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By *eodon48 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I don't know if I'm being to bland with them or I'm not what they were expecting but usually I don't get a response. Can I get some advice please?

Also, I don't go asking do you wanna smash or can I see your tits before anyone asks XD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attach a dick pic usually works

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Dont be that guy that sends filth 'i wanna ride you like shergar' than follows every message up with 'sorry. Is that ok to say that?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women will usually look at a profile before even opening a message..

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

What do you say in your opening message?

Sally

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By *eodon48 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Thanks everyone, usually Sally it's "Hi, saw your profile and wandered if you wanted to chat?"

Tbf, i'm a lot better at talking irl since personality shows

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By *eodon48 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

haha good advice, should i say Epona instead. oh i hope you get that reference :D

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By *eodon48 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

could u take a look at mine and maybe give me some tips please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could u take a look at mine and maybe give me some tips please? "

yes,get rid of the first photo!..then search 'profile advice' in the forum threads..your profile is very jokey but actually says nothing at all about you or what your looking for..leaves nothing really to respond to...humour is fine but, for me anyway, it's no replacement for a full descriptive profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the photo with your tongue sticking out too.

It makes you look very immature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get rid of the photo with your tongue sticking out too.

It makes you look very immature "

god yes!! thats' even worse! what is it with the tongue thing?? it's repulsive, and loads of guys do it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the photo with your legs. The room looks a mess sorry to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get rid of the photo with your tongue sticking out too.

It makes you look very immature

god yes!! thats' even worse! what is it with the tongue thing?? it's repulsive, and loads of guys do it.."

Tongue sticking out is awful....Oops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the photo with your legs. The room looks a mess sorry to say"

thats the one i meant...theyve moved around...it's an inexplicable photo..not sure what you were trying to do there..

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By *eodon48 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I think I got it, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I got it, thanks"

you can block messages from men you know,the bit about that is really unnecessary on your profile. men probably won't read your profile anyway..

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"could u take a look at mine and maybe give me some tips please? "

You like playing with your mates? Looks like an 8 year old has written the words.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

You say you like sex "particularly with women" which suggests you're not exclusively straight...

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