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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He's being a bell end again. Acting like a kid that doesn't know what to do and forgets how to treat people as he'd expect to be treated. He has hurt me again with his carelessness, torn me inside to peices. I can't imagine swinging without him and I fear loosing him as a friend 1stly. He's got me where he wants me and I'm scared to walk away.

I want to rip his head off and give it a wobble and put it back on and see the sense filter through.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Easy for an outsider to say but it's time to cut him lose if he keeps doing this

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Oh and on Fab, you can find new FWBs, don't limit yourself to one as that can lead to feelings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very sound advice, thanx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The key word here is friend. Is he behaving like one? Why are you putting up with it if he isn't?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sorry but hes a fwb not a husband.

You should of cut ties the first time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm walking away now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm walking away now "

33 years old

Bi-curious

5'3" 160cm

Slim

You'll be just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the other posters, it's best to walk away. It may hurt for a while, don't let it get you down. There are loads of opportunities on here.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *lwaysreay9Man
over a year ago

Next to you

He's playing with your emotions, that's not a friend that's a bully!! Move on Hun !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look to the future. Don't look behind you while trying to move forward . That's how people trip up

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

Don't look back just go away, save your threats for another day. I gave it all for a glimmer of hope, I showed you love now I'm your joke.

One more time I'm left broken,

One more time words unspoken,

One more time emptiness inside,

One more time I'm left living in a lie.

Wasted time is all I have left, the broken promises I kept. Oblivious to you, oblivious to me you can't handle reality.

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By *ascade35Man
over a year ago

Alnwick


"Don't look back just go away, save your threats for another day. I gave it all for a glimmer of hope, I showed you love now I'm your joke.

One more time I'm left broken,

One more time words unspoken,

One more time emptiness inside,

One more time I'm left living in a lie.

Wasted time is all I have left, the broken promises I kept. Oblivious to you, oblivious to me you can't handle reality.

"

That's is brilliant!! Can I steal it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's being a bell end again. "

Just the first 6 words of your post are enough to make it obvious what you should do

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

exactly what I did.....hurts but had to be done how many times can you give somebody a chance......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a fwb couple walking away seems the best option for us it's all about the laughs and giggles that we have got us together and if that stops then we'll know it's time too end things ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a fwb couple walking away seems the best option for us it's all about the laughs and giggles that we have got us together and if that stops then we'll know it's time too end things ?

"

Exactly. To quote the betting ads:

When the fun stops, stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard but there's loads of men who will help you get over him. When there's drama and hurt from a fwb then it's not worth it. It's suppose to be fun. . .move on Plenty of other men out there to enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would a nice full body massage and a bottle of wine help you get over it?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•


"Don't look back just go away, save your threats for another day. I gave it all for a glimmer of hope, I showed you love now I'm your joke.

One more time I'm left broken,

One more time words unspoken,

One more time emptiness inside,

One more time I'm left living in a lie.

Wasted time is all I have left, the broken promises I kept. Oblivious to you, oblivious to me you can't handle reality.

That's is brilliant!! Can I steal it?"

yeah you can, i nicked it from a song.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone who was a fwb. Until. He screwed me over. I lost respect for him. Discussed by text the next day. Aired my views. Moved on.

For me at the time the respect ends I'm done. He had a I don't answer to anyone attitude about what happened.

To this day he keeps checking profile, winking, asking to meet to explain.

There's no explanation, you stood by your actions. I didn't' respect you then. Now some months later. That explanation counts as much as the joy I get picking shit up after my dog.

But. I'm quite quick at dusting off feelings if someone treats me bad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't look back just go away, save your threats for another day. I gave it all for a glimmer of hope, I showed you love now I'm your joke.

One more time I'm left broken,

One more time words unspoken,

One more time emptiness inside,

One more time I'm left living in a lie.

Wasted time is all I have left, the broken promises I kept. Oblivious to you, oblivious to me you can't handle reality.

That's is brilliant!! Can I steal it?"

It could be already "stolen"

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sounds like a lot of hassle for a friend with benefits

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Sounds like the with benefits but not much of a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a bit like my former FWB. I am so much happier since I told him to fuck off when he wanted to stay as "friends forever by chat" after he got a GF and became unavailable for sexual purposes.

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust


"Don't look back just go away, save your threats for another day. I gave it all for a glimmer of hope, I showed you love now I'm your joke.

One more time I'm left broken,

One more time words unspoken,

One more time emptiness inside,

One more time I'm left living in a lie.

Wasted time is all I have left, the broken promises I kept. Oblivious to you, oblivious to me you can't handle reality.

"
so true

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Well as she's left the site it looks like this problem maybe solved!

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