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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My guy loves anal , I would love to give him my anal virginity we love each other

and everything else is fine . We have tried but I can't...ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of lube and start off with a small plug maybe. Ease it in and play with that for a while.

You don't do exercise without warming up first. This is no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He needs a longer run up.

You're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without wanting to sound crude, part of the problem is you have a muscle whose job is to create an airtight seal and you're trying to push past that. So a good method is to push into your ass if you were going to the toilet. You are working out the exact same movement which allows exit. You can do this multiple times to allow the length to enter fully. But always always use lots of lube. Gun oil is particulary good and you can also get a brand whose name escapes me which contains a contact anesthetic to help initially.

Hope that helps

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By *addy Bears KittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Well, anal training can be fun, gentle and gradual.

Start with rimming. Get used to sensations of pleasure in the area, leaving you wanting more.

From there, one gentle lubed finger. Again, gets you used to something actually penetrating you.

From one finger it then becomes two fingers to get you used to gentle stretching.

And then you are ready for cock, done gradually and gently. No rush and progress from one to the other as you feel comfortable

Russ and Sarah xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your replies !xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He needs a longer run up.

You're welcome. "

Not a problem I get aroused very easily , it's just anal I have a problem with x

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Time, patience and communication...

When it comes to it, lie on your back and he comes under....think missionary

You can control how much you take, what speed and gives more control from leg angle to speed

Lots of clit stimulation too will help you relax more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use lube with anesthetic in. Because if it hurts a lot you need to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The product I was thinking of was Doc Johnson rear entry. It has a 0.75% concentration of lidocaine. Dentists use ~2% into soft tissues so on topical contact you're not going to get anything like total loss of sensation.

Horses for courses...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He needs a longer run up.

You're welcome.

Not a problem I get aroused very easily , it's just anal I have a problem with x"

Try not to make it the be all and end all because some women just never achieve it.

Yes you can practice all you want take it slowly gently but if it don't fit don't force it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My guy loves anal , I would love to give him my anal virginity we love each other

and everything else is fine . We have tried but I can't...ideas?"

If you can't then don't!!! Pretty simple.

Why do something for someone else if you don't enjoy it?

If you love each other, as you say then he should except it's not for you and just continue doing the other things you do and enjoy.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

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"My guy loves anal , I would love to give him my anal virginity we love each other

and everything else is fine . We have tried but I can't...ideas?

If you can't then don't!!! Pretty simple.

Why do something for someone else if you don't enjoy it?

If you love each other, as you say then he should except it's not for you and just continue doing the other things you do and enjoy. "

I'd disagree with this!

I didn't enjoy anal at all the first couple of times - couldn't see what the fuss was about! Now I LOVE it and come as much during anal as I do during vaginal!

It's not for everyone but it's worth persisting I think! Extra holes mean extra pleasure options!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My guy loves anal , I would love to give him my anal virginity we love each other

and everything else is fine . We have tried but I can't...ideas?

If you can't then don't!!! Pretty simple.

Why do something for someone else if you don't enjoy it?

If you love each other, as you say then he should except it's not for you and just continue doing the other things you do and enjoy. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes totally agree with you he is fine about it but I want to very much . He hasn't even tried for a while but I would like to try again , something special I can share with him , maybe one day. Thank goodness he isn't huge !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My guy loves anal , I would love to give him my anal virginity we love each other

and everything else is fine . We have tried but I can't...ideas?

If you can't then don't!!! Pretty simple.

Why do something for someone else if you don't enjoy it?

If you love each other, as you say then he should except it's not for you and just continue doing the other things you do and enjoy.

I'd disagree with this!

I didn't enjoy anal at all the first couple of times - couldn't see what the fuss was about! Now I LOVE it and come as much during anal as I do during vaginal!

It's not for everyone but it's worth persisting I think! Extra holes mean extra pleasure options! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Absolutely !

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