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By *iscreet Swingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dundee

Hello. My husband and I currently use WhatsApp to chat with friends and family. We also use this from time to time to chat with lifestyle friend, however we would like to use a seperate messaging app for swinging chat in order to avoid the dreaded "whoops I've just sent a pic of my tits to my work collesgue" lol.

Do swingers have a preferred messaging app ? I've heard a lot of folk mention KiK ? All advice appreciated. X

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm

I would say Kik as its really easy to use and it's what most people seem to have, I used what's app when I first joined but didn't like always giving out my number and was asked a few times if I had kik so I got it, all you do is create a username and people add you. I have recently also got Skype but don't use it as much. Some people on here don't use either and won't speak to people who even ask about it but we are all different I would say give it a go and see what you think ? If you don't like you just deleted it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like using kik because I don't have to worry about giving out my number or anything.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

bakewell


"I like using kik because I don't have to worry about giving out my number or anything."

Exactly this. No number just a username. Really good msging app is kik. Can send pics vids and live vids. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kik all the way. No numbers need to be exchanged. U can mute the conversation and block if need be. Dreamcatcher Xx

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Yep kik here too as no number needed can send pics and vids too xx

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Kik all the way. No numbers need to be exchanged. U can mute the conversation and block if need be. Dreamcatcher Xx "

This.

No way your non lifestyle friends would be connected to you.

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By *iscreet Swingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dundee

Cheers folks. Thanks for the replies. Looks like we'll be giving KiK a go. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kik all the way. No numbers need to be exchanged. U can mute the conversation and block if need be. Dreamcatcher Xx

This.

No way your non lifestyle friends would be connected to you. "

Exactly. WhatsApp for friends and family etc, Kik for sex

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i prefer on here. i don't like being accessed if i'm busy studying and when i'm finished i'll forget someone has messages me (if i even notice in the first place lol).

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

Just to be contrary, I use Telegram.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to be contrary, I use Telegram. "

Carrier pigeon maybe? Dreamcatcher Xx

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Hello. My husband and I currently use WhatsApp to chat with friends and family. We also use this from time to time to chat with lifestyle friend, however we would like to use a seperate messaging app for swinging chat in order to avoid the dreaded "whoops I've just sent a pic of my tits to my work collesgue" lol.

Do swingers have a preferred messaging app ? I've heard a lot of folk mention KiK ? All advice appreciated. X"

As a couple we both have single profiles also. When i created mine i realised giving them Mr WD's number was not appropriate so i got KIK, i love it purely because i don't have to give my number out to potential weirdo's. That and like yourself there is no danger of two lives mixing with embarassing consequences....

Try it, if you don't like it then uninstall it. Nothing ventured, nothing lost

Mrs WD40

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I also use the K one, no need to give a number and can block guys who turn out to not be what they seem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start with here, then move to Kik and if they don't seem nuts then move to WhatsApp lol

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

I think the issue here is not anonymity... The OP has selected and opted to give these friends and lifestyle friend their number. Using kik, may protect your number, but the issue here is not her number. I would suggest you create another whatsapp group separate from your friends, and exchange your pics, etc. or get a different phone that you use for your shenanigans.

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By *razyhorse58Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Kik works well

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Definitely Kik as i don't want to give my number out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use kik initially and whatsapp with friends who I know better

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By *iscreet Swingers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dundee

KIK installed and working well. Hurrah. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always start here, then if people don't like to give number out move to kik and when all are comfortable with each other whatsapp then bobs your uncle fannies your aunt

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Kik all the way for a good chat, exchange of pics/vids.... Tend to keep most kinky meets on Kik too tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use Kik too. It keeps it separate from family and friends and means we don't have to give out our numbers.

K x

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By *_and_J99Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

In case the internet goes goes and we can't use kik or what's app we go with an Aboriginal ‘bullroarer’

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By *_and_J99Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

How many of you are going to Google what it is?

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By *ackdaniels2016Man
over a year ago

Yarm

Maybe us lot should create a group ? jackdaniels2015 lets get the party started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kik all the way. No numbers need to be exchanged. U can mute the conversation and block if need be. Dreamcatcher Xx

This.

No way your non lifestyle friends would be connected to you.

Totally agree kik for sex!

Exactly. WhatsApp for friends and family etc, Kik for sex "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In case the internet goes goes and we can't use kik or what's app we go with an Aboriginal ‘bullroarer’

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Is that the plank on a wire thing in crocodile Dundee?

Agree with all above. WhatsApp for friends and Kik for sex....

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By *he Ant Hill MobMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Where do I find this KIK app thing please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the internet my kik Ashy2204

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe us lot should create a group ? jackdaniels2015 lets get the party started "

Ashy2204 here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like using kik because I don't have to worry about giving out my number or anything."

This.....I'm quite happy to give my kik out....especially to you Rach!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Maybe us lot should create a group ? jackdaniels2015 lets get the party started "

Fab discourages advertisement of Kik groups due to the ability of people using it to scam others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do I find this KIK app thing please? "

Google play store. Apple app shop..... it's easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kik or snapchat

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

Also... when setting up your kik, please take my advice:

1. When it asks for your name etc. Use your alias or initials whatever you Ike but don't use your full name because this comes up to people you are chatting with so if you want to remain private I wouldn't suggest inputting your real identity.

2. Pick a username that is different slightly to your fab name because we've had people randomly add us who have said they searched us from fab because of the same username so we had to change this.

3. Don't have your profile picture as a face pic. I learnt this when we had our fab username as our kik and people searched us and then they saw my face pic.

4. You will need two different usernames if chatting as a couple.

Inknow some of these things are obvious but it may help others in future.

Good luck and may your kik-ing lead to f*k-ing

Blondie

XxX

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Kik for us too, mainly because of the ability to have three or four way conversation.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kik all the way it's stops the blackmilers finding you on facebook

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

I used to use kik, but found because i wasn't giving my number, I'd chat more to people that i wouldn't have if I was giving my number...

I use WhatsApp precisely because it's my number... It makes me 100% more cautious than i was becoming when using kik

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

whatsapp, hate it when people say kik, just to install it again as i dont keep it on my phone as never use it unless people ask on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've use both. I like kik because you don't need to exchange telephone numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have kik for those who are number shy - whatsapp or plain old texting for anybody else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kik all the way it's stops the blackmilers finding you on facebook "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kik is good also Wickr is more discrete as it anonymous (just choose a username like kik) but also deletes everything after 24 hours so there is no trail, downside is if you have a shit memory you can't go back and heck what you have talked about two days ago

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