FabSwingers.com forum: abit of help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hey would any one be able to give me abit of advice, i dont seem to get a lot of mail if any at all. been here a while and just wondered if im doing anything wrong?

cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is a virtue that you will need on this or any site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

barrow is also a bit out of the way geographically and isn't an area of high population

so maybe both those are factors in why you don't get high volumes of mail ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hey would any one be able to give me abit of advice, i dont seem to get a lot of mail if any at all. been here a while and just wondered if im doing anything wrong?

cheers"

Do you send messages or do you wait for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a quick peak at your profile: personally, I'd have stopped reading at the heading!

You've not set an age criteria, just check you're messaging people looking for your age group.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i send mail yeah, and i was thinking its coz of the location 2, i havent set a gae coz im not really bothered by age its if we i get on with the person and like em,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i send mail yeah, and i was thinking its coz of the location 2, i havent set a gae coz im not really bothered by age its if we i get on with the person and like em,"

you seem to have an extensive(ish) friends list

would it not be possible to move on to the next level with some of the people on there ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

people just ask if they can add me and i dont why not so i just add them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i send mail yeah, and i was thinking its coz of the location 2, i havent set a gae coz im not really bothered by age its if we i get on with the person and like em,"

Ok, make sure you match the criteria (usually age) of the profiles you send a message to... make the message personal and free from smut! (hardly anyone will respond to messages from people that haven't bothered to read their profile properly).

The title on your profile is off-putting! Your profile does read quite well but saying you are looking for someone that 'gives good head' maybe losing you a few fans.

Do adjust your age preferences... seriously.. would a 99yr old woman appeal to you?

Try and get yourself off to social events to get yourself known.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people just ask if they can add me and i dont why not so i just add them

Pic collectors! There's a fair few on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

there we go i changed them few things is that better??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people just ask if they can add me and i dont why not so i just add them

coz ur young, not bad looking and got a decent cock on ya

u should perhaps be more discriminatory as to who you accept as friends to get the best out of the site ?

the ones you would like to meet, strike up some conversation and see where it leads.

patience is king though.

maybe look out for people who are holidaying in the south lakes and arrange to meet up up for drinks when they are in the area ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there we go i changed them few things is that better??

Definitely!

It's so refreshing for a guy to ask advice, listen to the advice and then to act on it!

One last bit of advice! Stick around in the forums... post and get yourself noticed on here. It works for a lot of the gents lol x

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

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"hey would any one be able to give me abit of advice, i dont seem to get a lot of mail if any at all. been here a while and just wondered if im doing anything wrong?

cheers"

You probably arent doing anything wrong - that's just the way things are here.

You'll be doing well to get 1 reply for every 20 emails sent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cheers for the advice guys and i will stick around in the forums then

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