FabSwingers.com forum: cpl strain x

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hey all lovin couple here, although we both said we wanted to try new things n explore n decided to give the site a try it seems to be causin a few problems x any suggestions?

or anyone else have difficulties along these lines xxx

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

If it is causing any problems in your relationship then close your membership and walk away from it...it really isn't worth that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

talk talk talk talk talk to each other until your blue in the face, only you two can really solve any problems.

BUT you need to at least elude to what the problem is if you want a positive comments and possible help.

Just my two penneth xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it is causing any problems in your relationship then close your membership and walk away from it...it really isn't worth that."

Totally agree...

If one of you are unsure about swinging or feel pressured into swinging then your relationship must come 1st.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"hey all lovin couple here, although we both said we wanted to try new things n explore n decided to give the site a try it seems to be causin a few problems x any suggestions?

or anyone else have difficulties along these lines xxx"

Not saying what the problem is might mean you won't get the advice you need....but whatever it is, if it is a major problem for either or both of you, then maybe swinging isn't for you.

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By *r and Mrs FlintstoneCouple
over a year ago

bridgwater

hi guys , if you have any jealousy issues or any problems then walk away until your both sure its what you want . dont ruin a good relationship

we were members for months before taking the plunge , wanted to be sure we could handle it . we have a great sex life anyway and the swinging just adds the occasional something extra .

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Total agreement with every post above.

Sort out the problem/s then come back if u still want to.

Remember this is only meant to be sex,nothing important!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like Rugby said you dont say what problems swinging or fab is causing you but if swinging got in the way of our relationship we would stop swinging xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like Rugby said you dont say what problems swinging or fab is causing you but if swinging got in the way of our relationship we would stop swinging xx "

We spent years fantasising about seeing each other playing with others. Until you do IT for the first time you don't know how you will react. Glad we took the plunge now though. As other posters have said, if you are unsure......put it on the back burner for now or knock it on the head completely if it ain't for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thank u all for ur comments x maybe we need a gd old chat n see what were doing n wanting xxxx

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By *r and Mrs FlintstoneCouple
over a year ago

bridgwater

hope all goes well and remember honesty is the best policy

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Agree with everything said and also think the fact your openly asking for advice suggests you're the type of people who can talk openly so the outlook should be good!

Hope to get it sorted as it can be a LOT of fun but only if your both 100%.

Good luck and talk it through, be honest and then whatever you decide will be the right thing.

Cheers D&K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol and believe me it never gets easier overtime

I have been in a couple of long term swinging relationships now and basically communication and compromise are the key

Guidelines ( I hates the rule word) take a long time to establish as every situation throws up new points and challenges

Im now in a new relationship (six months) and we have already started to establish our guidelines

And it will be an ongoing thing

Listen to each other talk it all out slowly (NO BOOZE TALK lol) and you will get there

Good luck and have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with everyone . We have always ssid that if you don't have a strong relationship then you can't swing. Need to have trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. More to life than this lifestyle.

Regards Sean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If in doubt do nowt xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think you just need to have a good talk about whatever the problem is hope you work things out x

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