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So hard to get a meet since coming back to fabs

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By *igCUTcock86 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

Hi all, was on here a couple years back with my same profile and met some really nice people.since coming back its impossible to get a meet..any ideas as to why? Is my profile disrespectful in any way? Thanks in advance

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

For me there's nothing that would attract me to your profile

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Are you messaging people? If so, what type of messages are you sending. Your profile and pics arent very exciting. How long have you been back on?

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By *igCUTcock86 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

Lol Ok cool cool.I've asked as to why though and any ideas rather than to just be told there's nothing that would attract you.as everyone is attracted to different things.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Add more pics(not cock), rewrite your bio. Then it would depend on what your sending people when messaging them

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

You can wank me off if you like, But I'm not travelling far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a single male.... sorry dude but on here woman rule !!!!! And you thought it was a mans world. Just keep the faith they will surrender bwhahahaha

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By *igCUTcock86 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

Hi jemima thanks for your input its appreciated.ill spice my pics up a little.yeah I am messaging people but not the kinda guy that messages the whole site just to get a meet.been back on for around 4 weeks.gonna just start going back to the clubs and see what happens.thanks again for the pic advice

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

The very first sentence on your profile put me off

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

It's the same profile that you had a few years ago?

You don't think that would need updating?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Possibly not put your whole profile text into one sentence?

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"The very first sentence on your profile put me off"

which is why I've suggested a re-write

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By *igCUTcock86 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

Thanks for the advice candi

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

I'm in agreement with the other ladies, nothing about your profile would get me near you. Especially the first line, if you were successful before then surely you have an idea of how things get you meets??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm you should have stuck around OP as you can see that in your absence truckloads of 30 yr old men with attitude and large cocks have been shipped in...

Competition is stiff!!!

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By *igCUTcock86 OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

Honest thanks for all the advice ladies and gents

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There doesn't seem to be any referencing to Star Wars....?

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

If at first you don't succeed......

Try, try and carrying on trying

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"For me there's nothing that would attract me to your profile"

with the exception of the cock pic ( not for me) his profile is better than yours I would say,but unfortunately for guys all a female has to do is open a profile to get meets whereas a guy has to put in a lot more effort,how would you suggest he improve his profile to a level that would interest you then?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"If at first you don't succeed......

Try, try and carrying on trying "

unless its parachuting and if at first you dont succeed then you're fucked

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You've been on this profile a couple of years though?

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"For me there's nothing that would attract me to your profile

with the exception of the cock pic ( not for me) his profile is better than yours I would say,but unfortunately for guys all a female has to do is open a profile to get meets whereas a guy has to put in a lot more effort,how would you suggest he improve his profile to a level that would interest you then?"

The difference is I'm not complaining of no meets nor asking for advice. I've suggested improvements further up

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By *omeo7xxxMan
over a year ago

London

To be fair to you pal, i also find it hard to get meets sometimes. There are so many options for the ladies they can afford to be fussy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it takes time to meet people on here..as for me they my profile and pics arent very exciting which is why i not made many friends

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"For me there's nothing that would attract me to your profile

with the exception of the cock pic ( not for me) his profile is better than yours I would say,but unfortunately for guys all a female has to do is open a profile to get meets whereas a guy has to put in a lot more effort,how would you suggest he improve his profile to a level that would interest you then?"

She did not ask for advice on her profile from you or from anyone else!

It is against the forum rules to comment on profiles unless a specific request has been made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it takes time to meet people on here..as for me they my profile and pics arent very exciting which is why i not made many friends "

Errr that works both ways

Woof!

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"To be fair to you pal, i also find it hard to get meets sometimes. There are so many options for the ladies they can afford to be fussy! "

That suggests that women aren't fussy outside fab? I'd call it selective. I'm selective about who I spend time with sexually or otherwise, on and off this site. Not fucking anyone with a pulse isn't necessarily a bad thing.....

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"To be fair to you pal, i also find it hard to get meets sometimes. There are so many options for the ladies they can afford to be fussy!

That suggests that women aren't fussy outside fab? I'd call it selective. I'm selective about who I spend time with sexually or otherwise, on and off this site. Not fucking anyone with a pulse isn't necessarily a bad thing..... "

Wishful thinking

It explains to them why they are not getting any here

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By *omeo7xxxMan
over a year ago

London

yes your right wrong choice of word, selective is better, however that was not a negative comment towards anyone more of an explanation of why he may not be geting any meets.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"yes your right wrong choice of word, selective is better, however that was not a negative comment towards anyone more of an explanation of why he may not be geting any meets. "

I know, it just appears so much on these types of threads.....usually followed by 'women on here have over inflated egos'. I know it's a struggle for many guys but I also think lots of guys are having a lot of fun on here. Probably depends on various factors...location, profile, message style, expectations, perhaps messaging the wrong profiles...among others.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"To be fair to you pal, i also find it hard to get meets sometimes. There are so many options for the ladies they can afford to be fussy!

That suggests that women aren't fussy outside fab? I'd call it selective. I'm selective about who I spend time with sexually or otherwise, on and off this site. Not fucking anyone with a pulse isn't necessarily a bad thing.....

Wishful thinking

It explains to them why they are not getting any here "

It's always the woman's fault...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Honest opinion OP? Your profile blurb is very uninspiring, reads much like hundreds of other single male profiles on here, you need to stand out from the crowd, and inject some of your personality into it.

You explain about your veris that aren't visible, as one of those is from a single male, you might want to explain that one given you're listed as straight, or are you Fab straight.

Your pics are equally uninspiring, one over the shoulder body shot and a disembodied cock shot aren't that appealing to most to be honest.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it takes time to meet people on here..as for me they my profile and pics arent very exciting which is why i not made many friends "
ps which is why i do not send mail lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search lordlucan to find out how to do it.

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham


"Your a single male.... sorry dude but on here woman rule !!!!! And you thought it was a mans world. Just keep the faith they will surrender bwhahahaha "

Hardly. Been let down, wasted time, they talk the talk but bail at an offer of a meet with 3 single guys- just this week...

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