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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've not been on here for too long, but I've not really had much interest from anyone regarding a meet.. Is it my age, my profile text, pictures or what?? Can somebody please take a look at my profile and hopefully you can tell me where I'm going wrong.

Thanks!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

You are 19 and only looking for single fems...

Why do you think your not getting meets. i have been slated for saying this before, but at 19 i started swinging,in the real world.

A wise man once said,if it isn't happening for you out their,why do you think it will be any different in here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you should be out in pubs/clubs, working for it yopu will appreciate it more once you got some one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok...constructive advice!

Most on here have limited play time. When browsing you're looking for people that match your requirements. Your profile and pic would not look out of place on Facebook. Why would anyone waste their precious time asking 20 questions and pulling teeth to find out if your compatible with them, when A N Other has a full profile and tantalising photos.

You also have to manage your expectations! At 19 you're not going to appeal to the masses: sorry if that's a shock to you. Contrary to popular belief not all women have a Mrs Robinson fantasy. Some of us find the idea of playing with someone younger than their kids abhorrent. Similarly, would you really shag someone old enough to be your gran?!!

That said, some people actively seek younger people, but you have to sell yourself: and currently you've made zero effort.

It may seem unfair but some may think if you can't be arsed to put effort into your own profile, how much effort will you put into meeting!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile only tells me that you are 19, live in central London, fairly athletic rugby player type looking for NSA sex.

You've given no real indication over the sort of ladies you are looking for apart from up the age of 45 which says 'anything will do I'm not at all fussy' which can be off-putting.

Yes, being only 19 does put a fair few of us off but there are folk out there that'll find you appealing.... you'll need a good bit of patience whilst you look for meets.

Good luck and good on you coming on here to ask advice!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Do you have a facebook profile? A lot of younger people put a huge amount of effort into creating their profile there, try a similar approach here and you will increase your chances.

good luck

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