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By *ay4you OP   Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

I literally don't get no replies , I know the odds are stacked in my favour but all my messages go unread , is my luck really that bad

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By *ichie9648Man
over a year ago

Manchester / Leeds

Yes - not really a swingers site - virtual dating site. Forget it if you are a single man !!!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"I literally don't get no replies , I know the odds are stacked in my favour but all my messages go unread , is my luck really that bad "
people will look at your profile and pictures when you send them a message op, just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally don't get no replies , I know the odds are stacked in my favour but all my messages go unread , is my luck really that bad "

Your profile says that you are looking for one woman. Surely it would be easier to find that on a dating site than a swingers site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does sound as though you are looking for something fairly exclusive and 'relationshippy' rather than meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I literally don't get no replies , I know the odds are stacked in my favour but all my messages go unread , is my luck really that bad "

'I don't get no replies' translates to you get tons of replies... so WELL DONE!

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By *ittyskitchenWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Personally I like to see a smiling face. Just saying

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"people will look at your profile and pictures when you send them a message op, just saying. "

It's true

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By *ay4you OP   Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"people will look at your profile and pictures when you send them a message op, just saying.

It's true"

In other words I am ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people will look at your profile and pictures when you send them a message op, just saying.

It's true

In other words I am ugly "

no...in other words, people will read the profile text you have written to give them an idea of any possible attraction or compatibility..if there's not much there, then there's not much to respond to..people will obviously go on physical attraction to, but the profile text is equally important to a lot of people..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"
your 100% but some time patience is a loss too due to trying 4 years of and one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol your 100% but some time patience is a loss too due to trying 4 years of and one lol "

I don't believe patience is the key. You need patience when there are one hundred customers for 5 checkouts in the supermarket. Join the back of the queue and patiently wait you turn. But when it's 100 men trying to get the attention of 5 women it's a very different story. There is no queue for a man to join so he can patiently wait til it's his turn for a fuck with whoever happens to be the prize at the end. With so relatively few women on a Fab it is mathematically impossible for all men to get lucky, no matter how how patient they are.

Mrs

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Patience is the key lol your 100% but some time patience is a loss too due to trying 4 years of and one lol

I don't believe patience is the key. You need patience when there are one hundred customers for 5 checkouts in the supermarket. Join the back of the queue and patiently wait you turn. But when it's 100 men trying to get the attention of 5 women it's a very different story. There is no queue for a man to join so he can patiently wait til it's his turn for a fuck with whoever happens to be the prize at the end. With so relatively few women on a Fab it is mathematically impossible for all men to get lucky, no matter how how patient they are.

Mrs"

Actually its not mathematically impossible. If each woman saw a new man every week I reckon it would be possible for each man to get two or three meets with a single woman in a year. That's on the basis of men outnumbering women by twenty to one.

Obviously women don't work like that but it's not impossible.

I do like a bit of pedantry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol your 100% but some time patience is a loss too due to trying 4 years of and one lol

I don't believe patience is the key. You need patience when there are one hundred customers for 5 checkouts in the supermarket. Join the back of the queue and patiently wait you turn. But when it's 100 men trying to get the attention of 5 women it's a very different story. There is no queue for a man to join so he can patiently wait til it's his turn for a fuck with whoever happens to be the prize at the end. With so relatively few women on a Fab it is mathematically impossible for all men to get lucky, no matter how how patient they are.

Mrs

Actually its not mathematically impossible. If each woman saw a new man every week I reckon it would be possible for each man to get two or three meets with a single woman in a year. That's on the basis of men outnumbering women by twenty to one.

Obviously women don't work like that but it's not impossible.

I do like a bit of pedantry "

No doubt there are a lot of men who don't see why women can work at that rate, so that they all (with a bit of patience) get a fuck

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Patience is the key lol your 100% but some time patience is a loss too due to trying 4 years of and one lol

I don't believe patience is the key. You need patience when there are one hundred customers for 5 checkouts in the supermarket. Join the back of the queue and patiently wait you turn. But when it's 100 men trying to get the attention of 5 women it's a very different story. There is no queue for a man to join so he can patiently wait til it's his turn for a fuck with whoever happens to be the prize at the end. With so relatively few women on a Fab it is mathematically impossible for all men to get lucky, no matter how how patient they are.

Mrs

Actually its not mathematically impossible. If each woman saw a new man every week I reckon it would be possible for each man to get two or three meets with a single woman in a year. That's on the basis of men outnumbering women by twenty to one.

Obviously women don't work like that but it's not impossible.

I do like a bit of pedantry

No doubt there are a lot of men who don't see why women can work at that rate, so that they all (with a bit of patience) get a fuck "

Indeed. Great profile by the way (he said in a "my mate fancies you" kind of way)

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Patience is the key lol"

He has been; for over a year!

Next suggestion?

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Patience is the key lol"

Do you have that saved so you just hit a button and it pastes in automatically?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Patience is the key lol your 100% but some time patience is a loss too due to trying 4 years of and one lol

I don't believe patience is the key. You need patience when there are one hundred customers for 5 checkouts in the supermarket. Join the back of the queue and patiently wait you turn. But when it's 100 men trying to get the attention of 5 women it's a very different story. There is no queue for a man to join so he can patiently wait til it's his turn for a fuck with whoever happens to be the prize at the end. With so relatively few women on a Fab it is mathematically impossible for all men to get lucky, no matter how how patient they are.

Mrs

Actually its not mathematically impossible. If each woman saw a new man every week I reckon it would be possible for each man to get two or three meets with a single woman in a year. That's on the basis of men outnumbering women by twenty to one.

Obviously women don't work like that but it's not impossible.

I do like a bit of pedantry "

I can design a process which is far more efficient than that. And as the designer, I am ofcourse excluded from participating

Each woman can have three men at a time. And if she is on a conveyor belt, it will reduce the time for the men to move to make room for the next set

Or one can simply outsource the whole thing to Vanderlande

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol your 100% but some time patience is a loss too due to trying 4 years of and one lol

I don't believe patience is the key. You need patience when there are one hundred customers for 5 checkouts in the supermarket. Join the back of the queue and patiently wait you turn. But when it's 100 men trying to get the attention of 5 women it's a very different story. There is no queue for a man to join so he can patiently wait til it's his turn for a fuck with whoever happens to be the prize at the end. With so relatively few women on a Fab it is mathematically impossible for all men to get lucky, no matter how how patient they are.

Mrs

Actually its not mathematically impossible. If each woman saw a new man every week I reckon it would be possible for each man to get two or three meets with a single woman in a year. That's on the basis of men outnumbering women by twenty to one.

Obviously women don't work like that but it's not impossible.

I do like a bit of pedantry

I can design a process which is far more efficient than that. And as the designer, I am ofcourse excluded from participating

Each woman can have three men at a time. And if she is on a conveyor belt, it will reduce the time for the men to move to make room for the next set

Or one can simply outsource the whole thing to Vanderlande"

Nah! Men just form an orderly queue and subscribe to some of Shag's patience. We'll get to you eventually, but boy will us women be busy

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Back to the op. You don't seem that bad looking but you do seem to like the bad boy gangster look. That would put a lot of women off. I would go for more neutral pics with smiles and perhaps showing off your body a bit.

Also by saying you want women only you are severely limiting your options. Couples out number women by about three to one and if you were open to seeing couples you might have more luck.

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura


"I literally don't get no replies , I know the odds are stacked in my favour but all my messages go unread , is my luck really that bad "

(Mrs)

Hi Jay

Would you perhaps be interested in group play? We play as a couple, but we both like group play with many men, would this interest you? Or is it just one-one play you are after? Or maybe meet a couple and just play with the woman whilst the man looks on? My hubby loves this kind of play, you could try it to see if it floats your boat, if it does you could work your way up to going to clubs to play.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be a disclaimer when you sign up as a single male.

" you will be ignored like you have never been before....prepare thyself"

Op it's not just you and while your profile or pics might have an effect, i think it is now just part of fab culture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't recommend a man pursues couples unless they really desire playing with a couple. If it's just a lady the OP wants and is only putting up with the husband being there, then that will make everybody feel uncomfortable. My view is that the OP flogging a dead horse looking for a single lady on this site, when places like Tinder have way more single women.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I wouldn't recommend a man pursues couples unless they really desire playing with a couple. If it's just a lady the OP wants and is only putting up with the husband being there, then that will make everybody feel uncomfortable. My view is that the OP flogging a dead horse looking for a single lady on this site, when places like Tinder have way more single women. "

I sometimes get the impression that a lot of single guys sign up here under the impression that as it is a explicitly sexual site they will be beating away the offers from women and they are amazed when it doesn't happen.

As you say they would be better off going somewhere less explicitly sexual but where there are more women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't recommend a man pursues couples unless they really desire playing with a couple. If it's just a lady the OP wants and is only putting up with the husband being there, then that will make everybody feel uncomfortable. My view is that the OP flogging a dead horse looking for a single lady on this site, when places like Tinder have way more single women.

I sometimes get the impression that a lot of single guys sign up here under the impression that as it is a explicitly sexual site they will be beating away the offers from women and they are amazed when it doesn't happen.

As you say they would be better off going somewhere less explicitly sexual but where there are more women. "

Even though a lot of guys no doubt start off like that after a few weeks it turns into " am i disfigured or something?"

I don't expect to be Hugh Heffner on here

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