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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people generally report to admin any kind of wrong doing?

For example I've seen a few people complaining of single men acting as a couple. What proof/information would actually make you report them?

Would you report on instinct or only if you could prove your doubts?

I'm guessing most would just block then but do we owe it to fellow genuine fabbers safety/privacy to allow admin to investigate and decide?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake pics!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Yes we report when warranted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I report if required too.

If they tell me they are no longer a couple and its just the guy still using a couples profile or fake pics etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I report anyone offering services for money and anyone who's clearly fake (images from Google for example).

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Absolutely.

But only if we are 100% sure of our facts.

There is no point complaining about timewasters, fakes and abusive twits on fab if you don't actually bother putting in an official complaint to the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I report for a number of reasons ..

It's allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I report trolls and anyone who's abusive, racist, sexist etc in the forums.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Sometimes they will reveal in messages that they're not a couple and it's just a guy so if you report via the message instead of just via they profile admin can use the message as prof to validate your report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I report everything.

As a trans bi person I have two protected status in law so I'm effectively shit proof and above lesser mortals.

I've reported this thread because I've twisted everything you've all said and claimed it's highly offensive to my sensitivities.

As a result the thread will be pulled shortly and you'll all have me to thank for your six month ban sat together on the step.

You are very welcome.

Wibble

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Absolutely.

But only if we are 100% sure of our facts.

There is no point complaining about timewasters, fakes and abusive twits on fab if you don't actually bother putting in an official complaint to the site.

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You don't need to be 100% sure. If you suspect any wrongdoing, report it! Admin have the tools to follow up and prove if there is mischief afoot.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

nah, don't report anyone what's the point. well I've reported a few really bad racist messages but not often.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I have reported profiles that messaged me stating just the man playing split up with partner.I also report when I get messages offering me money for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have reported couples profiles that are actually just a single guy.

I have also reported profiles that freely advertise drugs.

Most profiles are still in use with exactly the same statements on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. I wanted to make sure is wasn't a live and let live culture before going ahead with a few things. X

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We report pics that also appear on a number of porn sites. Also couples profiles that make no mention of a female and appear to just be a guy on his own.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We tend to report single men who on their profile show clear facial pictures of women engaged in sex whilst carefully hiding their own faces - there is absolutely no way that Fab can confirm these women have given consent and without consent such postings are now illegal. Admin always remove them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's really handy to know. It honestly did not occur to me! Doh

Wish I could 'thumbs up' everyone's comments, so helpful. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reported offering money,& abuse a couple of times..nothings ever changed on their profiles..

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North of Okehampton, South of Bideford

Really...Report..?

We have reported a couple of times when we have had abusive messages (You dont need proof Admin can see what has been written assumably ?)

What they did was just blocked us from seeing him and him us, nothing else. Friends confirmed he was still on the site.

Some will just rejoin under a different name anyway

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

If I get offered money for sex, get messaged by a single woman asking me to meet her FB on his own (and she is only verified by him), am sent obviously fake pics, am messaged by the male half of a couple where there is no evidence the female half exists (including in veris), that kind of thing etc. then I report. I am less inclined to report fake pics if I spot them on the forum since they haven't attempted to meet me or anyone to my knowledge using them, but if they comment on a pic thread then I have been known to allude to the fact I've rumbled them. They all, without exception, brazen it out though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I report everything.

As a trans bi person I have two protected status in law so I'm effectively shit proof and above lesser mortals.

I've reported this thread because I've twisted everything you've all said and claimed it's highly offensive to my sensitivities.

As a result the thread will be pulled shortly and you'll all have me to thank for your six month ban sat together on the step.

You are very welcome.

Wibble "

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"We report pics that also appear on a number of porn sites. Also couples profiles that make no mention of a female and appear to just be a guy on his own. "

But how do you know that they have posted the pics on porn sites themselves?

My pics aren't on this site alone.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"We report pics that also appear on a number of porn sites. Also couples profiles that make no mention of a female and appear to just be a guy on his own.

But how do you know that they have posted the pics on porn sites themselves?

My pics aren't on this site alone."

Appearing on other dating sites or home made porn sites is one thing. Popping up on a several pages of results for porn blogs and image dumps under different names and from different countries is another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I report when offered money

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Do people generally report to admin any kind of wrong doing?

For example I've seen a few people complaining of single men acting as a couple. What proof/information would actually make you report them?

Would you report on instinct or only if you could prove your doubts?

I'm guessing most would just block then but do we owe it to fellow genuine fabbers safety/privacy to allow admin to investigate and decide?"

Nope , we've got far better things to do .

And on the two occasions we've reported timewasters who agree to meet at an arranged time and place , nothing has been done , so why bother ?

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By *r and Mrs DebaucheryCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We don't report as we don't let things on here bother us, so why would we go to the effort of reporting. I know some people make it their business to report on every little thing, I find that rather childish, a bit like tell-tale' in the school playground.

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By *r and Mrs DebaucheryCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do people generally report to admin any kind of wrong doing?

For example I've seen a few people complaining of single men acting as a couple. What proof/information would actually make you report them?

Would you report on instinct or only if you could prove your doubts?

I'm guessing most would just block then but do we owe it to fellow genuine fabbers safety/privacy to allow admin to investigate and decide?

Nope , we've got far better things to do .

And on the two occasions we've reported timewasters who agree to meet at an arranged time and place , nothing has been done , so why bother ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't report as we don't let things on here bother us, so why would we go to the effort of reporting. I know some people make it their business to report on every little thing, I find that rather childish, a bit like tell-tale' in the school playground. "

Probably the same kind of folk who tell kids to stop playing outside their house as they're being too noisy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, with timewasters fakers abusive types and a sick bastard who asked if his dog could join us....

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I rarely report profiles but when I have its because I've been offered money for sex, had more than 1 abusive message from the same person or I've seen or been told my pics are being used on someone else's profile (fucking cheek!)

I prefer to block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've reported two profiles. One was an abusive couple and another was someone we had never met asking to swap veris.

H x

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Just reported someone now..

Had a few messages and arranged to meet..

Failed to show up and never even let me know despite being online..

40 years of age so old enough to know better...blocked as well.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't go out looking for people to report, but if I get fake pics or couples pretending to be single men I will, as it is unfair on me and other people they message.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Do people generally report to admin any kind of wrong doing?

For example I've seen a few people complaining of single men acting as a couple. What proof/information would actually make you report them? "

We tend to report couples plofiles where the profile says "Just male meeting now", or "Mrs no longer meeting"

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've reported dozens of dodgy profiles... Mostly ones that a using pics from the internet.. That's one of my biggest bug bears as mods should be checking that before they get approved...

Also reported many for wrong 'sex' i.e, its a guy hiding behind an old couples profile etc...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We don't go out of our way to report people either but some cases have to be done. For example if children are mentioned in an inappropriate manner. :-\

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fake pics!"

Darn right I do too.

Some even make it into the list of most fabbed!!

Come on the 10% of proper people on Fab!!! Google search the muscle bound handsome hunk with the 12" hardon. Its probably from a gay porn site!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way...have my pics been on a gay porn site. ..how rude.

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"I report everything.

As a trans bi person I have two protected status in law so I'm effectively shit proof and above lesser mortals.

I've reported this thread because I've twisted everything you've all said and claimed it's highly offensive to my sensitivities.

As a result the thread will be pulled shortly and you'll all have me to thank for your six month ban sat together on the step.

You are very welcome.

Wibble "

Love your sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I report everything.

As a trans bi person I have two protected status in law so I'm effectively shit proof and above lesser mortals.

I've reported this thread because I've twisted everything you've all said and claimed it's highly offensive to my sensitivities.

As a result the thread will be pulled shortly and you'll all have me to thank for your six month ban sat together on the step.

You are very welcome.

Wibble

Love your sense of humour "

It's not humour. It's self importance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i bet theres alot who report people for just saying no thanks too ? we only report if we get a abusive nasty type message ... the rest of it has nothing to do with us let other do as they want and anyway so easy to spot a fake most of the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After reading all of the comments, I've realised that everyone has to sift through quite a bit of rubbish to find what/who they want.

I can only conclude that reporting is a way that helps everyone in the long term by cleaning up the site.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I report - usually it's profiles asking for money or fake singles profiles by a couple or fake couples profile by a single

They're usually easy to spot e.g. Single profile saying 'only meet with hubby,FB etc'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen people say they have reported people for sending them a picture of there cocks I thought this site was all about flashing your bits to everybody lol

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Ive reported rude and abusive people ....there's no need ....

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