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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wanting advice tips in preparing my virgin arse for guy fucking me - I have been using a butt plug but want my orifice to be enlarged so making it easier for a cock to enter.

Any advice on how often and best type of butt plug to use please xxx

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Your profile says you have done the deed already

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I have but it is tight and I want my arse hole to be relaxed for easy entry. Xxxx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Someone gave some really great advice once,I can't remember who it was though,maybe they will post again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hope they send advice it is needed!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I hope they send advice it is needed! "

Do a forum search you may find it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I have been fucked by Richard and really enjoyed the experience - having just removed my butt plug!!!!

But I do want to be fucked by friends who have thick larger cocks AND want my orifice to be enlarged suitable for easy entry and little pain... XXxX

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I would suggest anyone considering anal sex conisiders the following advice: •Douche well. If you think your clean it help you relax.

•Use plenty of good lube. Personally I prefer a hybrid silicone/water mixture and I always go for a little around the outside and a few ml inside, via a lube shooter.

•Foreplay shoild help. Work onto the session with massage leading to rim play and then fingering.

•You can get muscle relaxants to assist with anal most of these seem to be based on plant extracts, from things like jojoba. Unfortunately most of them also include desensitizer which I try and avoid as I feel that pain response is a good thing as it indicates things are being done badly.

•Finally, and most controversial, there are poppers (alkyl nitrites) which when inhaled lead to short-term spike in NO in the blood which in tern relaxes the smooth muscles including the anal shpincter which can make penetration easier.

There is a fetish subculture interested in anal stretching. These typically fall into two groups those using a series of increasing size dildos to gradually open themselves up. The other group recomend the use of long wear, wide neck plugs which are believed to allow the sphinter miscles to become adjusted to being stretched. Personally I think the former method more productive when I have been trying to play with some larger toys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Many thanks for your very full reply explaining helpfu tips on how to proceed in order to enjoy being fucked by a guy and also give pleasure to the guy by accepting and telling him how much I enjoy being fucked.

It is a two way sexual enjoyment together. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile says you have done the deed already

It's great when someone else does the leg work on these types of threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a pillow close by so you can scream into it

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Your profile says you have done the deed already

It's great when someone else does the leg work on these types of threads. "

My pleasure. I like to know if it's an attention seeking thread or genuine request before I bother replying properly.

OP if I'm being really prepared I would watch my diet few days before. Lots of fibre. On the day I'd douche and take Imodium. But key thing is lots of lube and patience by your partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have but it is tight and I want my arse hole to be relaxed for easy entry. Xxxx"

Well you're not a 'virgin' then are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use poppers or desensitising lube/muscle relaxant.

The painful part, for me, only happens without any anal massage first. I find fingers work perfectly for me. You can work from one upwards.

It will help if you do it to yourself regularly, you need your muscles to be warmed up and ready for penetration.

I used to have regular anal with minimal lube-sometimes just a little spit-with no or slight initial pain. Then, it's really enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have but it is tight and I want my arse hole to be relaxed for easy entry. Xxxx

Well you're not a 'virgin' then are you?"

If richard happens to be the second penis in the pic of hin and another guy ... then im not sure it counted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It is a genuine request for information that will help me to prepare and then to enjoy without too much pain the sexual enjoyment with all comers espec the well endowed guy.... xx

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Some useful literature about on 'bum fucking'

Try the 'gay men's guide to anal sex'

Get it via the Terence Higgins trust..

Wish I could have a pound for all the 'virgin straight men' on here who want to be fucked..

A pinch of salt springs to mind!

Enjoy OP .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have but it is tight and I want my arse hole to be relaxed for easy entry. Xxxx

Well you're not a 'virgin' then are you?

If richard happens to be the second penis in the pic of hin and another guy ... then im not sure it counted

Ah ha!! I see!

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"If richard happens to be the second penis in the pic of hin and another guy ... then im not sure it counted

I had to look after that comment and I'm not sure what to say..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If richard happens to be the second penis in the pic of hin and another guy ... then im not sure it counted

I had to look after that comment and I'm not sure what to say..

He's terrified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanting advice tips in preparing my virgin arse for guy fucking me - I have been using a butt plug but want my orifice to be enlarged so making it easier for a cock to enter.

Any advice on how often and best type of butt plug to use please xxx"

Isn't it better to be tight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some good advice on here. I get so uptight about being clean. Find it hard to relax. What's the best way to douche?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes nice to be firm to grip with the muscles but not to cause pain, as it was in the first time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

the way I was taught, fill the bottle with warm water squeeze gently to rid of air, insert still holding squeeze of the bottle and insert into arse - when fully in squueze hard emptying the bottle of water and still holding the squeeze remove from the body. wait a while before getting rid of water and bowel contents. It works for me!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

richard was fucking my arse, beautiful action mmmmm.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Some good advice on here. I get so uptight about being clean. Find it hard to relax. What's the best way to douche? "

Buy a bulb pump douche for a a quick douch for quick fun or buy a shower attachment to do a deeper douche if you're gonna play all night

Relax and let the water in... Try to hold for a bit then release without straining too much xx

Strain too much ans you'll likely get cramps

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

I dunno how you train your arse to take a bigger Cock

... as naturally it goes back to normal unless you want a hole wider than a hippos yawn

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It just takes practise and the biggest thing is to relax ... no butt plugs in the world is going to teach you that! Plus cooks come in all different shapes and sizes but neva seen one resemble a butt plug! ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanting advice tips in preparing my virgin arse for guy fucking me - I have been using a butt plug but want my orifice to be enlarged so making it easier for a cock to enter.

Any advice on how often and best type of butt plug to use please xxx"

#1 if you have been fucked already it's not virgin it's tight.

#2 do you not want to know you've been done the next day? I kinda like the painy thing the morning after, not massively painful but I at least like to wake up knowing I've been thoroughly buggered.

#3 use loads of lube, don't be afraid to squirt it up yourself.

#4 man up, take it like a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I want to be a man having anal SEX with another guy.. m mmm

And in a gay sauna i.e. Touch Sauna in Swindon - would love to be fucked by few guys

All your advice is superb and I will certainly follow it after my break in Cornwall this wkend Dave xXxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is a journey not a competition!

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

"Yes I have but it is tight and I want my arse hole to be relaxed for easy entry. Xxxx

Well you're not a 'virgin' then are you?

If richard happens to be the second penis in the pic of hin and another guy ... then im not sure it counted

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By *eardedSilverFoxMan
over a year ago

Colchester

"It is a genuine request for information that will help me to prepare and then to enjoy without too much pain the sexual enjoyment with all comers espec the well endowed guy.... xx"

Why do you call your arse a 'pussy'? It's an arse mate....simple!

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By *mmersCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

Woow there is soo much knowledge here in this thread :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is a genuine request for information that will help me to prepare and then to enjoy without too much pain the sexual enjoyment with all comers espec the well endowed guy.... xx

Why do you call your arse a 'pussy'? It's an arse mate....simple! "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanting advice tips in preparing my virgin arse for guy fucking me - I have been using a butt plug but want my orifice to be enlarged so making it easier for a cock to enter.

Any advice on how often and best type of butt plug to use please xxx"

Ive a large office and its normally rammed full of cocks and a few fannys

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By *addy Bears KittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Daddy Bear disagrees with comments about lube........for giving and receiving there is nothing that beats spit !!

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By *izadoCouple
over a year ago

Keighley

You can get dildos which have a pump attached so that you can enlarge them when they're inside you. Along with all the other advice, these help with learning to accommodate bigger. You can take it at your own pace, be in control of when to stop or pump up more and they also save you buying lots of different size dildos. We love them for both pussy and anal play

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

The other thread you have running says you keep a dildo in your arse. Doesn't match with this thread.....?

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Sused!!!

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By *inkiepairCouple
over a year ago

dublin

great tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love this thread title. Not a hint of tenderness cos it's "guy sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a pillow close by so you can scream into it"

And several pinches of salt around the area too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dunno how you train your arse to take a bigger Cock

... as naturally it goes back to normal unless you want a hole wider than a hippos yawn

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By *immf-guyMan
over a year ago

Bath

From my own experience, the first couple of times I was fucked I took it laying on my back, legs spread and knees draw back to my chest. I was told that position allows everything inside to settle naturally into place and open up more easily. It worked for me and gave me the confidence that I could take cock without much pain. I subsequently tried lots of other positions but my favourite remains variations of being on my back and wide open, legs in the air.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mmmm thanks for that advice - that was my very first time with a guy in Bath...

I was VERY surprised to find he was totally in my arse. My second time was doggy and so enjoyable with no pain... just sheer luxury pleasure.

XXxX

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By *ikeC2012Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Read with interest. I soooo want to feel a guy in me, but I know I'm tight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read with interest. I soooo want to feel a guy in me, but I know I'm tight"

Everyone is tight, unless they've deliberately stretched themselves. That's one of the reasons why bum sex feels so good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I do love that feeling on entering a tight warm orifice and by using a butt plug I do hope all guys using my arse will get the same enjoyment espec bareback..... cx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goose fat to grease the pipe and shaft

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will try that and enjoy the wank!!

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