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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so far from using this site I have not met anyone from here. Has anyone got any tips on what I can do to get a meet

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Have some patients you've been here 4 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're 18...

get yourself down the pub and chat some lasses up there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come back in 4 months you'll probably be saying the same thing 4 weeks is no time at all do you think because your new women are just gonna drop their knickers and meet your up against thousands of single guys on here what experience do you have of swinging? Sorry if sounding negative but too many guys coming on thinking it's an easy lay you'll have better luck at your age down the local pub,look at profiles and see if you have anything you can offer that meets their requirements or see if you can offer something different to every other single guy here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've also got that you cannot accommodate AND you cannot travel. This could well be the case but that may also put people off as, to us, we automatically think 'so how can you meet?' If it's that you don't drive and would have to use public transport then expand on that in your profile more info is certainly better than not enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a guy before been on since 2014 and no meet. You are 4 weeks in pal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i understand everything that is being said, i guess i am just very unpatient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i understand everything that is being said, i guess i am just very unpatient. "

*impatient

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yea i realised that after i said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i understand everything that is being said, i guess i am just very unpatient.

*impatient "

You beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shave all over

Frock

Shoes

Makeup

Hair

Perfume

It really is that easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're 18...

get yourself down the pub and chat some lasses up there..."

Exactly this!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP do a forum search for profile advice and read all the good bits

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

what did you think was going to happen when you joined? how did you hear of the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What exactly do you have to offer?

Can only see a dick and a ballbag.

If you think that's enough to entice people then you might be better meeting people in the pub.

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Sorry to sound negative but things that go against you from our perspective are a) youre new (yes we all were at some stage, but added to your age screams at us looking for easy lay) b) only dick pics available weve seen one we seen em all c) profile - make it personal. On the positive side your young and other well known dating sites out there such as the big wide world on a Saturday night. Sorry to say it but it might be a better bet. What exactly are you looking for on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh ive slept with guys your age but they have been mature for it but what puts me off your profile and is more that you have a what seems to be a toy car collection on the wall behind you so its a huge reminder of your age tbh.

Have a lot of patience as this isnt the site you just jump into things.

I wont say go to clubs as a lot may not allow you in til over 21.

Honestly try tinder or similar to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You live in Melksham.

There us a swingers club on your doorstep get id and go there talk to people stike up normal conversation swinging isn't all about sex you need to flirt and woo people into bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You live in Melksham.

There us a swingers club on your doorstep get id and go there talk to people stike up normal conversation swinging isn't all about sex you need to flirt and woo people into bed.

"

my understanding of clubs is you have to be 21+ to go to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your time mate. Things will come when they are ready. I am new and I took a few weeks just to get a message. Be patient.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"so far from using this site I have not met anyone from here. Has anyone got any tips on what I can do to get a meet"

If you haven't pulled after three weeks then quit. Or something.

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