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By *obyn67 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wonderland

I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

A very very sad person. Block, report, delete, forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Projection. Not that it makes it any easier when you get a shitty, uncalled for message, but the problem is theirs, not yours.

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By *obyn67 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wonderland


"A very very sad person. Block, report, delete, forget."

Yes I have done that . It's my first experience of this ...so was curious ...is this common ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"A very very sad person. Block, report, delete, forget.

Yes I have done that . It's my first experience of this ...so was curious ...is this common ?"

Not really, but it happens. Women tend to get unsolicited messages from frustrated blokes who feel the need to lash out. I am sure single men and couples also get unsolicited abuse too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably had a shitty day or knock back or just are a troll. Like others said just block and don't give it another thought. I bet they didn't once they sent it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah very common so I have heard hope u said something back before u blocked them. Some ppl on here have no respect for now one.

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By *ragon-tattMan
over a year ago

runcorn

If it makes you feel any better..you are not alone..iv had a few nails like it..from people that love 100s miles away..i guess they have nothing better to do..dont get hung up on it.x

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Some people are like that unfortunately ... I had one guy message me and say ..... go kill yourself .....well im still here ....

I reported him .... then blocked him ..... silly little man

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I hate you too... for having such fine titties

I agree with you hun. It is awful when you just come on here to.partake like everyone else and you get abuse for it.

Chin up. Xx

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By *obyn67 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wonderland

Thank you all so much ....I was totally discombobulated by it for a moment ....it was so random !!

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By *obyn67 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wonderland


"I hate you too... for having such fine titties

I agree with you hun. It is awful when you just come on here to.partake like everyone else and you get abuse for it.

Chin up. Xx"

Why thank you so much !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an utter dick, guarantee they wont be around for a while if thats what they are saying to people.

You look lovely to me

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?"

Did you use those two nasty words, "no thanks". That usually results in losers responding like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had that. On here and fabguys.

Losers

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By *obyn67 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wonderland

After I got over the initial shock I did advise them of their fortune .....(!)

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I don't know what's up with some folk. I guess Fab represents all walks of life, and in that, there are aresholes.

Taking s sneaky peek, you look lovely to say the least.

Enjoy all that's good about Fab and ignore / block the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few today and blocked before I could respond lol aparantly I'm a vile human being cos I'm fat

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By *obyn67 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wonderland


"I don't know what's up with some folk. I guess Fab represents all walks of life, and in that, there are aresholes.

Taking s sneaky peek, you look lovely to say the least.

Enjoy all that's good about Fab and ignore / block the rest. "

Thank you , that is very nice of you to say ....In fact you have all been so sincere and supportive....Thank you all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few & far between for me but it's not when I do receive one.

I usually get told I'm up my own arse, which I reply with "it's physically impossible but I know a guy who can do this"..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*not nice*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?"

you get them in everything these days even when it's for groups that you share the same interests or as I call the keyboard warriors just a shame as they can spoil your day but there are some very strange people out there

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By *obyn67 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wonderland


"Had a few today and blocked before I could respond lol aparantly I'm a vile human being cos I'm fat "

That is just awful...I am so sorry to read that . Stay your fabulous self !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?"

I had the same yesterday and from someone who's been on the site a while with verifications stating what a great person he is. I sent him a message back, apologising for being on the site and making him feel he had to message me with abuse and wished him happy fabbing. Then blocked, reported and messaged his verifications to let them know what a nice person he actually is

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By *obyn67 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wonderland


"Very few & far between for me but it's not when I do receive one.

I usually get told I'm up my own arse, which I reply with "it's physically impossible but I know a guy who can do this".. "

Oh No !! Mine was similar....telling me I was up my own arse ...along with disrespecting my curves and likening me to a 'Lady of the night '.....(!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?"

Because there are some deeply tragic weirdos out there. The false bravery of a keyboard and relative anonymity facilitates twottishness.

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By *obyn67 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Wonderland


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?

Because there are some deeply tragic weirdos out there. The false bravery of a keyboard and relative anonymity facilitates twottishness. "

What a GREAT word !!! Twotishness !!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?"

After I get over the initial hurt and discombobulation I actually feel a little sorry for them. Not in a way that I'll respond since that's counter-productive but that their life is so awful and has so much lacking that the only way they can feel better is to pick a random stranger and try and project their own feelings of worthlessness and inadequacy onto them. It must be so sad to live like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh had a few unsolicited messages like this. Total wankers!

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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton


"A very very sad person. Block, report, delete, forget.

Yes I have done that . It's my first experience of this ...so was curious ...is this common ?"

Can honestly say we've never had anything like this before, closes thing was a guy we met started slagging us off after the meet.

Like instantly after, he must have been gone 5 minutes before we got a text along the lines of

Your wife is dirty slag, she should be greatfull for the load he just gave her. Followed by tonnes of more abuse.

Jokes on him though as he left his wallet at our place!

Usually we wouldn't ever do something like this but we gave all the money (just shy of £150)

To the local homeless guy who slept in the ally behind our home.

O and yes we did inform the abusive prick of what we had down.

No responses

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

You've just got to stay positive, you know you're not those things and they're probably just jealous losers. I get hate mail but generally only happens to me whenever there's a married/ cheating thread going on that I have commented on (another story).

You look fab and so do all the others on here who've had similar experiences so keep your pecker/s up (or whatever the girly term is for that) and be happy, that will piss them off more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really horrible when you get a message like that, it can really knock you off balance sometimes. Just remember it says everything about that person, and absolutely nothing about you. Some people feel the need to try and drag others down, rather than aspire to raise themselves up.

The majority of the people on here are lovely, don't let one hoofwanking bunglecunt ruin your experience.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can send me a hate message to make you feel better haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few today and blocked before I could respond lol aparantly I'm a vile human being cos I'm fat

That is just awful...I am so sorry to read that . Stay your fabulous self !"

Tnk u hun I think a thick skin needed on here . Stay positive and don't take it too personal they prob get no action from anyone

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I recently had a random message me basically telling me how awful I was to later message my events profile telling me I had the most beautiful smile he'd ever seen

Clearly 2+2 did not make 4 for that gent

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

There is a special name for a special person like this.... Twunt!!

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By *eardedSilverFoxMan
over a year ago

Colchester


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?

After I get over the initial hurt and discombobulation I actually feel a little sorry for them. Not in a way that I'll respond since that's counter-productive but that their life is so awful and has so much lacking that the only way they can feel better is to pick a random stranger and try and project their own feelings of worthlessness and inadequacy onto them. It must be so sad to live like that."

You're absolutely spot on there. They have nothing going on in the real world so somehow being a keyboard prick gives them a feeling of power.

Very sad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Angry dangerous individual. Dodged a bullet there. Keep smiling and ignore it

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By *lassygilf60Woman
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

There are some little suits on here,

I put on my statment a short while ago,

Anyone fancy wining n dining me get intouch,

Answer off one guy random sent me a message saying,

Are you having a laugh, I'd be lucky to get a sausage roll from Greggs you old bag then blocked me ..didn't upset me though it tickled me,

I'd of prefered a cheese n onion.

Nowt like folk.

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

Probably frustrated that you're way out of their shitty league.

Head up and shoulders back lovely, I just think if I'm that horrible then why are they messaging me? It's just a reflection of them and you are worth more than that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many pathetic, abusive people around and many on this site and in certain clubs, we've been victims of lies spread about us from certain people and a club, even using our real names in a club review! Sad, pathetic people with sad little lives and all we do is pity them, move on, block, forget about it and go have fun, that's what we did.... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've developed a much thicker skin being on here, have to try and just rise above that sort of stupidity. We had one particularly nasty message, out of nowhere do was never sure quite why he felt the need to share his opinions of me (and Devon women more generally) my first reaction was shock, but then once I'd reported and blocked I had to laugh that someone who had never even swapped messages with me was so full of vitriol he just had to share it. Bet he wouldn't have said anything like it to my face.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"There are some little suits on here,

I put on my statment a short while ago,

Anyone fancy wining n dining me get intouch,

Answer off one guy random sent me a message saying,

Are you having a laugh, I'd be lucky to get a sausage roll from Greggs you old bag then blocked me ..didn't upset me though it tickled me,

I'd of prefered a cheese n onion.

Nowt like folk.

"

Oops that did make me laugh... Sorry

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?

After I get over the initial hurt and discombobulation I actually feel a little sorry for them. Not in a way that I'll respond since that's counter-productive but that their life is so awful and has so much lacking that the only way they can feel better is to pick a random stranger and try and project their own feelings of worthlessness and inadequacy onto them. It must be so sad to live like that.

You're absolutely spot on there. They have nothing going on in the real world so somehow being a keyboard prick gives them a feeling of power.

Very sad! "

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

A message from a bloke ,he said I make his girlfriend look like dog shit ,were do theses blokes get off ....

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"A message from a bloke ,he said I make his girlfriend look like dog shit ,were do theses blokes get off ...."

Honest to God, I had the same message. Really made me pity him and feel sad for his imaginary girlfriend

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Must be from the same bloke ,sounds a bit unhinged if you ask me

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?

I had the same yesterday and from someone who's been on the site a while with verifications stating what a great person he is. I sent him a message back, apologising for being on the site and making him feel he had to message me with abuse and wished him happy fabbing. Then blocked, reported and messaged his verifications to let them know what a nice person he actually is "

Now there's a good idea! Doing this with the next tw@t that gives me crap!

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London


"A very very sad person. Block, report, delete, forget.

Yes I have done that . It's my first experience of this ...so was curious ...is this common ?"

It's happened to me too. I reported it and tried to forget about it. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very very sad person. Block, report, delete, forget.

Yes I have done that . It's my first experience of this ...so was curious ...is this common ?"

I've had that

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I had one months ago calling me a vile monster.. he'd only looked at my profile about 20+ times to work that out

Yesterday was definitely nob head day for me. I had one slagging me off for being fat, and another telling me I had aids and it would be like throwing a sausage down an entry because I have *so many* veris.

Some people have too much time on their hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some numpty fuck wits on here.

Best not to take things on the site personally especially emails from people who don't know you.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"A message from a bloke ,he said I make his girlfriend look like dog shit ,were do theses blokes get off ...."

I've had that one too

I replied basically telling him I pitied his gf as she can do better

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

I've been here over 8 years and probably had 4 or 5 they were horrible to read but just makes you think they are sad losers with no life! more to be pitied

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Someone told me I was a despicable person cos of my profile. Did change it a tad to make it a little more hummerous

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

got told that having my saggy boobs as my profile pic would only put off all but the desperate.

reported and blocked, but it still upset me abit, wasn't even a response to a knock back.

getting butthurt over words on tinterweb probaby means its time to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly there are too many men out there who feel emasculated and believe their only recourse is to attempt to belittle and humiliate women. We have a long way to go, sisters. But the good news is that there are many men out there who want equal distribution of power in sexual relationships, and there are some gems on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and I got told I had a spotty arse...he was obviously looking very closely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very very sad person. Block, report, delete, forget.

Yes I have done that . It's my first experience of this ...so was curious ...is this common ?

Not really, but it happens. Women tend to get unsolicited messages from frustrated blokes who feel the need to lash out. I am sure single men and couples also get unsolicited abuse too."

As couples profile on here we never got this...but I do as a single women.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"A very very sad person. Block, report, delete, forget.

Yes I have done that . It's my first experience of this ...so was curious ...is this common ?

Not really, but it happens. Women tend to get unsolicited messages from frustrated blokes who feel the need to lash out. I am sure single men and couples also get unsolicited abuse too.

As couples profile on here we never got this...but I do as a single women. "

I've had exactly the same experience as both a couple and single female, there's some very brave men out there! Weird how the same ones were abusive on my single female profile but really polite on the couples one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very very sad person. Block, report, delete, forget.

Yes I have done that . It's my first experience of this ...so was curious ...is this common ?

Not really, but it happens. Women tend to get unsolicited messages from frustrated blokes who feel the need to lash out. I am sure single men and couples also get unsolicited abuse too.

As couples profile on here we never got this...but I do as a single women.

I've had exactly the same experience as both a couple and single female, there's some very brave men out there! Weird how the same ones were abusive on my single female profile but really polite on the couples one"

Oh I dunno I've had quite a few be rude to me. Maybe it's because it says sub and passive. Not 6' kickboxer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A message from a bloke ,he said I make his girlfriend look like dog shit ,were do theses blokes get off ....

I've had that one too

I replied basically telling him I pitied his gf as she can do better "

Ive had that one too. He's a sad fucked up individual.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I had that one too...it's just to get our attention. He most likely hasn't got a girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?"

Yes, bizarre, we had that soon after creating the latest profile.

A bizarre little git, part of a couple from shrewsbury messaged to have a go for some reason best known to his insecure self.

The site is loaded with such pathetic souls, just report, block and ignore, its their loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and I got told I had a spotty arse...he was obviously looking very closely! "

If you ever need them looking at closely let us know lol

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By *ifted guyMan
over a year ago

North side of tyne

No need for it

it's msgs like that get us genuine guys a bad name

Fabs getting worse for fakers pic collectors

And more time the ire charged a decent amount for subscription keep the wankers away and let the genuine ppl have trouble free fun

Oh rant over lol

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

Croydon Area


"A message from a bloke ,he said I make his girlfriend look like dog shit ,were do theses blokes get off ...."

We've had the same message also

Got to be the same profile. But fancy sending this as an initial message to so many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone very bored, looking for a reaction or someone with no social awareness at all.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

OP luckily those type of messages are few and far between.

Enjoy FAB. Nice profile btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear what’s happen to you but there are nasty people on here who like to hurt people, just block them and report them.. Because it’s happen to me been called names but when I speak out everyone says I am being negative so I know what it feels like..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just men though.

A few weeks ago I had 2 couples that sent abusive messages and both blocked me so I couldn't reply.

I knew who they were (although these were both stealth accounts as they were from another site I used). I just reported them and laughed. The cowards didn't have the guts for me to reply, or tell me to my face.

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By *eardedSilverFoxMan
over a year ago

Colchester


"A message from a bloke ,he said I make his girlfriend look like dog shit ,were do theses blokes get off ...."

Was that a message from a bloke off here or Adultwork?

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?"
I've just had a look at your profile and I can't find anything wrong with it or you, your a beautiful lady and there's a lot of dick splats out there to mes the day up .. block and report then delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice profile and pics OP, took a perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just add a bery bad verrie to there profile then name and shame. You may get blocked for 24hrs but then everybody knows who it was so worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ?"
i just laugh.. and block. Had a woman a few years ago tell me she didnt blame my partner for wanting to fuck other women as why would he want me. A guy tell me i should be ashamed of myself for being such a slut and how dare i bare my fat body and ugly face on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just had a new and unwelcome experience ! What is it that makes a random stranger message you to criticise your profile and tell you what a horrible person they think you are ? i just laugh.. and block. Had a woman a few years ago tell me she didnt blame my partner for wanting to fuck other women as why would he want me. A guy tell me i should be ashamed of myself for being such a slut and how dare i bare my fat body and ugly face on here lol "

Hope you told her to go to Specsave

It's one of the downsides to some of the messages that ladies must get never seems to happen to us guys ?

Think it's mostly done by ppl who just get their kicks out of hurting through words ? It's not all about looks it's about a sexual click on here and finding personalities that you will enjoy socially as well as sexually ? Well that's how we see it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I've had one that does it. Repeated it too.He's irrelevant.

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