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By *clc OP   Couple
over a year ago

Athlone/Dublin

Hi there

My missus says she wants to stop swinging as she does not like it, but if we go to a club she is very quite and demur and when things start to get hot she turns wild and joins in the fun and is never shy to do anything with anyone. Which I don't have an issue with

A week later if I suggest let's goto to a club she says no never again.

It is very frustrating, maybe I should just give up swinging

Any suggestions

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Hi there

My missus says she wants to stop swinging as she does not like it, but if we go to a club she is very quite and demur and when things start to get hot she turns wild and joins in the fun and is never shy to do anything with anyone. Which I don't have an issue with

A week later if I suggest let's goto to a club she says no never again.

It is very frustrating, maybe I should just give up swinging

Any suggestions "
sugg st you speak with her op

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

you need to sit down and talk to her and get to the route of why she wants to stop and what she is thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there

My missus says she wants to stop swinging as she does not like it, but if we go to a club she is very quite and demur and when things start to get hot she turns wild and joins in the fun and is never shy to do anything with anyone. Which I don't have an issue with

A week later if I suggest let's goto to a club she says no never again.

It is very frustrating, maybe I should just give up swinging

Any suggestions sugg st you speak with her op "

I have to agree. Communication is the key

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sometimes some threads make you glad to be single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's time for a very frank chat with the good lady and do what's rite for your relationship

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi there

My missus says she wants to stop swinging as she does not like it, but if we go to a club she is very quite and demur and when things start to get hot she turns wild and joins in the fun and is never shy to do anything with anyone. Which I don't have an issue with

A week later if I suggest let's goto to a club she says no never again.

It is very frustrating, maybe I should just give up swinging

Any suggestions "

Maybe she feels bad afterwards, maybe she just does it because she knows you like it, nobody knows but her.

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By *clc OP   Couple
over a year ago

Athlone/Dublin

When she plays SHE PLAYS

Nothing will stop her

She really enjoys herself

She is worried that we will bump into someone we know, which is understandable

And she things I go on about swinging too much , probably right there

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"When she plays SHE PLAYS

Nothing will stop her

She really enjoys herself

She is worried that we will bump into someone we know, which is understandable

And she things I go on about swinging too much , probably right there

"

Could it be that she feels that you're more interested in swinging than her? If you're only really interested in her sexually if she's swinging or you mention it too frequently she might feel very hurt. I have to say if that is the case you discussing your concerns with other swingers isn't going to help.

Sit down, find out how your wife ticks and take it from there.

Good luck.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Sometimes some threads make you glad to be single "

Yes and no. I just hope that I can find someone who is on the same page as myself in as many areas as possible. Valuing communication would be a good start...

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Very confusing, the best thing is to do what makes you happy.

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