FabSwingers.com forum: Anybody experience this

By *eefun2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Selsey

New to the site but have swung before.

So a big hi from me to all you out there!!

I am one of those dreaded single guys,but i try to be a bit more polite and miss out the tacky one liners, i can see why the single guys get the rep having had a few timewasters myself, being Bi i get straight guys with a straight profile looking for sex...wtf!

Anyway...if you are still reading after that short introduction...I had contact made by a couple to me,they made all the right squeakings were local and just wanted to have a Bi guy for some saucy fun.All the messages to and fro were polite and the likes and dislikes given,friends requests made and accepted.

No firm arrangement made but a time penciled in for mid May..checked messages this morning to re read through them, this user is no longer on site message appears.

What do you guys think?

Dont get me wrong i take no offense, and each to there own no tears shed..but just found it a bit weird.

Any opinions or comments?

Love to all

Dee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine there are lots of reasons anyone might leave the site but with a couple you have twice the complications. Maybe they just decided swinging wasn't right for them as a couple.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It happens. maybe they weren't enjoying the site. Maybe one decided not to carry on. Maybe their PC went mad and deleted all their accounts. You'll never know. So carry on with what you're doing and enjoy the site. Don't over think things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi...youve only been here two weeks... ( maybe you've been here before) ...its going to happen...possibly a lot. It us what it is. Believe nothing until it happens...even right up to the last minute.

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

Just move on and dont think too much about it or you will end up deleting your profile

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By *eefun2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Selsey

Hi again.

Oh yes been here before briefly, also on another site.

Agree with comments above...but not an over thinker, just found it weird,i understand circumstances change and ideas change..

It takes all sorts and if you cant take the no thank you and your not for us then its not the place for you.

So please dont get me wrong i am not over thinking it or precious..

Just found it weird..oh and thought it time i posted on the forum and meet some of you people..do went with that !!

Stay cool...stay sexy X

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Hi again.

Oh yes been here before briefly, also on another site.

Agree with comments above...but not an over thinker, just found it weird,i understand circumstances change and ideas change..

It takes all sorts and if you cant take the no thank you and your not for us then its not the place for you.

So please dont get me wrong i am not over thinking it or precious..

Just found it weird..oh and thought it time i posted on the forum and meet some of you people..do went with that !!

Stay cool...stay sexy X

Not weird at all. People come and go just like in real life!

I don't consider anything serious until we've exchanged either a Kik address or phone number. I absolutely do NOT arrange a meet via Fab messaging. The closest I would get to that is maybe suggesting that I might bump into someone at a club but even if we don't I'm there on my own to meet my friends and maybe make new ones.

Hope this helps.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Nothing weird about it, pretty normal in fact.

100s of people join and leave daily, some come back, others never do.

Why they left, who knows. The list of potential reasons is large, chalk it up to experience and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've probably upset them OP.. Only kidding!

I've had similar happen but not quite as drastic.

What I would say is how many profiles have you read that start, "Been here before"? Loads. So chances are they'll be back at some point and may hunt you down as you've suggested you got on so well.

Fingers crossed for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep like said above its more likely to happen with a couple, the rule we go by is if at any stage either of us say we need a break, we don't want to meet another person or that swinging is something we thought we would enjoy but it's not for us anymore than we leave straight away without even questioning the other person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi...youve only been here two weeks... ( maybe you've been here before) ...its going to happen...possibly a lot. It us what it is. Believe nothing until it happens...even right up to the last minute. "

That is so true

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

"Hi

New to the site but have swung before.

So a big hi from me to all you out there!!

No firm arrangement made but a time penciled in for mid May..checked messages this morning to re read through them, this user is no longer on site message appears.

What do you guys think?

Dont get me wrong i take no offense, and each to there own no tears shed..but just found it a bit weird.

Any opinions or comments?

Love to all

Dee"

You will get that from guys remember that straight means fab straight. In short so is spaghetti until it gets hot. Hope it goes well for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi again.

Oh yes been here before briefly, also on another site.

Agree with comments above...but not an over thinker, just found it weird,i understand circumstances change and ideas change..

It takes all sorts and if you cant take the no thank you and your not for us then its not the place for you.

So please dont get me wrong i am not over thinking it or precious..

Just found it weird..oh and thought it time i posted on the forum and meet some of you people..do went with that !!

Stay cool...stay sexy X

When you deleted last time, did you make sure to say goodbye to all your contacts?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Not weird at all for Fab, people come and go for all kinds of reasons.

And usually nothing personal meant to anyone they didn't say bye to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine it was either a couple who were tempted to dip their toe then changed their mind or a singleton just enjoying the flirt.

Move on.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's not worth worrying about - you can be asssured that you were not the cause of them leaving though

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