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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm Benjamin, 34, commano combat medic from Manchester. I'm a widowed husband and have an amazing son aged five. I'm not able to get out to meet a new woman with work and the rest of my time devoted to my son. I'm looking for a woman to converse with, have fun, wine n dine, and with any luck be completely filthy with. Any advice would be greatly received and appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep some information personal would be my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep some information personal would be my advice. "

Private*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Firstly thank you for your response. Was there something In my post you read that I should be keeping personal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion it's best to keep family/work information private.

I value your honesty and being upfront but people shouldn't expect of you to share such information.

This site is very much a numbers and luck game. You are polite which does work in your favour and should show through messages against other men. I would say be patient as for some it can take months before they finally get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks so much, yes very honest but also very useful. I really appreciate your advice and your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks so much, yes very honest but also very useful. I really appreciate your advice and your time. "

You're welcome and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

way way too much info ..no one need to know your life story/work/family thats your private side of life ...

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Hi like everyone else says tmi

I understand your situation but there are some real loosers on here and your honesty isnt their business

Have a look at some others guys profile, what kind of woman do you want?

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Join a dating site OP

Quite a lot of nice but naughty ladies on them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Join a dating site OP

Quite a lot of nice but naughty ladies on them too "

Sound advice sounds like you're looking for a relationship tbh I think fab may not be for you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm Benjamin, 34, commano combat medic from Manchester. I'm a widowed husband and have an amazing son aged five. I'm not able to get out to meet a new woman with work and the rest of my time devoted to my son. I'm looking for a woman to converse with, have fun, wine n dine, and with any luck be completely filthy with. Any advice would be greatly received and appreciated. "

You're a single man among many. You do need to stand out from the others. I don't know exactly what a commando, combat medic is but that information coupled with your face picture, location and family situation could lead to you being recognised and that isn't always a good thing.

Having said that if you don't have a lot of time to socialise chat in the forum, message women local to you and don't be disheartened if you wait for a positive response, it can take time.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your professional and family life off fab. There are unscrupulous people on here who will use anything against you.

Maybe better trying a dating site for your needs. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want to meet someone to swing with?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Fucking hell. Why can't the poor guy be a sensitive caring soul and still just fancy a quick fuck rather than need a relationship.

OP your profile is dull and it has to stand among many profiles. Spice it up a bit. You will have the same problems as many... single parent, busy life, want filthy sex every so often .... this is a perfect place for you to be. But make contact with women you like and go from there. You will be messaged, ignored, blocked, spun into knots by fakers and wasters. But do it right and you'll have lots of fun.

Welcome to the slightly warped world of fab.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

OP you haven't specifically asked for profile advice so I can't give it.

But maybe have a look at yours. Think of it like a shop window. Would you be interested in you?

Good luck

Fab is fun x

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