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"Also common cliches such as 'I don't bite' and 'breath through my ears'. They both appear on many, many profiles. " oops. this is why i keep changing it. (its just my bad taste in banter) thanks again | |||
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"A profile needs: 1.Public pics, preferably without a cock shot 2.No over used fab cliches like, I won't bite unless you ask me too 3.No Continual comments about not being gay/bi. Your not looking for men, just block them from contacting you 4.wording to show your personality and what your looking for and offering" 5.as others have pointed out, a decent username | |||
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"A profile needs: 1.Public pics, preferably without a cock shot 2.No over used fab cliches like, I won't bite unless you ask me too 3.No Continual comments about not being gay/bi. Your not looking for men, just block them from contacting you 4.wording to show your personality and what your looking for and offering 5.as others have pointed out, a decent username" so i think im going to start fresh as i cant change my user name OR CAN I??? the name was a spear of the moment name. thanks | |||
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"A profile needs: 1.Public pics, preferably without a cock shot 2.No over used fab cliches like, I won't bite unless you ask me too 3.No Continual comments about not being gay/bi. Your not looking for men, just block them from contacting you 4.wording to show your personality and what your looking for and offering 5.as others have pointed out, a decent username so i think im going to start fresh as i cant change my user name OR CAN I??? the name was a spear of the moment name. thanks " Yes you can change it as you're a site supporter | |||
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"thanks jemima, i dont feel comfortable putting up public pics at the min. only as i wouldnt know what family, friends and work who say if they found out, but time will tell. i dont message ANYBODY without sending photo and the choice if they wanted more. " I wouldn't want my family to know I'm on here either. I just don't show my face or tattoos. | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? " no probz mate... i think we all need to know really. | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? " Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...?" That's so off putting as is a messy background | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...?" Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x " Haha...are you sure? Your leg's bent. It really does look like you're sat on the toilet... Yeah, body shots and bums seem to be popular | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x " 9th June....clearly sat down on what appears to be a toilet | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x 9th June....clearly sat down on what appears to be a toilet " Oh your talking about the picture of me in a suit jacket? i was siting down on a boat! | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x 9th June....clearly sat down on what appears to be a toilet " lol yes i see that. cheeky 1 at the services was it mate. i need to do new photos aswell | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x 9th June....clearly sat down on what appears to be a toilet Oh your talking about the picture of me in a suit jacket? i was siting down on a boat! " No the one where you're sat with your trousers round your ankles on the toilet. You only have 3 public photos. It's the only cock pic. | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x 9th June....clearly sat down on what appears to be a toilet Oh your talking about the picture of me in a suit jacket? i was siting down on a boat! No the one where you're sat with your trousers round your ankles on the toilet. You only have 3 public photos. It's the only cock pic. " Haha it's very clearly a toilet, tiled floor and walls too | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x 9th June....clearly sat down on what appears to be a toilet lol yes i see that. cheeky 1 at the services was it mate. i need to do new photos aswell " haha no i actually was siting down having lunch on a boat near to my office but i better get rid of that one if it looks like something else! | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x 9th June....clearly sat down on what appears to be a toilet Oh your talking about the picture of me in a suit jacket? i was siting down on a boat! No the one where you're sat with your trousers round your ankles on the toilet. You only have 3 public photos. It's the only cock pic. Haha it's very clearly a toilet, tiled floor and walls too " Definitely That's no boat. | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x 9th June....clearly sat down on what appears to be a toilet lol yes i see that. cheeky 1 at the services was it mate. i need to do new photos aswell haha no i actually was siting down having lunch on a boat near to my office but i better get rid of that one if it looks like something else!" Do you have access to your own public photos? It's the only cock pic you have and you're definitely not having lunch on a boat. You're sat on the toilet with your cock out...? | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x 9th June....clearly sat down on what appears to be a toilet Oh your talking about the picture of me in a suit jacket? i was siting down on a boat! No the one where you're sat with your trousers round your ankles on the toilet. You only have 3 public photos. It's the only cock pic. Haha it's very clearly a toilet, tiled floor and walls too Definitely That's no boat. " Sorry ladies i thought you were talking about my face pics! yes i know what picture your talking i shall be changing that one then! | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x 9th June....clearly sat down on what appears to be a toilet Oh your talking about the picture of me in a suit jacket? i was siting down on a boat! " youre sat on the toilet! man up! own it! no boat in sight! | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x 9th June....clearly sat down on what appears to be a toilet Oh your talking about the picture of me in a suit jacket? i was siting down on a boat! No the one where you're sat with your trousers round your ankles on the toilet. You only have 3 public photos. It's the only cock pic. Are you squashing someone in the car photo ? I can see a hand struggling for life and a squashed face behind the seat Haha it's very clearly a toilet, tiled floor and walls too Definitely That's no boat. Sorry ladies i thought you were talking about my face pics! yes i know what picture your talking i shall be changing that one then! " | |||
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"i didnt know my photos was still pulic. ì know i need new photos as they was rushed. thanks everyone " Yours aren't visible - think Ms Puddleduck was commenting on the other guy's profile. Yours would benefit from some pics though, they don't have to show your face, and shouldn't include disembodied pics of your cock. You can take decent body shots with the timer on most phone/tablet cameras quite easily and just crop out any personal guve aways. Can see you've tried to go for the humourous angle with your profile blurb, and there's nothing wrong with that approach if it's original and witty, but to be honest it comes across as a little juvenile in places (e.g. "boobs (can play with titties allday long)") you're 30, not 16!! As others have said, I'd ditch the clichés that every other single guy uses, try and write something that reflects a little bit of your personality. Get across who you are, what you're looking for and more importantly what you think you can offer prospective meets. Good luck | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...? Haha im not siting on the toilet that picture was taken standing up maybe an awkward angle, i will take some body shots then and give it a go x 9th June....clearly sat down on what appears to be a toilet lol yes i see that. cheeky 1 at the services was it mate. i need to do new photos aswell haha no i actually was siting down having lunch on a boat near to my office but i better get rid of that one if it looks like something else!" You repeatedly say that you're looking for like-minded people.. but you haven't told them who you are first.. how would they know if you were like-minded? | |||
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"i didnt know my photos was still pulic. ì know i need new photos as they was rushed. thanks everyone Yours aren't visible - think Ms Puddleduck was commenting on the other guy's profile. Yours would benefit from some pics though, they don't have to show your face, and shouldn't include disembodied pics of your cock. You can take decent body shots with the timer on most phone/tablet cameras quite easily and just crop out any personal guve aways. Can see you've tried to go for the humourous angle with your profile blurb, and there's nothing wrong with that approach if it's original and witty, but to be honest it comes across as a little juvenile in places (e.g. "boobs (can play with titties allday long)") you're 30, not 16!! As others have said, I'd ditch the clichés that every other single guy uses, try and write something that reflects a little bit of your personality. Get across who you are, what you're looking for and more importantly what you think you can offer prospective meets. Good luck " Yes! Sorry OP, your photos aren't public. I was referring to the other poster. | |||
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"what are women actually looking for on a profile for them to want to make or return contact? am not looking for the answers. id like to know what puts you off?? am asking as i was bashing my head against the wall wondering what to put. i still keep reading it over and changing bits here and there. and if you dont mind what wrong with mine " Do you honestly think that every woman will say the same thing? Everything and nothing you write will put women off. | |||
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"ok all i have realised the picture i thought you were talking about which was me on a boat is now visible (wasnt before) and the one you were actually were talking about now removed! thank you all for your input x " Why are you hijacking other people's posts anyway?? | |||
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"ok all i have realised the picture i thought you were talking about which was me on a boat is now visible (wasnt before) and the one you were actually were talking about now removed! thank you all for your input x Why are you hijacking other people's posts anyway?? " he did ask, i dint mind if it helps others | |||
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"Blokes that put sky remotes....or can of monster drinks next to their cock." hahaha. yeah iv seen that alot and think that what a good idea | |||
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"thanks jemima, i dont feel comfortable putting up public pics at the min. only as i wouldnt know what family, friends and work who say if they found out, but time will tell. i dont message ANYBODY without sending photo and the choice if they wanted more. " So do you think that members of your family, friends or work colleagues are on fab? Surely if they were to say anything then they would also be outing themselves. Most people on here block people they know in vanilla life if they recognise them and don't want to find themselves in awkward situations. | |||
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"When I see no public pics I stop scrolling so the text wouldn't matter. If I get past the photos then I like to see a positive, laid back attitude and specifically what and who the person is looking for as well as what they feel they can offer. Bit of humour and personality. " I scroll past if no public pics too. Don't mind if I have to wait for face pic in messages but you don't have to show your face to post something to give people an idea what your like | |||
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"im going to jump on the bandwagon if you dont mind, any tips for me that i can do to change my profile? Text wise, same as above You have public photos which is good. Maybe a body shot? Also...you appear to be sitting on the toilet in one of them...?" Lol | |||
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"thanks jemima, i dont feel comfortable putting up public pics at the min. only as i wouldnt know what family, friends and work who say if they found out, but time will tell. i dont message ANYBODY without sending photo and the choice if they wanted more. So do you think that members of your family, friends or work colleagues are on fab? Surely if they were to say anything then they would also be outing themselves. Most people on here block people they know in vanilla life if they recognise them and don't want to find themselves in awkward situations. " I tell most people I'm on here and if they don't like it, we are no longer friends. | |||
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"I'm put off by; A cock for an avatar A silhouette avatar Girls with a hint of your cock. The word ' genuine' 'Ask me anything' " All of this! | |||
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"User name and no pics stopped me in my tracks before I even read any further ! " Same here Oh and the guys that brag on cock size | |||
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