FabSwingers.com forum: Nervous

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi people I'm lay in bed at home thinking about the first time I'll join in, im shiting myself I'm already got butterflies in me stomach (I mean join in at a club)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey

its fine, just close your eyes and think of England

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I ain't really even had sex mych

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Have you been to a club yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah but didn't "play" I've got quite a small cock too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just fuck it off and go find a caring girlfriend if it's bothering you that much. Get some experience and get over your small cock issues. Clubs can be daunting and I've seen countless 'experienced' blokes find it impossible to get a hard on. It's not the place for someone who is terrified at the thought of sex in general

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha sorry this whole scene blows my mind, as if I've just told some random girl I av a small dick

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Yeah but didn't "play" I've got quite a small cock too"

Well you managed more than a lot of guy's you managed to get through the door so that's a positive. Don't put pressure on yourself just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just fuck it off and go find a caring girlfriend if it's bothering you that much. Get some experience and get over your small cock issues. Clubs can be daunting and I've seen countless 'experienced' blokes find it impossible to get a hard on. It's not the place for someone who is terrified at the thought of sex in general

Ruby"

I have no thoughts I'll not get hard like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah but didn't "play" I've got quite a small cock too

Well you managed more than a lot of guy's you managed to get through the door so that's a positive. Don't put pressure on yourself just go with the flow

I think I'm just gonna watch first,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not had a gf ever

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Yeah but didn't "play" I've got quite a small cock too

Well you managed more than a lot of guy's you managed to get through the door so that's a positive. Don't put pressure on yourself just go with the flow

I think I'm just gonna watch first, "

and that's fine,take it at your pace you're in control. Don't forget though it's just sex it's no big deal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I no. It's mental

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've sent you something

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Ok thanks for the dick pic!

. Stop worrying you're fine,just go and enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok thanks for the dick pic!

. Stop worrying you're fine,just go and enjoy yourself."

Hi sorry for pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok thanks for the dick pic!

. Stop worrying you're fine,just go and enjoy yourself.

Hi sorry for pic "

My advice is keep going to clubs meet a lovely lady they must have private rooms use those to build up your confidence in clubs group fun is hard (excuse the pun) as that lady says about guys its difficult to get hard sometimes and you need to get over your size issue that's not helping you

Your welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe it's not that small really I basically only got porn to compare with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all you watch is porn, the dick sizes will all make you look small. Heck im fat and ugly with a little dick, and my wifes a bbw but we still go to the clubs. Dont get so worked up about these things. Everyone is nervous the first time they go to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If all you watch is porn, the dick sizes will all make you look small. Heck im fat and ugly with a little dick, and my wifes a bbw but we still go to the clubs. Dont get so worked up about these things. Everyone is nervous the first time they go to clubs."

Ha I know I'm ridiculous really Saw friends dicks, like at school and theirs were big compared with mine, how ever they were big lads

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By *otwife8690Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

You seem really obsessed with the size of your cock think you need to get over this as it won't help you if you're constantly comparing yourself with other guys. And from a ladies point of view its a bit off putting.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

There are other ways to pleasure a woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You seem really obsessed with the size of your cock think you need to get over this as it won't help you if you're constantly comparing yourself with other guys. And from a ladies point of view its a bit off putting."

I won't be like getting my tape measure out and drawing up a graph

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What if I cum at an inappropriate time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the most hilarious thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is the most hilarious thread

Thanks I'm glad my worries amuse you

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

How come you have verifications from club meets?

I think someone just wants to draw attention to his small cock and humiliation fetish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

read further up I have been to club once

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How come you have verifications from club meets?

I think someone just wants to draw attention to his small cock and humiliation fetish

Do ur homework

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you enjoy the club experience, carry on with it. If it makes you glum, don't. Take life at your own pace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you enjoy the club experience, carry on with it. If it makes you glum, don't. Take life at your own pace. "

I did enjoy it, I'm just saying I'm shitting myself for first time I "play "

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Maybe it's not that small really I basically only got porn to compare with "

How many inches is it honey? I'm intrigued!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Its the same as playing at home. Just noisier lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe it's not that small really I basically only got porn to compare with

How many inches is it honey? I'm intrigued! "

Teeny weeny

Na it's about 5inch hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You clearly got on well with a few folks at the club.... just a case of taking the next step.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You clearly got on well with a few folks at the club.... just a case of taking the next step."

Yeah I did I'm hoping to go on Friday again I can't wait

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Least you went to a club thats a

Dont worry about it more you do more you will not enjoy your next club night.Its happened to many as others have said so its not something to be worried about honestly.

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"How come you have verifications from club meets?

I think someone just wants to draw attention to his small cock and humiliation fetish

Do ur homework "

Don't have time or inclination to fully research all of your history ta but I did read your thread. You do seem obsessed with having a small cock and this is a kink some men have, often going on to enjoy self humiliation etc. That's what you come across as, and that's fine. Enjoy it. But if you really are that inexperienced, as a word of warning, having most of your sexual experiences in swinging can be damaging in terms of developing relationships in the future. It might be healthier to explore with someone you know and trust, but this world will build your confidence. Not that you actually appear to be lacking to be honest! Good luck with it pal.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"If you enjoy the club experience, carry on with it. If it makes you glum, don't. Take life at your own pace.

I did enjoy it, I'm just saying I'm shitting myself for first time I "play ""

Do try not to shit yourself. That would be embarassing for everyone.

Unless you did come at the same time

Theyd have to respect you then

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By *eyshamfunGuyMan
over a year ago

morecambe

Hi I'm Rob from Morecambe never been to a club or a meet before can anybody help me by telling me what to expect walking into a club?

Thank you Rob x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do try not to shit yourself. That would be embarassing for everyone.

Unless you did come at the same time

Theyd have to respect you then"

Ha a shitty cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I'm Rob from Morecambe never been to a club or a meet before can anybody help me by telling me what to expect walking into a club?

Thank you Rob x"

Same as walking into any mainstream bar; just fewer clothes. Keep that as your expectation and you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi I'm Rob from Morecambe never been to a club or a meet before can anybody help me by telling me what to expect walking into a club?

Thank you Rob x

Same as walking into any mainstream bar; just fewer clothes. Keep that as your expectation and you'll be fine. "

My v first ws we'd gone nd I kept all clothes on

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Blimey

its fine, just close your eyes and think of England

Ruby"

nooooo around here we think of YORKSHIRE!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yorkshire Yorkshire Yorkshire

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By *eyshamfunGuyMan
over a year ago

morecambe

So can I stay dressed or will I totally look like a tit if I do?

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

I wdnt stress about it too much .u dont have to join in ..and u might not be invited to anyway

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hi I'm Rob from Morecambe never been to a club or a meet before can anybody help me by telling me what to expect walking into a club?

Thank you Rob x

Same as walking into any mainstream bar; just fewer clothes. Keep that as your expectation and you'll be fine.

You kept clothes on you say??? Do people walk around completely starkers at these clubs?

My v first ws we'd gone nd I kept all clothes on"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi I'm Rob from Morecambe never been to a club or a meet before can anybody help me by telling me what to expect walking into a club?

Thank you Rob x

Same as walking into any mainstream bar; just fewer clothes. Keep that as your expectation and you'll be fine.

You kept clothes on you say??? Do people walk around completely starkers at these clubs?

My v first ws we'd gone nd I kept all clothes on"

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So can I stay dressed or will I totally look like a tit if I do?

Depends what club you go to. Some you stay dressed, others you need to dress down into shorts or towel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wen I went I almost shit myself haha girls literally walking around in just their underwear

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I think you've been warned about the shitting thing,just don't do it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you've been warned about the shitting thing,just don't do it!"

Ha it's just a figure of speach

If I'd said I'd die would that b better

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I think you've been warned about the shitting thing,just don't do it!

Ha it's just a figure of speach

If I'd said I'd die would that b better"

I know I'm messing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you've been warned about the shitting thing,just don't do it!

Ha it's just a figure of speach

If I'd said I'd die would that b better

I know I'm messing!"

Oh right sorry ha wasn't sure I thought you was

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