking hands isn't that common in England as on the Continent. To shake hands with a lady after sex is a very business like. I'd go for a gentle rub on the shoulder, a hug , a kiss...

It was gentlemen, was a moresome

and they shake B's hand not mine

they've enjoyed me already by handshake time!

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