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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

From a follow fabber. That I might possibly be "cockblocked". Ooookay...What does that mean exactly ?? That someones put a block on fabbers texting me ?? Someone bad mouthing me ??

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley

don't know but I want to find out what it means

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"From a follow fabber. That I might possibly be "cockblocked". Ooookay...What does that mean exactly ?? That someones put a block on fabbers texting me ?? Someone bad mouthing me ??

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I suspect its just someone trying to unsettle you. It means nothing.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Women can't be cock blocked, although box blocked can be used instead. It means someone has accidentally or deliberately prevented you from having a shag. For example, you've arranged a meet on here, are all ready to go, and you get a phone call from a mate desperately needing a lift somewhere. They've just box blocked you, the cads.

So anyone using that phrase on this site is using it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well if there is someone bad mouthing me ... good luck....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get men saying they know who I am, and they will 'out me' in public, next time they see me in town. Just angry men who can't accept a 'polite no thank you'. Smile/delete/forget

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women can't be cock blocked, although box blocked can be used instead. It means someone has accidentally or deliberately prevented you from having a shag. For example, you've arranged a meet on here, are all ready to go, and you get a phone call from a mate desperately needing a lift somewhere. They've just box blocked you, the cads.

So anyone using that phrase on this site is using it wrong."

So ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get men saying they know who I am, and they will 'out me' in public, next time they see me in town. Just angry men who can't accept a 'polite no thank you'. Smile/delete/forget "

No this is women apparently .. not men ...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"From a follow fabber. That I might possibly be "cockblocked". Ooookay...What does that mean exactly ?? That someones put a block on fabbers texting me ?? Someone bad mouthing me ??

"

Your fellow fabber is stirring shit. Otherwise they'd have told you exactly what they mean. Ignore it, some people just love drama

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Women can't be cock blocked, although box blocked can be used instead. It means someone has accidentally or deliberately prevented you from having a shag. For example, you've arranged a meet on here, are all ready to go, and you get a phone call from a mate desperately needing a lift somewhere. They've just box blocked you, the cads.

So anyone using that phrase on this site is using it wrong.

So .... "

So, as Nicecouple stated above, they're talking bollocks, and you should ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a jealous woman or women spreading their hate to oust or curtail another fabbers experience. Some use their hidden/secondary profile to do it so as not to arouse suspicion others are just more direct. Usually done by established ones who have influence by men at their beck and call. Fanny blocking is also common.

Don't worry about it. It only effects those who aren't fussy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I might add that most sensible people ignore rumours and prefer to draw their own conclusions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if there is someone bad mouthing me ... good luck.... "

That's all it is... but contacting men influencing them not to chat with you. I've a friend who is having this done to her and it may be the same cock blocker. It's a hater. Ignore and continue being yourself.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Rumours

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Rumours "

Good album.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a jealous woman or women spreading their hate to oust or curtail another fabbers experience. Some use their hidden/secondary profile to do it so as not to arouse suspicion others are just more direct. Usually done by established ones who have influence by men at their beck and call. Fanny blocking is also common.

Don't worry about it. It only effects those who aren't fussy.

"

Secondary profile ???

What the....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the comments.

I don't care who or what is being said about me. I will do what I do in real life .... carry on as before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy Honey. Ignore them.

PTU XXX

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Well if there is someone bad mouthing me ... good luck....

That's all it is... but contacting men influencing them not to chat with you. I've a friend who is having this done to her and it may be the same cock blocker. It's a hater. Ignore and continue being yourself."

Yes, I think it happens a lot more than we realise.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"It's a jealous woman or women spreading their hate to oust or curtail another fabbers experience. Some use their hidden/secondary profile to do it so as not to arouse suspicion others are just more direct. Usually done by established ones who have influence by men at their beck and call. Fanny blocking is also common.

Don't worry about it. It only effects those who aren't fussy.

"

Yeap! I've had this happen to me on a few occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm stunned people will actually go to those lengths....

How sad!

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if there is someone bad mouthing me ... good luck....

That's all it is... but contacting men influencing them not to chat with you. I've a friend who is having this done to her and it may be the same cock blocker. It's a hater. Ignore and continue being yourself.

Yes, I think it happens a lot more than we realise. "

Sad individuals with sad lives who have nothing better to do

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Someone is stirring a pot.

Don't believe everything you hear on the net, some people make up stories.Take no notice is my advice as you can't change what people do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone is stirring a pot.

Don't believe everything you hear on the net, some people make up stories.Take no notice is my advice as you can't change what people do."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a follow fabber. That I might possibly be "cockblocked". Ooookay...What does that mean exactly ?? That someones put a block on fabbers texting me ?? Someone bad mouthing me ??

"

Best thing to do is to ignore. Been in the same situation and confronting the person is not a good idea. Let him/her spend their life badmouthing, it's a second nature for some people

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"From a follow fabber. That I might possibly be "cockblocked". Ooookay...What does that mean exactly ?? That someones put a block on fabbers texting me ?? Someone bad mouthing me ??

"

Maybe going through a dry spell? It happens to the best of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a follow fabber. That I might possibly be "cockblocked". Ooookay...What does that mean exactly ?? That someones put a block on fabbers texting me ?? Someone bad mouthing me ??

Best thing to do is to ignore. Been in the same situation and confronting the person is not a good idea. Let him/her spend their life badmouthing, it's a second nature for some people "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If it's said online, eg messages, report them to admin.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

That would explain why I never get messages from women, my cock is blocked from entering them

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Rumours

Good album."

Never heard of it sorry

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"That would explain why I never get messages from women, my cock is blocked from entering them "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Rumours

Good album.

Never heard of it sorry "

Fleetwood Mac.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Rumours

Good album.

Never heard of it sorry

Fleetwood Mac."

oh not my thing although i did security for them once at a concert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of stirrers writing shit on here

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If someone doesnt want to meet me based on someone gossiping about me if be thankfuk.

I like to meet intelligent men capable of making their own minds up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely sounds like someone stirring it. I have a male friend who used to cock block me. He didn't even realise he did it until it was pointed out. No malice intented on his part.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Definitely sounds like someone stirring it. I have a male friend who used to cock block me. He didn't even realise he did it until it was pointed out. No malice intented on his part."
what does it mean then. Ive never heard of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely sounds like someone stirring it. I have a male friend who used to cock block me. He didn't even realise he did it until it was pointed out. No malice intented on his part.what does it mean then. Ive never heard of it"

They basically stop you coping off with their actions. For example we would be out and a guy would try and chat me up. My friend would then put his arm round me, sort of claiming teritory, that wasnt his (we are just friends), other bloke gives up cos thinks I'm taken.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Definitely sounds like someone stirring it. I have a male friend who used to cock block me. He didn't even realise he did it until it was pointed out. No malice intented on his part.what does it mean then. Ive never heard of it

They basically stop you coping off with their actions. For example we would be out and a guy would try and chat me up. My friend would then put his arm round me, sort of claiming teritory, that wasnt his (we are just friends), other bloke gives up cos thinks I'm taken."
oh thanks. Ive never heard the phrase before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely sounds like someone stirring it. I have a male friend who used to cock block me. He didn't even realise he did it until it was pointed out. No malice intented on his part.what does it mean then. Ive never heard of it

They basically stop you coping off with their actions. For example we would be out and a guy would try and chat me up. My friend would then put his arm round me, sort of claiming teritory, that wasnt his (we are just friends), other bloke gives up cos thinks I'm taken.oh thanks. Ive never heard the phrase before"

No problem. Neither had he until I said 'oiii stop cockblocking mate!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a lot of cockblocking in clubs...the selfish twats!! Blocking potential shaggers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone is stirring a pot.

Don't believe everything you hear on the net, some people make up stories.Take no notice is my advice as you can't change what people do."

Unfortunately pot stirrers rarely get punished, there's been a spate of recent incidents of this topic and a few ladies involved giving response in just a thumbs up to a Cockblocking stirring comment... the comment got removed but the lady stirrers still sit back and stir without reproach. It'shad not to take 'no' notice wwhen it then effects the persons presence on the forum in such a negative way.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Someone is stirring a pot.

Don't believe everything you hear on the net, some people make up stories.Take no notice is my advice as you can't change what people do.

Unfortunately pot stirrers rarely get punished, there's been a spate of recent incidents of this topic and a few ladies involved giving response in just a thumbs up to a Cockblocking stirring comment... the comment got removed but the lady stirrers still sit back and stir without reproach. It'shad not to take 'no' notice wwhen it then effects the persons presence on the forum in such a negative way."

I didn't say take no notice of comments on the forum. I answered the OP and assumed it was shit stirring in mails to which I gave my personal opinion of take no notice of the shit stirrers as you can't stop people lying or being vindictive .... although if it is a vendetta type thing you can report it and Admin will check it out.

Now from a mods point of view, if you see posts on the forum that you think break rules, report it if a mod has missed it and it will be looked at. If you don't agree with what happens on the forum it is best to stick within those same rules and send your feedback to Admin from the CONTACT button rather then on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone is stirring a pot.

Don't believe everything you hear on the net, some people make up stories.Take no notice is my advice as you can't change what people do.

Unfortunately pot stirrers rarely get punished, there's been a spate of recent incidents of this topic and a few ladies involved giving response in just a thumbs up to a Cockblocking stirring comment... the comment got removed but the lady stirrers still sit back and stir without reproach. It'shad not to take 'no' notice wwhen it then effects the persons presence on the forum in such a negative way.

I didn't say take no notice of comments on the forum. I answered the OP and assumed it was shit stirring in mails to which I gave my personal opinion of take no notice of the shit stirrers as you can't stop people lying or being vindictive .... although if it is a vendetta type thing you can report it and Admin will check it out.

Now from a mods point of view, if you see posts on the forum that you think break rules, report it if a mod has missed it and it will be looked at. If you don't agree with what happens on the forum it is best to stick within those same rules and send your feedback to Admin from the CONTACT button rather then on the forum."

Thank you. Good helpful and clear advice.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'm stunned people will actually go to those lengths....

How sad!

X "

It is sad, but nothing new in here I'm afraid, 'lamp post pissing' is another favourite term

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Cock blocking"

When one bloke is about to pull and his mate swoops in and takes it instead.

The mate cockblocked the orignal bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always someone on here with an axe to grind or who has isdues with someone elsr usually caused by the gossip mingers the ill willed or those who simply wish to cause others pain.

Life is too short to worth about the haters the malicious those with hidden agendas.

Ignore it many here who have bad intentions enjoy spreading misery to make up for deficiencies in their own lives.

It's your life live it your way...thats all any of is can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez...so many typos... must get a bigger keypad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it as women telling men, if you go anywhere near her you won't be fucking me any more. If that is the case, I wouldn't want to meet a sop like that anyway.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm stunned people will actually go to those lengths....

How sad!

X "

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see it as women telling men, if you go anywhere near her you won't be fucking me any more. If that is the case, I wouldn't want to meet a sop like that anyway. "

That's what I am thinking.

They are welcome to eachother then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see it as women telling men, if you go anywhere near her you won't be fucking me any more. If that is the case, I wouldn't want to meet a sop like that anyway.

That's what I am thinking.

They are welcome to eachother then. "

It's happening quite a bit over our way now...slowly killing things for many unfortunately. Best to be very selective and avoid alot for the time being.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see it as women telling men, if you go anywhere near her you won't be fucking me any more. If that is the case, I wouldn't want to meet a sop like that anyway.

That's what I am thinking.

They are welcome to eachother then.

It's happening quite a bit over our way now...slowly killing things for many unfortunately. Best to be very selective and avoid alot for the time being."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a super clique in the community unfortunately....

Who get there kiks in....

But hey ho just carry on

Lalalala...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me. In fact, happening now

Obviously jealous pahahaha * sticks the middle finger up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's happened to me. In fact, happening now

Obviously jealous pahahaha * sticks the middle finger up"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get men saying they know who I am, and they will 'out me' in public, next time they see me in town. Just angry men who can't accept a 'polite no thank you'. Smile/delete/forget "

I had that on my singles profile...He said he knew me, had seen me with my kids etc knew where i lived, what bus i took.... When I questioned him with basic things that he'd know, he couldn't answer... Simple stuff like hair colour...He was wrong... It wasn't a hair colour you'd forget either....It was purple. Far too many weirdos on here.

Out us... Our faces are on here... Dgaf

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And these kik groups are just encouraging it more as this is what happened in my case, if you want to bully iin secrecy be brave enough do it in public as well, but we know it will never happen #smallmindedjealouepeople grow a pair

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