FabSwingers.com forum: Rate my profile please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi beautiful people I've just tried rewriting my profile as I haven't been getting much luck. Would really appreciate some advice?

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

I like it and your pics are good too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow really? Thank you lol no need for improvement thn? Apart from some exercise on my part of course lol

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Very scary pictures almost Halloween theme plus you have used the 'f' word in the status which would put me off. It needs much improvement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In what way are my pics halloween themed?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Scary died beard.....she says shuddering.

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I like it and your pics are good too.

bfg1983

You've got yourself a date.......lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like it and your pics are good too.

bfg1983

You've got yourself a date.......lol"

I wish I was that lucky

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Not keen on the pics and can never be bothered to read one sentence profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Scary died beard.....she says shuddering. "

What's so scary about it? I dye it regularly. I got no hair on the top of my head so might as well have fun with the hair on my face. The same thing you do with your nails lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rate my profile pm me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not keen on the pics and can never be bothered to read one sentence profiles."

One sentence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile shows us who you are. It honest. To the point and pretty friendly.

I like it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Not keen on the pics and can never be bothered to read one sentence profiles.

One sentence?"

No paragraphs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think your profile shows us who you are. It honest. To the point and pretty friendly.

I like it.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not keen on the pics and can never be bothered to read one sentence profiles.

One sentence?

No paragraphs

But it's a paragraph with at least 4 sentences in. I put full stops in and everything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so meybey I have not got it right?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Not keen on the pics and can never be bothered to read one sentence profiles.

One sentence?

No paragraphs

But it's a paragraph with at least 4 sentences in. I put full stops in and everything lol"

You're right, maybe I'm just getting too old

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Scary died beard.....she says shuddering.

What's so scary about it? I dye it regularly. I got no hair on the top of my head so might as well have fun with the hair on my face. The same thing you do with your nails lol"

I do not 'dye' my nails, why are you criticising me? You asked our advice re your profile. Died beards are not something I like so I would not be interested in you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Scary died beard.....she says shuddering.

What's so scary about it? I dye it regularly. I got no hair on the top of my head so might as well have fun with the hair on my face. The same thing you do with your nails lol

I do not 'dye' my nails, why are you criticising me? You asked our advice re your profile. Died beards are not something I like so I would not be interested in you. "

I wasn't criticising you at all! I was trying to get the point across that I dye my beard for the fun of it. The same reason you do your nails up like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally it started well then got a little crass about oral. Also not everyone likes terms such as bbw. Other than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok but you need body pics on here as well in my opinion.

I'm not a fan of the term bbw either and it makes me cringe when people say they're more up for fun and giggles.

The size of a person doesn't define their personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's ok but you need body pics on here as well in my opinion.

I'm not a fan of the term bbw either and it makes me cringe when people say they're more up for fun and giggles.

The size of a person doesn't define their personality

It's just been my experience that's all. I did originally say curvy women but then I was advised to put bbw. What would you advise me to put? I appreciate you taking the time out to comment

thank you x

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"It's ok but you need body pics on here as well in my opinion.

I'm not a fan of the term bbw either and it makes me cringe when people say they're more up for fun and giggles.

The size of a person doesn't define their personality

My exact same thoughts.

Your 2 face pictures plus face avatar show no (average) body, plus they do look kind of 'scary'

No idea what a 'bbws' is, and why is a certain body type more fun? I gave up reading your profile when I got to that part. Otherwise it was a friendly profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's ok but you need body pics on here as well in my opinion.

I'm not a fan of the term bbw either and it makes me cringe when people say they're more up for fun and giggles.

The size of a person doesn't define their personality

My exact same thoughts.

Your 2 face pictures plus face avatar show no (average) body, plus they do look kind of 'scary'

No idea what a 'bbws' is, and why is a certain body type more fun? I gave up reading your profile when I got to that part. Otherwise it was a friendly profile. "

Like I said it is literally just my experience that's all. I've uploaded more photos. Hopefully they're a bit better.

Again thank you for all comments I appreciate your advice

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Scary died beard.....she says shuddering.

What's so scary about it? I dye it regularly. I got no hair on the top of my head so might as well have fun with the hair on my face. The same thing you do with your nails lol

I do not 'dye' my nails, why are you criticising me? You asked our advice re your profile. Died beards are not something I like so I would not be interested in you.

I wasn't criticising you at all! I was trying to get the point across that I dye my beard for the fun of it. The same reason you do your nails up like that. "

I do not DO UP MY NAILS for fun! I am feminine and maintain my nails in a decorative way, it's nothing to do with FUN! My pictures or details is not up for discussion on this forum. I also don't like 'bbw' 'big beautiful woman'. Why are you labelling women because of our size? Would you call a thin woman 'tbw' 'thin beautiful woman'? What's up with you?!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Scary died beard.....she says shuddering.

What's so scary about it? I dye it regularly. I got no hair on the top of my head so might as well have fun with the hair on my face. The same thing you do with your nails lol

I do not 'dye' my nails, why are you criticising me? You asked our advice re your profile. Died beards are not something I like so I would not be interested in you.

I wasn't criticising you at all! I was trying to get the point across that I dye my beard for the fun of it. The same reason you do your nails up like that.

Right ok so you don't enjoy decorating your nails thn? And I didn't come up with the term bbw I just use it so get off your high horse and chill out!

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

Picture 2 with the camera flash needs to be binned, wasn't till I enlarged it realised it was you! Some body shots as others have said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Picture 2 with the camera flash needs to be binned, wasn't till I enlarged it realised it was you! Some body shots as others have said. "

Thank you

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Scary died beard.....she says shuddering.

What's so scary about it? I dye it regularly. I got no hair on the top of my head so might as well have fun with the hair on my face. The same thing you do with your nails lol

I do not 'dye' my nails, why are you criticising me? You asked our advice re your profile. Died beards are not something I like so I would not be interested in you.

I wasn't criticising you at all! I was trying to get the point across that I dye my beard for the fun of it. The same reason you do your nails up like that.

Right ok so you don't enjoy decorating your nails thn? And I didn't come up with the term bbw I just use it so get off your high horse and chill out! "

I am somewhat baffled why you compare my beautiful nails to your scary beard!!

You are using the term 'bbw' which is labelling women and feedback here is telling you that women aren't keen on the term.

If you don't want to be challenged on the forum by members I suggest you do not post questions here.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Loose the beard luv, it makes you look scary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loose the beard luv, it makes you look scary. "

I will but at the moment I'm growing it for charity. Only an inch more to go and I will have raised over £1000 for cancer appeal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loose the beard luv, it makes you look scary. "

But you have a beard in your picture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi beautiful people I've just tried rewriting my profile as I haven't been getting much luck. Would really appreciate some advice?"

It's going to appeal to different demographics, and you're going to need to factor that in. For example, some larger ladies like the bbw tag, and some prefer "curvy".

It's very focused on what you want, and it reads as quite honest, which is really good, as you're not beating around the bush .

Take the advice of the people you find attractive and up your street .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi beautiful people I've just tried rewriting my profile as I haven't been getting much luck. Would really appreciate some advice?

It's going to appeal to different demographics, and you're going to need to factor that in. For example, some larger ladies like the bbw tag, and some prefer "curvy".

It's very focused on what you want, and it reads as quite honest, which is really good, as you're not beating around the bush .

Take the advice of the people you find attractive and up your street ."

I didn't want to upset or insult anybody I just wanted an overall opinion of my profile. Thank you

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Loose the beard luv, it makes you look scary.

But you have a beard in your picture?"

But..he's not asked for profile advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scary died beard.....she says shuddering.

What's so scary about it? I dye it regularly. I got no hair on the top of my head so might as well have fun with the hair on my face. The same thing you do with your nails lol

I do not 'dye' my nails, why are you criticising me? You asked our advice re your profile. Died beards are not something I like so I would not be interested in you.

I wasn't criticising you at all! I was trying to get the point across that I dye my beard for the fun of it. The same reason you do your nails up like that. "

Why are you even arguing back!? You do what you want with your beard!

*dyed btw...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good evening big man.

The pics are natural and honest. You write in a non aggressive way which I warm to.

I would also get rid of the F word in your heading though....it would put me off as well and I probably wouldnt read any further .

Good luck !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi beautiful people I've just tried rewriting my profile as I haven't been getting much luck. Would really appreciate some advice?

It's going to appeal to different demographics, and you're going to need to factor that in. For example, some larger ladies like the bbw tag, and some prefer "curvy".

It's very focused on what you want, and it reads as quite honest, which is really good, as you're not beating around the bush .

Take the advice of the people you find attractive and up your street .

I didn't want to upset or insult anybody I just wanted an overall opinion of my profile. Thank you"

I don't think you have mate, just saying that it's not n exact science, as it's for the reader to judge if you're the right person for them. Also just pointing out that if you aim to please the people who are your type, you can ignore the rest. You can't please everyone through and there is not point in trying, so asking for advice can be gruelling.

You're doing fine though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi beautiful people I've just tried rewriting my profile as I haven't been getting much luck. Would really appreciate some advice?

It's going to appeal to different demographics, and you're going to need to factor that in. For example, some larger ladies like the bbw tag, and some prefer "curvy".

It's very focused on what you want, and it reads as quite honest, which is really good, as you're not beating around the bush .

Take the advice of the people you find attractive and up your street .

I didn't want to upset or insult anybody I just wanted an overall opinion of my profile. Thank you

You're doing fine though. "

Thank you

it's nice to have some decent feedback instead of just nitpicking. I appreciate it xx

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Think this has run its course now....lots of feedback has been given, maybe OP will heed this advice or he may not. Good luck finding what you want on here!!!

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

I don't think it's fair to criticise because he dyes his beard, lots of people enhance their hair/beards/nails/bodies with colour - if it's not for you find, but to criticise on that is quite insulting.

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

Do whatever your want with your beard, but make the photos face photos consistent..all on thinking is "well which is it? What do you look like now?"

And it maybe your personal experience that bbw are more fun, but how are you doing yourself any favours by getting anyone who isn't all insulted and/or defensive. You are just alienating every other body type: trust me, now one is going to offer to meet you to prove you wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rate mine please? Thanks x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Loose the beard luv, it makes you look scary.

But you have a beard in your picture?"

I see the irony isn't lost on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rate mine please? Thanks x

Zero. I haven't looked, but you're hijacking so you deserve it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What? I dont know what going on I'm new. Hijacking? Zero? Ah cheers xxx

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"What? I dont know what going on I'm new. Hijacking? Zero? Ah cheers xxx "

Hijacking a post that isn't yours, best to start a new thread of your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rate mine please? Thanks x

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked for a profile review not a personal critique

Not for us BUT your profile is well written with pics that show your face..

All looks good to me

Mr Badcherry

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Very positive and upbeat, a refreshing change. I think your personality shines through. Good luck to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanx guys I know I'm not to everyone's taste but I'm glad that I've presented myself well enough xx

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Thanx guys I know I'm not to everyone's taste but I'm glad that I've presented myself well enough xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good evening everyone, could people be so kind to advice on my profile page, if it sounds ok and looks ok? Thank you

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

"Picture 2 with the camera flash needs to be binned, wasn't till I enlarged it realised it was you! Some body shots as others have said.

Thank you

Why ask for advice if you do nothing about it?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"Picture 2 with the camera flash needs to be binned, wasn't till I enlarged it realised it was you! Some body shots as others have said.

Thank you

Why ask for advice if you do nothing about it?"

attention seeking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Picture 2 with the camera flash needs to be binned, wasn't till I enlarged it realised it was you! Some body shots as others have said.

Thank you

Why ask for advice if you do nothing about it?

attention seeking"

Actually my camera is broke on my phone so I can't take another just yet and I just haven't gotten round to taking that photo off yet. I'm not attention seeking at all. I'm genuinly asking people for advice and I have followed quite alot of that advice by editing my profile and putting up more pics that I already had saved on my phone

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