FabSwingers.com forum: Kik

By *aughty_nymph OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Ok so ladies, this can't just be me this happens to?!

Talking to someone on kik (or any other messaging app), it's going well... then the person drops off the face of the earth... then 2/3 months later they message out the blue expecting things to be as they were like nothing happened (or send no message at all and just a dick pic!)

Men, can I ask why some people do this?!

I am aware both sexes may well be guilty of this and people are within their rights to not be interested in a meet any more so going quiet is logical, but to message out the blue again seems a bit weird does it not?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never done this. Id be honest and say, that cant chat anymore for what ever reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this happen to me a lot, normally " couples" when we are starting to talk about meeting

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I always feel if i message too often they get annoyed with me.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"Ok so ladies, this can't just be me this happens to?!

Men, can I ask why some people do this?!

We have this a lot with ladies .. so I don't accept new people on it anymore. .talk on here or not at all.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I always feel if i message too often they get annoyed with me."

Also if i send a couple of messages that aren't replied to I'll delete the chat and just wait to see if they want contact or not.

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton

Not so much Kik because I rarely use it now but there are a couple of guys who send me random texts every so often. One, it never worked out and the other, I slept with once in 2015 and then he found love in his life and had to leave Fab.

I'm the same as you OP, it isn't going to restart where it left off. I don't know why they think it's going to get anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes happens a lot speak then silence then message out of the blue weeks or months later. Very strange

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By *aughty_nymph OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

It's the unprovoked dick pics that get me!! Haha!

It's almost like they're hoping you reply with "wow I want that dick right now....despite the fact you were a dick and blanked me, I don't care.... I want you in me!"

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Yep it happens and most of the time its with guys who are attached but make out they're single and have to keep a low profile in the home environment. Most likely too many questions being asked. Normal excuse is they've been really busy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had this a few times,both on kik and on here, either with couples been planning to meet or ladies. On reflection I'm 99% sure the single ladies were in fact blokes.

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

yep had the same happen to me by a couple of ladies(so not just guys) chat they send pics then nothing for months very strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do this, if I have to go offline for a while I will say so and then give the reason.

The issue i have is the unread messages. I do understand people are busy and get a over friendly amount of attention. But it does get annoying at times to see a list of unanswered messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously trying their chances after having a dry spot. Fuck knows why they think it'd work like that. I don't ever not reply back though. I only really give my Kik out to friends or people I've met a few times.

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By *lue9753Man
over a year ago

Oldham

I think they are feeling a bit lonley with their partner n either do it for a bit of ego building or they make up with thier partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't do this, if I have to go offline for a while I will say so and then give the reason.

The issue i have is the unread messages. I do understand people are busy and get a over friendly amount of attention. But it does get annoying at times to see a list of unanswered messages."

Sod em and message someone else. That's the beauty of this site.

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By *atie ShayTV/TS
over a year ago

"Have had this a few times,both on kik and on here, either with couples been planning to meet or ladies. On reflection I'm 99% sure the single ladies were in fact blokes."

Yep I've had this, convinced it's pic collectors

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Had this happen to me a lot, normally " couples" when we are starting to talk about meeting

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Have had this a few times,both on kik and on here, either with couples been planning to meet or ladies. On reflection I'm 99% sure the single ladies were in fact blokes.

Yep I've had this, convinced it's pic collectors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol yes this happens to me, especially on KIK. I find newbies trying to deal with the whole aspect of swinging go through this.... always finding their way back to fab. I'll admit I've been on and of fab over the last 3 years. I am staying for sure this time round ........ I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always used to think kik is a waste of time and I won't need it or ever use it.

Well...

I just downloaded it recently and discovered it is good.

I am a newbie with kik so my friend sent me a few things to look at... I love it

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan
over a year ago

Kent

Yup i love it ... i have a good collection of vids on kik from a few fabbers !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup i love it ... i have a good collection of vids on kik from a few fabbers !

Oooooh lucky you!

My friend who is on Fab told me to get on kik so she could send me the same material you mentioned in your post

I refused to get kik for two god damn years! ...

Now I am a kik'er or is it kik'ing or kik'n ...

Oh I don't know the relevant term, but it is great!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Ok so ladies, this can't just be me this happens to?!

Men, can I ask why some people do this?!

We have this a lot with ladies .. so I don't accept new people on it anymore. .talk on here or not at all. "

I second that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had unprovoked wanking videos sent me with no accompanying message! Months after a conversation dried up! What was he thinking he would gain!?

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By *aughty_nymph OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

It's fucking funny isn't it!!!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I've also experienced this, where the person goes quiet on messages, before a verification from someone else pops up in here. Not an issue really, but they might have let me know first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happens on numerous occasions on either this site or kik just day bye instead of being ignorant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this happen to me a few times, when we are starting to talk about meeting, gone like a puff of smoke. Think they just like the chase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, unless dick pics are your thing, I'd say it's a good filter for those guys, walk away from him.

Some people also just don't really understand manners and politeness. If I know I'm going to be offline for a while, or even just want a break, I always politely tell the other person. Then when I come back, it's a simple hello stranger type message.

Some people just don't get politeness, it costs nothing, but failure to display it costs everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so ladies, this can't just be me this happens to?!

Men, can I ask why some people do this?!

it's almost making me think it's the same person ... had this happen exactly as you put it ... I've now deleted kik .. but saying that even the very few people I have on whatsapp had this happen on there too .. pretty much have lost faith in decency in anyone now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to say never had this of guys but have off couples the chat away and then suddenly stop we put it down to one of them we're interested but the other wasn't. We've also had it a lot off single women's profile we put it down to a fake account block and move on lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so ladies, this can't just be me this happens to?!

All the time!

Men, can I ask why some people do this?!

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By *aughty_nymph OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"OP, unless dick pics are your thing, I'd say it's a good filter for those guys, walk away from him.

Some people just don't get politeness, it costs nothing, but failure to display it costs everything."

I do use it as a filter!

If I feel that a connection was built and then them not replying happens, I don't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on here before I remember this happening ! Usually Sunday morning when they had the morning after the night before horn ! I used to think they must send the pics to all their contacts at once and see if anyone bites - hence the lack of message !

I used it as a way of pruning down my contact list and blocking.

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By *aughty_nymph OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

^^^

Exactly lol!

Shows the men who are real swingers against using the site as a hook up site!

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By *weet Delight2016Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere nice

I have stopped messaging on all other apps and stay on Fab now.

Personally I don't see what difference it makes.

Will not be sending any naked pics via app!!

Rant over.

Sorry folks.

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By *weet Delight2016Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere nice

I have stopped messaging on all other apps and stay on Fab now.

Personally I don't see what difference it makes.

Will not be sending any naked pics via app!!

Rant over.

Sorry folks.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"I think they are feeling a bit lonley with their partner n either do it for a bit of ego building or they make up with thier partner "

I had this happen to me chatted for 2 weeks arranged to meet and then for some reason he fell off the running machine at the gym. ...sent me a foot pic that he got from the Internet. ....why do people waste time like that... .saddos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have stopped messaging on all other apps and stay on Fab now.

Personally I don't see what difference it makes.

Will not be sending any naked pics via app!!

Rant over.

Sorry folks."

I agree

its just as quick and easy to message on here as any other app and messages need only be looked out when in " Fab mode" x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting contacted out of the blue? I'm seriously guilty of blocking people if it's not what I'm after at the time, or if I've got a better offer etc. Then unblocking and messaging if I'm free suddenly or have an itch that needs scratching.

I know other people do it to, I met some one, had a coffee went on to play. A few days later, I sent a message, got the 'device off thing' auto reply.

Then a month or so later they got back in touch totally out the blue, and have done a couple of times.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

This has happened to me before a couple of times.

Although once was my fault. I thought she hadn't replied to my message and dropped out. So I am not one to be desperate; if they stopped talking they stopped talking right. I aint going to pester people I am worth more than that. Anyway about a month later looking on kik I notice that it was acactually her who left the last message. Think she thought I stopped talking to her. Technically I did but by accident. What a silly sausage.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

This is not a phenomena reserved for the male of the species. It happens all the time on here with couples and ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup i love it ... i have a good collection of vids on kik from a few fabbers !

Oooooh lucky you!

My friend who is on Fab told me to get on kik so she could send me the same material you mentioned in your post

I refused to get kik for two god damn years! ...

Now I am a kik'er or is it kik'ing or kik'n ...

Oh I don't know the relevant term, but it is great!"

See, told you it was good. Now you can watch my naughty vids

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan
over a year ago

Kent

"Yup i love it ... i have a good collection of vids on kik from a few fabbers !

Oooooh lucky you!

My friend who is on Fab told me to get on kik so she could send me the same material you mentioned in your post

I refused to get kik for two god damn years! ...

Now I am a kik'er or is it kik'ing or kik'n ...

Oh I don't know the relevant term, but it is great!

See, told you it was good. Now you can watch my naughty vids

Oh please share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally I find no it's the women who disappears when all seems to be going well and you hear nothing and then hey how are you after a few months.

Regarding dick pics, I don't send them unless asked, if sure most women would want a face pic of who they are chatting too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup i love it ... i have a good collection of vids on kik from a few fabbers !

Oooooh lucky you!

My friend who is on Fab told me to get on kik so she could send me the same material you mentioned in your post

I refused to get kik for two god damn years! ...

Now I am a kik'er or is it kik'ing or kik'n ...

Oh I don't know the relevant term, but it is great!

See, told you it was good. Now you can watch my naughty vids

Now there's a thought to make your ears prick up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have done this to me before. Usually they have a reason, i.e. they are married.

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By *aughty_nymph OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

If I've gone quiet on someone, it's for good reason... i.e dick pics, inappropriate messages, pestering me to meet. If I go quiet, I won't message again!

Unfortunately people take rejection too hard and as harsh as it is, I can't be bothered to explain why someone's annoyed me I just move on with my life and forget it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is no defence, but sometimes I literally just forget. I'll get a message when in the middle of something, and intend to reply to it later, and a week or so goes by until I think 'bugger, meant to respond'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often find one of two things happens...

Either someone else has your attention or indeed as some people say; married, fanatasist

Or how i feel and strongly at that... Some people just can't communicate or worse communicate with more than one person also monogomy in talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I uninstalled it and stick to whatsap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got to say never had this of guys but have off couples the chat away and then suddenly stop we put it down to one of them we're interested but the other wasn't. We've also had it a lot off single women's profile we put it down to a fake account block and move on lol. "

You've done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use Kik to message before meeting men from here. I found they all, with one exception just wanted something to wank over. I only have 1 contact on there I chat to occasionally.

My phone doesn't notify me when I get a Kik message anyway, apart from the initial ping,so I often miss messages.

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan
over a year ago

Kent

"I don't use Kik to message before meeting men from here. I found they all, with one exception just wanted something to wank over. I only have 1 contact on there I chat to occasionally.

My phone doesn't notify me when I get a Kik message anyway, apart from the initial ping,so I often miss messages."

Yup same ... cant seem to get notified when someone messages so dont know what ive done there on the settings x

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"Yup i love it ... i have a good collection of vids on kik from a few fabbers !

Oooooh lucky you!

My friend who is on Fab told me to get on kik so she could send me the same material you mentioned in your post

I refused to get kik for two god damn years! ...

Now I am a kik'er or is it kik'ing or kik'n ...

Oh I don't know the relevant term, but it is great!

See, told you it was good. Now you can watch my naughty vids

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is that an open invitation? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had bad experiences with kik some of the fakes out there love it. My bad experiences are not hearing "no means no" when demand pics and vids. They send pics without even wanting them sent to me lol x because they have sent them they expect em. Other experiences are non talkers never chat in months etc And scammers love kik mainly with stolen pics

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've had this too and initially thought it was strange, now I realise it's just how some guys roll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had this too and initially thought it was strange, now I realise it's just how some guys roll

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Hence why cba with it anymore its not going on my current phone lol its also annoying if talking to people online all nice and chatty and they keep insisting you go off to install it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People need to get out more Fucking apps...GRRRR

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Had this happen to me a lot, normally " couples" when we are starting to talk about meeting

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Because there's two people to win over and usually one is more up for it than the other,so when meeting is brought up. It goes quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just re installed it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"then the person drops off the face of the earth... then 2/3 months later they message out the blue expecting things to be as they were like nothing happened (or send no message at all and just a dick pic!)

Men, can I ask why some people do this?! "

The thrill of the chase has subsided and then something else catches their attention..

Tactically, guys should really send photos of a winning lottery ticket, guaranteed to get a response.

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By *BOY-L.F.C.Man
over a year ago

dublin

Any bloke who would stop talking to you is nuts!!!!! I'm on kik DBOY747 if you wanna chat there.x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Any bloke who would stop talking to you is nuts!!!!! I'm on kik DBOY747 if you wanna chat there.x"

Ooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have just had this. Been chatting getting on really well for a few weeks. Club meet booked for tomorrow and this morning leaves our Kik chat and Fab. A simple I am not interested anyone more or this isn't for me would have been polite..

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it tends to happen in reverse for me. Enjoying a lovely chat on KIK then all of a sudden absolutely nothing.

Just take it on the chin and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any bloke who would stop talking to you is nuts!!!!! I'm on kik DBOY747 if you wanna chat there.x"

hope you don't mind sitting on the naughty step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually find this quite a joke,

This is all that happens to me on this website, arrange meets and talking properly for days and soon as it comes to the night before the meet, "bang" they're gone.

Only to message a week or two later saying "oh sorry I've been really busy" yet seen them online on fab constantly since you were suppose to meet.

Time wasters, this has happened 16 times to me now I've counted on my KIK because I don't just add people for the sake of it or just to send pictures like most.

Amen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have had this a few times,both on kik and on here, either with couples been planning to meet or ladies. On reflection I'm 99% sure the single ladies were in fact blokes."

Snap! Or the couple ends up saying the following. "Sorry mate missus isn't looking to meet at the moment, I'll suck your cock though"

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I have a rule .... what happens on fab .... stays on fab ....

I dont do facebook

Kik

Skype

And I NEVER give my number out to anyone ....

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