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By *alfSmile OP   Man
over a year ago

Yate

Hello one at all.

I'm curious on peoples ideas of how not to get in the way when I have my naps at clubs? I've been very lucky with the clubs I've attended in not having an issue with this.

I currently try and find an as far out of the way corner I can, obviously not within potential rooms for couples to play in.

Also, any ideas for a fun sign that I could prop up? As I'm sometimes poked awake by people to see if I'm ok, which puts me back to square one and I have to nap for longer.

Thank you for reading.

HS

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Well clubs like chameleons have a 'hotel' as part of the same building so just hire a room for your trip and you'd be sorted.

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By *alfSmile OP   Man
over a year ago

Yate


"Well clubs like chameleons have a 'hotel' as part of the same building so just hire a room for your trip and you'd be sorted."

Wonderful thank you

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Whack a sign around your neck as you nap that says

"Im not dead yet"

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By *alfSmile OP   Man
over a year ago

Yate


"Whack a sign around your neck as you nap that says

"Im not dead yet" "

Nice idea hee hee. A bit of humour is always a good thing, and stops any from worrying about me. I like it

Thank you.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Clubs are not for napping in

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Is there a reason why you still have to take naps at your age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whack a sign around your neck as you nap that says

"Im not dead yet"

Nice idea hee hee. A bit of humour is always a good thing, and stops any from worrying about me. I like it

Thank you. "

do you have a medical condition that makes you want to nap?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Is there a reason why you still have to take naps at your age? "

No need to hate on napping, I love a good nap, but some places are inappropriate for a nap. I once napped whilst driving, not a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Warning do not poke the napping man - likely to bite and shout obscenties'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i ask though is the napping tied into your hearing? I know deadness can stem from some illnesses

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Is there a reason why you still have to take naps at your age?

No need to hate on napping, I love a good nap, but some places are inappropriate for a nap. I once napped whilst driving, not a good idea."

I wasn't. I was just wondering like someone else is. I sometimes do it to.....at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a reason why you still have to take naps at your age?

No need to hate on napping, I love a good nap, but some places are inappropriate for a nap. I once napped whilst driving, not a good idea."

No one is hating on it.. whatever that means..

We are merely curious as to why the OP falls asleep at inappropriate times..

He may have narcolepsy but that shouldn't stop him going to clubs

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By *alfSmile OP   Man
over a year ago

Yate


"'Warning do not poke the napping man - likely to bite and shout obscenties' "

That made me chuckle

Thank you everyone for replying.

Some of it is from my deafness yes,I become mentally fatigued from extensively lipreading people, I can last about 10 - 15 minutes on busy nights then it takes an hour or two so to recharge. Coupled with having CFS, I just burn out all the faster.

I enjoy the social aspects when I'm able to understand anything going on. So I know I can come across as stand offish when I'm tired, so some humour and a ready smile I think is needed.

Happy to answer questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Warning do not poke the napping man - likely to bite and shout obscenties'

That made me chuckle

Thank you everyone for replying.

Some of it is from my deafness yes,I become mentally fatigued from extensively lipreading people, I can last about 10 - 15 minutes on busy nights then it takes an hour or two so to recharge. Coupled with having CFS, I just burn out all the faster.

I enjoy the social aspects when I'm able to understand anything going on. So I know I can come across as stand offish when I'm tired, so some humour and a ready smile I think is needed.

Happy to answer questions. "

Thats actually really interesting I wasnt aware lip reading was so draining and can understand with the cfs how bad it must then be.

I think its great that you aren't letting it put you off going to clubs

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By *alfSmile OP   Man
over a year ago

Yate

Thank you.

Everyone needs a lovable Deafie in their lives :D

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By *alfSmile OP   Man
over a year ago

Yate

Best I can describe is hold out a book/magazine that you can "just" read and bounce it around as much as a human head moves when talking. The focus you expand can be massive at times.

I think that works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best I can describe is hold out a book/magazine that you can "just" read and bounce it around as much as a human head moves when talking. The focus you expand can be massive at times.

I think that works. "

I got you! Ive spent a lot of time since i was 12 with someone who is almost deaf (limited hearing) so he lips reads so i always try to be clear and concise and look at him not move around lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never thought of it like that- it sounds exhausting!

Massive kudos to you for not letting it put you off going to clubs

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

At s Christmas party at La Chambre we once spotted a lady dressed as a sexy santa asleep and snoring in the playroom lol.

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By *alfSmile OP   Man
over a year ago

Yate


"At s Christmas party at La Chambre we once spotted a lady dressed as a sexy santa asleep and snoring in the playroom lol. "

Well we all know how hard Santa works at times. So only fair I say

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