FabSwingers.com forum: Advice required - looking to arrange FFM meet up

By *ailando OP Couple
over a year ago

manchester

We want to arrange a meet up with another lady in a couple of weeks in Manchester.

The night will start with a meal and drinks and then lead back to our hotel. It will no doubt involve lots of flirting throughout the night leading to an explosion of sensual feelings back in the room!

We will cover all costs.

We have had threesomes before with a ladies but have paid for escorts. Both times were bloody amazing and the benefit of using an escort is that it's NSA.

We now however want to move to the next stage. We do not want to try the swinger club scene just yet but would like to try a threesome with a lady that is not financially motivated.

We have tried to contact women on here but there seems to be a lot of fakes.

Has anyone got any recommendations for how we can find a lady to join us on our night of debauchery.

Thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Post in the meets section and message single women who are looking for the same as you.

Are you involving all three of you? If so I suggest more pictures of the guy.

Also you say not financially motivated but offer to cover all costs

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By *ailando OP Couple
over a year ago

manchester

We have done that thanks. Hopefully that might work.

We would never invite a single girl out and expect her to pay a penny.

There would be no conditions placed whatsoever! If there was no spark then nothing would happen.

The woman would come back to the hotel room willingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Post in the meets section and message single women who are looking for the same as you.

Are you involving all three of you? If so I suggest more pictures of the guy.

Also you say not financially motivated but offer to cover all costs

If I was planning to meet with a couple and spend the night at their hotel following a meal I would expect to pay my fair share or I think I would probably feel I 'owed' them something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck

We would never offer to pay all the costs it's a three way meeting split three ways! This is the arrangement we have with a regular lady, most single ladies don't want to be treated like a free escort and if they offer something towards the costs even if you don't accept that's a good thing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be an idea to offer a coffee meet first, because none of your verifications are from meeting people. It could start alarm bells ringing for some ladies. And maybe offer a opportunity of a chat by mobile as well, especially lady to lady. As some joint profiles sometimes at meet time become single profile, or girl friend is not feeling well, so it's just me I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alternatively, cut your losses as your chances of arranging a meet are slim to none, bite the bullet and meet a couple instead...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

We want to arrange a meet up with another lady in a couple of weeks in Manchester.

We will cover all costs.

We have had threesomes before with a ladies but have paid for escorts. Both times were bloody amazing and the benefit of using an escort is that it's NSA.

We now however want to move to the next stage. We do not want to try the swinger club scene just yet but would like to try a threesome with a lady that is not financially motivated.

We have tried to contact women on here but there seems to be a lot of fakes.

Has anyone got any recommendations for how we can find a lady to join us on our night of debauchery.

Thanks

I would start by splitting the bills with the woman you invite to join you. I always feel like a hooker if everything is paid for me, and I'm not interested in feeling like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also ensuring that you're bisexual rather than just curious before you invite someone to bed with you. It would be shit for her to turn up and then you work out that you're not interested in women.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Post in the meets section and message single women who are looking for the same as you.

Are you involving all three of you? If so I suggest more pictures of the guy.

Also you say not financially motivated but offer to cover all costs

If I was planning to meet with a couple and spend the night at their hotel following a meal I would expect to pay my fair share or I think I would probably feel I 'owed' them something. "
everything is more complicated these days.if I hold a door open for a lady by that logic she owes me a ham shank

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP You say there seem to be a lot of fakes on here but have you ever considered people might think you are fake when your photos are all a year or two old and you haven't actually met anyone from Fab face to face yet, not even for a social.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i was doing this i would want to pay my way. My biggest concern would be safety. I wouldn't do this kind of meet with a couple I hadn't met before... i think you're jumping the gun

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By *ailando OP Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Post in the meets section and message single women who are looking for the same as you.

Are you involving all three of you? If so I suggest more pictures of the guy.

Also you say not financially motivated but offer to cover all costs

If I was planning to meet with a couple and spend the night at their hotel following a meal I would expect to pay my fair share or I think I would probably feel I 'owed' them something. everything is more complicated these days.if I hold a door open for a lady by that logic she owes me a ham shank

We agree!!

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By *ailando OP Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"If i was doing this i would want to pay my way. My biggest concern would be safety. I wouldn't do this kind of meet with a couple I hadn't met before... i think you're jumping the gun"

Good point. Thanks.

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By *ailando OP Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"It might be an idea to offer a coffee meet first, because none of your verifications are from meeting people. It could start alarm bells ringing for some ladies. And maybe offer a opportunity of a chat by mobile as well, especially lady to lady. As some joint profiles sometimes at meet time become single profile, or girl friend is not feeling well, so it's just me I'm afraid. "

Excellent advice. Cheers.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Alternatively, cut your losses as your chances of arranging a meet are slim to none, bite the bullet and meet a couple instead..."

I think this is quiet a good idea, if you have no play veris a single lady may be a little hesitant to meet. We were still looking but ended up playing with a TV & a couple first, the play veris seem to have maybe relaxed concerns & we have recently had an mff meet with others chatting that are interested.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Alternatively, cut your losses as your chances of arranging a meet are slim to none, bite the bullet and meet a couple instead...

Oh & it has opened our eyes a little so we are still meeting T-Girls & couples, they were planned meets that we instigated not on the spur "Oh you'll do" ones, that we would find offensive but I know that is sort of how it reads, its not meant to..my bad

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP I think some meet verifications are going to be high on the agenda for any lady on this type of meet. She needs to feel confident that you have met and played before.

About 2 years on site with no meets will concern many.

There are lots of things that a single woman needs to know about how the couple will be, in terms of her being 100% included, not just an extra, and no female jealousy etc etc

The prostitute experience comment might not be helpful.

You have commented on clubs, but that is a great way to meet people.and remedy some of these things.

Good luck though.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

OP do you like dancing ? It's just that I'm learning Spanish and your name is 'dancing' in Spanish.

Doesn't really answer your question but I was just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consider going to a swingers club, for example Cupids have a ladies night downstairs, all welcome upstairs - you are bound to meet lots of sexy ladies who are into ff and fmf play - also you don't have to play at the club - you can meet people socially there, chat about preferences, experiences and the lifestyle then arrange subsequent meets, m x

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